Frank Parlato
FR cannot confirm if Catherine Youssef Kassenoff died in Switzerland last weekend. She was a former federal prosecutor and attorney in a four-year divorce and custody dispute with Allan Kassenoff, an attorney with Greenberg Traurig. They had three daughters.
Though Catherine put her career on hold to be her children’s primary caregiver, Family Court in Westchester County, NY removed them from her custody three years ago.
Recently, Catherine was diagnosed with cancer for the third time (she had cancer in 2008 and 2017).
In a Facebook post on May 27, Catherine said she traveled to Switzerland, where she had an appointment at an assisted suicide facility that day. She wrote, “This is a story that ends with my own assisted death in Switzerland.”
She wrote: “The reason the courts engaged in this horror, where they ‘temporarily’ took away custody, my personal property, a home I owned and lived in, my dogs, my health, my career, and my dignity – for the last four years – was so that the nearly $4 million that Allan Kassenoff, my ex-husband, had to spend to destroy me could be handed out to the court-appointed forensics, therapists, lawyers for the children, and the attorney for Allan Kassenoff.”
Catherine’s Battle
Allan and Catherine Kassenoff
Allan and Catherine married in November 2006. They had three girls.
In February 2016, Allan allegedly assaulted Catherine in their home, for which she was treated at a nearby hospital. The couple continued to live together, though Allan declared an “open marriage.”
In 2016, Allan by stealth, secured Catherine’s Apple ID and password and secretly “synced” her iPhone with his laptop.
He secretly accessed Catherine’s email and text messages for years, leading to his filing for divorce in 2019.
Allan read communications from Catherine’s family members, friends, and others. He even got her texts and emails from her attorney, Cynthia Monaco.
May 2019
Allan Kassenoff
After his daughters disclosed to their schools that Alan allegedly kicked one of them, Allan filed for divorce in Family Court in Westchester County, New York.
Accusing her of “manipulating” the girls to make up abuse that never happened, Allan brought an ex-parte to kick Catherine out of their house and grant him temporary custody of the children.
Allan knew about parental alienation. He could hand-pick texts and emails to make her look like an alienator and exclude those that made him look like an abuser. Attached to Allan’s supporting papers were screenshots of text messages between Catherine and her attorney Monaco discussing legal strategy.
Allan’s affidavit included 11 select text messages from September 2018. Some were undated.
The judge granted his ex-parte application. Catherine was removed from the home. The judge granted Allan custody of the children.
October 2019
The Court appointed Carol Most [above] as the children’s attorney and her associate Dr. Marc Abrams as the custody evaluator.
Abrams conducted a “neutral” forensic evaluation.
Catherine told Abrams about Allan’s abuse. The children pleaded with Abrams to let them live with their mother; their father was abusive. Allan provided select text messages of Catherine’s to Abrams.
March 25, 2020
Abrams issued his custody evaluation report, recommending to Judge Lewis Lubell that Catherine, as a parental alienator, should not see the children.
March 27, 2020
Judge Lubell issued an ex-parte order excluding Catherine from her home and granting Allan temporary sole custody of the children.
When police came to her house to remove her, Catherine had to leave without her belongings. During the COVID pandemic, Catherine was childless and homeless overnight. For a time, Catherine lived out of her car.
Catherine Kassenoff
July 2020
Allan got Judge Nancy Koba to sign an ex-parte temporary order of protection (“TOP”) for the children against their mother. Catherine fought and got it vacated. She was permitted to see her children with a paid supervisor at a cost of thousands per month.
January 2021
The oldest daughter ran away to live with Catherine. She was forced to return.
Attorney Most selected Susan Adler and Carolyn McGuffog, both PsyDs, as the children’s new therapists at $600 and $450/hour, respectively. The therapists let Allan sit in on the sessions.
September 2021:
Dr. Adler decided that one of the girls, Charlotte, should never have contact with Catherine. Dr. McGuffog suggested Ally go to a “therapeutic boarding school” after she fled her father’s home a second time to live with her mother.
Dr. Adler described Ally as a truant, not a victim of domestic abuse.
Dr. McGuffog told Ally she “had to pick” between Catherine and herself as to whom to follow.
Drs Adler and McGuffog made nearly $100,000 from the children’s therapy.
Catherine sued Dr. Adler in Westchester County on the grounds of fraudulent inducement.
August 24, 2021
Through Catherine’s efforts, the Panel of Forensic Custody Evaluators removed Dr. Abrams for gross misconduct.
Dr. Abrams allegedly asked Catherine inappropriate sexual questions, as he reportedly did with other women during custody interviews. For example, he asked Cecilia Thomas to “lie on top of him” during an evaluation, she claimed.
Dr. Abrams was removed from the Kassenoff case.
Judge Lubell appointed forensic evaluator Kathleen McKay to make an “updated” report.
An Apartment, Then Eviction
Catherine began to get back on her feet and rented a three-bedroom apartment near the children in Larchmont.
Allan went to get another ex-parte TOP against Catherine.
Without a hearing, a judge signed a “one-mile stay away” order, requiring Catherine to vacate her apartment because it was within a mile of the children.
Catherine had to live in basements and couches of friends. She was not allowed to return to her apartment to get her belongings.
September 15, 2021:
Due to work obligations, Catherine asked to appear remotely in Judge Lubell’s courtroom or reschedule the appearance.
Judge Lubell threatened her with incarceration and an arrest warrant and to file an attorney’s grievance if she did not appear.
Catherine did not understand. Judge Lubell routinely allowed Allan to reschedule, absent himself from status conferences, and appear remotely.
Later, she understood why the excellent judge was angry. Catherine had gotten Dr. Abrams kicked off the custody evaluator panel. Judge Lubell was Dr. Abrams’ good friend. The judge even officiated Abrams’ wedding at his house.
November 2021:
Catherine accused Judge Lubell of bias. As a result, he recused himself from the case, citing “strong support for his recusal” in the record.
The custody evaluator, McKay, met with Allan 17 times and nine times with Catherine. She never observed Catherine interact with two of the three children. She never interviewed the children alone, permitting Allan to sit in the next room.
During this time, Catherine visited her children with a supervisor present to listen and watch them. She barely saw them from week to week and was not alone. The custody supervisor gave good reports about Catherine’s conduct with the children.
But Dr. McKay stopped meeting with Catherine while meeting with Allan. She also met with Dr. Adler for her professional opinion after Catherine sued her.
January 25, 2022:
Allan had the family court throw her out of their house and apartment. – a country mile away from the children at all times because experts said alienated the children from him.
But the one-mile stay away had expired.
Catherine was spotted in the vicinity.
Allan went to Larchmont police, alleging Catherine violated the TOP.
January 26, 2022:
Catherine was in front of her daughter’s school, getting into her car, when four police officers pinned her behind her car door. Police frisked, cuffed, arrested, took her to a holding cell, and led her before a judge, where she was arraigned.
Someone informed her employer – she was special counsel to the NY governor’s office – of her arrest. A few days later, she was fired as special counsel, a job she held for seven years.
Catherine went to court to prove no TOP prevented her from being outside her child’s school. The court dismissed her charges — no ACD, no plea on March 16, 2022.
Catherine had no contact with her children since June 2021.
Fall 2022
Catherine went after the court-appointed attorney for the children, Carol Most, alleging unethical conduct. Most was removed from the case for misconduct and denied $113,000 of her $270,000 invoice for “services” on behalf of the children.
March 18, 2023:
Catherine went to see her 9-year-old daughter skate at her lesson. There was no valid TOP to prevent her. Allan came off the ice to confront her. Catherine told him to “get away from me.”
Allan caused a 911 call. Four police officers came to the rink. Allan said there was a TOP against her, which was untrue. Police did not arrest her this time.
May 2023:
Custody evaluator McKay made her final custody evaluation report, and the court adopted it. The judge issued a one-line order that Catherine could not have contact with her children.
This was it, it appears.
There had been over 3,000 court filings, with 80 motions in her case. There were three attorneys for the children and new therapists.
“I have liquidated retirement and other savings,” Catherine wrote, adding that Allan spent millions to get custody.
“The money being made at the expense of her family,” she said, “is so abhorrent that there will be nothing left at the end.
“My children have been diagnosed with various serious mental health conditions due to this trauma. They have been told to hate me, to call me ‘Catherine’ instead of mom,’ to give Mother’s Day cards to Allan’s … girlfriend … to call me a ‘liar’ and a ‘gaslighter.’
“The abuser who claimed he was alienated has repeatedly been empowered by the Courts of New York State to alienate me, the protective parent, from my own children…
“I am a 2-time breast cancer survivor with a new dire diagnosis that makes continuing this fight impossible.
“I continue to be placed on supervision, with no more than a few hours a week with my girls. No overnights, no taking my children to school, no bathing them, no hosting sleepovers or birthday parties, no getting to know their friends, no vacations, no living with them. The courts have thoroughly excised me from their lives…
“My oldest continues to try to see me secretly, calls me incessantly, and is screamed at by Allan and Kraft for doing so. She and her younger, terrified sisters know nothing will change in this courthouse for them, so they have been effectively silenced.
“Don’t let my death be in vain. And please ensure my children know the truth about me and what happened to them here in the great state of New York…
“Perhaps if I had not been re-diagnosed with cancer, I could have lasted longer in this fight. But I do not have the strength to go forward. More importantly, I do not want to traumatize my children anymore in this court system, where Allan and his attorney Gus Dimopoulos have used them to continue their abuse…
“Please direct any information or inquiries to my dear friend, Wayne Baker, at federallitigator@gmail.com.”
Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist, media strategist, publisher, and legal consultant.
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TOTAL FAILING of the child protective services. There is PLENTY of evidence to show those children are being used as pawns, which their mental health reflects. It’s textbook. Having him sit in their counselling sessions was ridiculous. Those children will NEVER forgive him for the abuse… and they wont forget.
I found it disturbing how she kept invading her husbands privacy to video him. When he was showering, cleaning the dishes or just speaking in frustration. The constant video in his face was disturbing. I actually thought it was honest he told her how he really felt. Most men don’t do that. I don’t see how that’s appropriate behavior.
It says somewhere in the original documents (Catherine’s psych evaluation maybe?) that she and Allan both agreed to start video taping each other to better understand their marriage and to improve their communication skills. Both took videos of the other. Both started taping after the escalations began. That means we don’t know what events, words, fears etc. led to each conflict recorded.
Two things are for sure:
1. All members of the family were in crisis. Purposely adversarial for-profit family court was the last place that family needed to be.
2. Catherine seems to have gone into the process thinking — or trusting — that the Westchester County family court would be like all other courts of law.
Unfortunately, “family courts” aren’t courts of law like all other courts of law.
Family courts are purposely adversarial like other courts. However, in “family courts” there’s been no oversight or accountability for family court attorneys and various vendors who purposely mismanage the cases. The more mismanaged the cases are, the more profit one can earn working with families in crisis. Unlike most other court cases in other courts of law, “family court” cases can last up to eighteen years — or more — until each child “ages out of the system”.
The players in the Kassenoff “family court” case took about $3,000,000 from just that one family. The judge knew the evaluator who knew the attorney for the minor children who knew the children’s evaluator etc. The players on that stage for that show cornered Catherine like cats corner a mouse. She didn’t realize what was happening until it was too late.
The video recordings show: He was angry. She was angry. The children were stressed. She was stressed. He was stressed. He yelled. She yelled. He and she loved all three of their children very much.
One thing all the videos also show for sure:
1. A once-wonderful family in crisis at the mercy of Westchester County “family courts”.
Evil in every single way! Time for justice for Catherine and her girls!! She was the Best Mom and her girls wanted to be with her!
This is such a crazy story none of which I believe. She is an attorney a mother and a wife. Being kicked out of her house living in a car not allowed to see her children. I am sorry but I don’t believe one word. An assisted suicide in Switzerland please more lies. Let’s see her diagnosis
Didn’t you read the article. He is evil and has connections. She was diagnosed with breast cancer for the third time. That’s why she couldn’t fight anymore. This sort of thing happens every minute of every day.
It’s been happening to me the past three years. Same exact scenario. My ex does the same work as Alan and has connections. My life is over too.
Why did she want to make up a story? Didn’t you prepare the case? And it happened more often than you think. Divorce is ugly.Wake up. She married to an evil person who happened to be a lawyer himself.Justic was not serve for sure .
Yea you idiot obviously you did not look at the overwhelming evidence you dim wit.
what evidence? a video of her pissed off a pissed off husband. I have read her dropbox, please detail the evidence, I see a bunch of accusations. Now call me a nasty name, like people do here when someone disagrees with them. That is evidence of something and it is not her husband’s abuse.
We obviously know who u are bahahhaha pos 🙄
He is evil, manipulative, abusive and narcissistic. What he did to her and them children will forever affect there lives 🤦
Fredi- I agree. Where is the PROOF. I can say I play in the WNBA, doesn’t make it true. I can say I have cancer and set up a go fund me, but where is the proof? A woman who kept such a detailed dropbox of info would surely put her medical info in there for proof of her cancer. It just can’t pass the stink test. She sounds crazy to me. And if you look up some of the women who unquestionably support her claims, quite a few have also lost custody of their children. Just saying.
Family court is even more corrupt that I thought with all the paid trolls commenting here. They have no decency. This woman lost her life!
Stop being a jerk, your comment is rude and pathetically childish. Hope you never face this, and if you did I hope people judge you and say you are a liar.
The family court system in NY is disgusting, I went through it with my father, my best friend has gone through it. It’s about who you know, how you can manipulate the system and the money you pay.
Your ignorance is incredible. This happened to me.I have been prevented from seing my daughter for the past 7 years!
You need is to run a quick Google search and you may find that family court is a very corrupt place where all the professionals are on stage to get as much money as possible from the abusive parent who will fund the litigation!
“…Ensure proper oversight for allegations of misconduct and bias from Family Court Judges, Clerks and Child Custody Recommending Counselors (often referred to as mediators), particularly in cases involving domestic violence. …”
https://solanofamilies.org/solano-family-justice-our-mission/
Google Drive to Catherine Kassenoffs’ Court Documents
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1ZitsXgychSTNxN4FXFjjoip93w4E6EaN?usp=drive_link
Coverage on Catherine Kassenoff and Allan Kassenoff
Bloomberg News
https://news.bloomberglaw.com/health-law-and-business/wake-up-call-greenberg-partner-resigns-after-abuse-allegations
NY POST
https://nypost.com/2023/06/12/attorney-blamed-by-ex-wife-in-suicide-note-resigns-from-firm/
https://nypost.com/2023/06/11/ex-emailed-catherine-kassenoff-that-he-will-never-stop-before-her-assisted-suicide/
https://nypost.com/2023/06/10/mom-posted-assisted-suicide-note-to-facebook-after-custody-battle/?utm_source=url_sitebuttons&utm_medium=site%20buttons&utm_campaign=site%20buttons
Dailymail.co.
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12181087/Mother-ended-life-diagnosed-terminal-cancer-losing-custody-kids.html?ito=email_share_article-top
https://www.dailymail.co.uk/news/article-12183177/Abusive-husband-sent-terrifying-email-NY-mom-claiming-never-stop-win-custody.html
Above the law
https://abovethelaw.com/2023/06/the-biglaw-files-how-power-and-privilege-harm-the-legal-profession/
https://abovethelaw.com/2023/06/biglaw-partners-furious-tirades-go-viral-revealing-family-tragedy/?fbclid=IwAR0-4DxYIb74hkQTBhbs7e6yfYf_G399z-hM6Gh1_X2z0Q2ifQQJAZrQULA
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/08/catherine-kassenoffs-last-mothers-day-message-to-children-allans-lawyer-shoves-back/
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/08/allan-kassenoff-tops-martindale-hubbell-with-1-profile-visibility-among-2-1-million-lawyers/
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/07/final-days-catherine-kassenoff-bought-house-for-kids-then-termination-of-parental-rights-terminal-diagnosis-as-suicide-remains-unconfirmed/
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/06/facebook-posts-and-sexual-misconduct-allegations-dr-abrams-role-in-catherine-kassenoffs-ruin-revealed/
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/04/fr-investigates-catherine-kassenoff-forced-out-of-home-separated-from-children-based-on-findings-of-custody-evaluator-paid-by-father/#comment-227651
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/03/kassenoffs-law-firm-defends-announces-allan-took-leave-to-focus-on-family-fr-will-assist-in-showing-the-truth/
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/03/raw-emotion-and-rage-18-videos-of-allan-kassenoff-with-catherines-shocking-descriptions/#comment-227083
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/02/how-greenberg-traurig-lawyer-allan-kassenoff-used-family-court-to-end-catherine-kassenoffs-life-steal-3-children-and-who-conspired-with-him/
https://frankreport.com/2023/05/31/catherine-kassenoff-lost-her-kids-home-health-savings-and-life-through-crafty-husband-family-court-play/
https://frankreport.com/2023/05/28/is-she-dead-final-post-from-mother-who-lost-her-kids-through-family-court-to-wealthy-attorney-husband/
https://msmagazine.com/2023/06/05/catherine-kassenoff-death-child-custody-divorce-court/
Videos of Allan Kassenoff’s Abuse & Family Court Corruption
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7242374472500792622?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7241983224283450666?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7241174878207069486?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7240453967728168234?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7240063019391225131?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7239750147268267306?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
News
https://westchester.news12.com/estranged-husband-of-deceased-westchester-family-court-activist-on-leave-amid-probe-of-suicide-note-allegations
https://westchester.news12.com/westchester-family-court-activist-apparently-dies-by-assisted-suicide-during-battle-for-kids-cancer-diagnosis
NY Judges that made Catherine Kassenoff Childless, Homeless
Judge Lewis Lubell ruled Allan should have sole custody of the kids and sole possession of the family home in Larchmont. He ordered Catherine evicted without notice. lLubell@nycourts.gov (2) Judge Nancy Quinn Koba, who, without hearing from Catherine or the children, signed orders to keep Catherine away from her children nkoba@nycourts.gov (3) Dr. Marc Abrams [above], custody evaluator #1. His recommendation: Because the mother “alienated” the children from their father, they should have no contact with their mother without a paid visitation supervisor listening to every word between mother and child. drabrams@drmarcabrams.com (4) Carol Most, attorney for the children, reportedly billed $270,000 to work for the “best interest of the children.” She recommended the court remove the mother from the children’s lives. gd@dimolaw.com; carolmost@cwmost.com; (5) Let’s not forget Dr. Kathleen E Mckay, MD. Dr. Kathleen McKay, the second custody evaluator, who replaced Dr. Abrams. Dr. Mckay decided Catherine should not see the children at all, even with a visitation supervisor, denying Catherine’s last wish to see her children before she died. https://www.vitals.com/doctors/1sk5x2/kathleen-mckay https://doctor.webmd.com/doctor/kathleen-mckay-5d858624-6a34-4436-a8d0-a38571a9fe89-overview https://www.ratemds.com/doctor-ratings/2843759/Dr-KATHLEEN+E.-MCKAY-Hartsdale-NY.html
NY State Bar Complaints Email for Westchester County ad2-grv9@nycourts.go
Allan Kassenoff Martindale-Hubbell Profile
https://www.martindale.com/attorney/allan-a-kassenoff-478326/
This case reflect too many terrible outcomes that so many families face. There are more angry and sick people where ever you go. People want to control at all costs without thinking about what is, “In the best interest of the children.” That will never stop but it’s time more programs are created before a case can be taken to court. Empower potential litigants to understand how their actions will impact their children. A four hour class is not sufficient in my opinion. I ran classes years ago.
I feel terrible what all families go through especially the children who pay the heaviest as it impacts can be life time. Cathrine dying is very sad and disturbing. It reflects that it’s really time now to make changes. Her story and others who have face such destruction need further exposure and support.
We all have our stories that are worse than others.
I trusted my “own immediate family” when they kindly offered to help when physically I needed 2 surgeries. The betrayal by them in refusing to return my younger one, led to custody battle. Then ended with my being “literally cut from the family tree”, facing living deaths of siblings and cousins. I also see the impact on my adult children. My eddort and knowledge I now offer, helped to regain a relationship with both of them.
It’s very important to stress the realities when “anger takes control over a person, “and how you see similar behavior by those who are to protect our children. That will never change but we can “create change” by screening those who display “counterproductive actions” in the name of our children and have them removed. New rules should be developed to determine what is acceptable behaviors by those in a decision making role in family court actions.
As a Former Guardian Ad Litem, national Recognized Expert on Divorce and Single Parenting, and founder of an Phoenix award winning nonprofit, National Single Parent Resource Center, we are preparing to provide virtual programs to prepare parents for navigating the system that we did early on that were in person. They worked too by the testimonials received.
Today we are looking for the right Professionals to work with us so we can expand beyond our state of Florida in due time. As a team of Intelligent Professionals who have integrity, truly care, and can leave egos behind, we can reduce the tragedies that are all too common over the last several decades.
If in Florida and care to bring change please email: Judy@CoachJudy.info www,CoachJudy,info
I care about our children do you? One can’t achieve great success without a good team behind them.
Please let us know how a regular person can help Catherine attain JUSTICE AND PROTECT HER CHILDREN ASAP!! I am also divorced and WAS met with unlawful attorneys, child counselors and most likely the JUDGE, not nearly to that degree- we can’t let Catherine’s Death Be in vain🙏🏻
Over the course of the past forty years, too much damage has been done to our nation’s children and families.
Every family court case needs a referral to the criminal court whenever major crimes are alleged.
Every family court case needs a jury when requested.
Every family court courtroom needs a camera on when corruption is suspected.
Americans can no longer blindly trust “family courts”.
So, is there someone we can contact so that we can get these people investigated? This is just so heartbreaking, and I would love to help take action by sending emails or making phone calls.
Maybe the New York governor’s office would know?
My ex-husband was exactly like this man. I went through this every single day, walking on eggshells. He was like Jekyll and hyde. Anything could set him off. He would scream and yell and scare my daughters and I exactly like this. He would put holes in walls and damaged things like objects around the house and even my car. He would yell like that over us when we would try to talk. He was a monster. I actually stayed in that marriage because he had me believing that I was the problem and that I was the person who drove him to become the person that he had become. Now, thinking back, he had always been that person. Since the day I had met him. He was even like that with his first wife. He had beaten me down to where I had no self-esteem and he was such a different person in front of other people that he had them believing that I was the bad person. He filed for divorce after our youngest child was 18. He didn’t realize he’d have to pay alimony for the next 20 years. Then he wanted to get back together. When I wouldn’t get back together with him, he told all of our friends and families that he filed for divorce because I was cheating on him. Of course that was a lie, but that was just to make me look bad. He had to do something like that. One last shot to try to make me look bad because he had lost control over me and I didn’t want to get back together with him after he filed for divorce. Now that our children are 29 and 27, they lived all of the abuse and want nothing to do with him and to this day he will accuse me of parental alienation. They are adults and he accuses me of Parental alienation. What a joke. But if you ask his friends and family, he’s the greatest thing next to sliced bread. No one knows what these men are like behind closed doors. If I could show everybody my videos, I would. I took my own in secret just in case I ever needed them. It’s what we have to do because if you don’t have videos, you can’t prove anything. Nobody will believe us.
Absolutely what a covert narcissist is. I married and divorced one of them. It’s so difficult to prove who they really are.
My heart is broken 💔 justice has to be served to allow me to continue to have faith in people
If any judge or therapist involved saw even just those few video snippets and still gave sole custody to the father, they should lose their job & credentials. There is no excuse for that behavior. Not even if “provoked”. Not even once. This is more than just a “bad moment”. The things that he said to the mother in front of the children are inexcusable. Unconscionable.
At the end of the day these poor girls have lost their mother and are living with a narcissist and psychotic man. I hope and pray that someone in Catherine’s life can get custody and give them a proper home and upbringing
A horrifying recounting….Westchester County is rampant with this kind of”justice.” There should be a thorough revamp of the whole system along with caps on how much these bloodsuckers should get paid for lousy results. It’s appalling!
How does one access the docket? Do you have a link>
She was kicked out of the marital home with no notice & was not allowed to get her belongings?
I am wondering why a judge would make such a monumental decision affecting the the family without even meeting with them. I have to wonder if someone other than Allan Kassenoff from the legal community had influence with her .
It’s good that all the materials from the DropBox account have been downloaded and saved in so many other places both in the cloud and on offline devices. It will take some time but suspension and, later, disbarment seem likely. By accessing the wife’s accounts—including her communication with her attorneys—and perhaps using that communication against her in ongoing litigation, there will likely be issues with the NY bar authorities. Will be great to get some insight from an expert like Steven Gillers from NYU Law.
I would not doubt if this man (Allan) has some sort of cluster b personality disorder. He essentially kidnapped his kids by court order. When the kids were forced to be with him, I would not be surprised if they became so broken down by him and the system telling lies about their mother, that they realized if they were going to “survive,” they would have to agree with their father that their mother was a parental alienator. If the true alienator (Allan) convinces the court and coerces the kids into believing that the alienated parent (Catherine) was an alienator, what would we call this? I think what happens in cases like this should be a crime. But how can it be a crime if the courts believe very vindictive and manipulative people like Allan? I think that every “high conflict” family court case should involve a court ordered assessment of both parents’ mental health, including the MMPI. If one of the parents is diagnosed with a cluster b personality disorder like NPD or BPD, then the court should consider that it is not in the child’s best interest for that parent to have custody. I think Allan may be personality disordered or worse. I’ve never heard of a mental health professional believing that a sociopath or cluster b personality disordered parent is going the be good for children. I believe people with these diagnoses are very dangerous to children, both mentally and physically.
I think that is why Catherine lost custody. Likely cluster b.
My reply is to “Anon” about whose post was on June 5th, discussing that Allan has to be cluster B. Absolutely. No mentally healthy person would do this.
I absolutely agree with you.
I think everybody involved in this case on Allan’s side need to be investigated for fraud, abuse of the system, misconduct and any other thing that they could find on them for favoring Allan and obviously his lies and no evidence. I cannot believe the court system did this to this woman and her children. They all need to be punished.WTF?
I wholeheartedly agree. At the very least, Allan should lose custody of the children.
So everyone that sided with him was corrupt? Everyone. 4 separate judges? Seem like there is more to the story. The video is damning but does it show what led up to the outbursts?
He could have walked away and didn’t. If you look through all of the folders of evidence Catherine left behind (not just the videos), he was still screaming at the children (their own words) long after Catherine had been banished from her home. Yes, there is more to the story but there is no excuse… the abuse is clear.
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1ZitsXgychSTNxN4FXFjjoip93w4E6EaN?direction=a&fbclid=IwAR1KHyN5FkLcEQ-wabyZarPcbpTpDE3RP2gsLQBEwS_Zhj1hpD5kl7PsWN0
Video doesn’t lie ,to those that are saying she is lying. And the children know who the abuser is. Their father.
Except if you actually asked the children, they would tell you how Catherine abused them and that Allan has been an incredible father who puts their needs first always.
They have spent actual time with both parents. Do you all really think that a 5 minute tik tok compilation with videos dating back to at least 5 years is indicative of the childhood they’ve had and their relationship with their father?
Shame on all of you!! Claiming to care about the children but failing to see how what you’re all doing is destroying them. If you knew them you would know that they have an amazing relationship with their father and are terrified of Catherine because of the way she treated them. Do you all think you’re mind readers and experts because you saw videos from years ago? Maybe take a step back and realize that you’re not seeing a full story and you can’t assume how a child feels based on a video of them from 5 years ago…
So u know the truth? Who r u? Allan’s friend?
Probably Allan or his Gf
Allen has the maturity of a two year old having a temper tantrum. Anyone who has any experience with narcissistic abuse can see that he is the abuser. I am so disturbed by the injustices done to this poor woman and her three daughters. To know that there are people who will defend this kind of treatment to a fellow human being is so sick. I am also well aware that cluster b personality disordered ( narcissists, borderlines, histrionic and anti social/ psychopaths) individuals run in packs with each other, they are connected to the hive mind. I really hope people will see to it that ALL of these people that made sure a dying mother could not be with her three young daughters in her final days will be held accountable for their role in her death and her daughters being sent to live with their abuser. Start calling the courts daily and demanding these people be fired.
Allan’s behavior in those videos, no matter how old they are, is a pretty good indicator of who he really is – and how he can behave toward his children. He’s a monster, and he either paid enough or manipulated the whole system. I would say both.
This was a paid advertisement by Dad of the year!
Not to be construed with a real father, man or human. Because those don’t do what he OBVIOUSLY has done.
@Someone who actually knows them
@Fed up
Well, here are 32 pages of emails from the children to Catherine describing how scared they are of their dad and how much they want to live with her:
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1_OubNscwUf1gEkNApBL8KlfVJNlkI3VM
I thought the videos were bad enough but the emails are completely heartbreaking. It also shows that the terror campaign continued without the cameras on.
These emails are heartbreaking. Their father is not even around and is doing his own thing. He “fought for them”….where is he when they need help with their homework, have had a difficult school day, are lonely and miss their mom…
Hi Allen this is you correct Fed up???
Maybe Allan is a better father than we’ve seen, sure. And maybe Catherine wasn’t perfect, sure that could be true too. But for Catherine to have NO custody? None? Sorry, that doesn’t add up.
You are clearly in need of medication!
It’s not just a 5-minute tick neck compilation. Have you downloaded all of the documents and read them? Have you read all of the emails from the kids? Have you read everything from the therapist saying that the kids are afraid to tell him that they missed their mom? Have you read what they were telling other parents? Have you heard about how they couldn’t talk to their mom when their dad was around? Did you hear about how he would hang up on Catherine while their children were talking to her? There’s more than just the five minute tick tock.
this must be Suri
That’s why the oldest daughter ran away to be with her mother- more than once? The text and emails the girls were sending their mother about how scared they were of their father and begging to see her were the girls repeatedly lying? Why would they have sent those messages to her? Repeatedly I’ve r the last several years even recently? Obviously they weren’t terrified of their mother. Those messages were not 5 years ago.
No child could go through a parental divorce like this for the past 4 years and have a good childhood.
And you claim no one knows how Catherine treated the children? The only way she has any contact with them was via supervised visits for the past several years and most of the time she was allowed no contact with them at all. So please explain how exactly did she treat her children so terribly? She just wanted to be their mom, love her children and be a part of their lives. .
The only person to destroy their lives is their father. And he’s still doing it.
This is a despicable situation and I know many this has occurred to. Very sad & something should be done about
Catherine’s a master manipulator and you’re all falling for it. She is very smart, no one will deny that, but there’s a reason she was only allowed to see her children with supervision. 2 neutral forensic investigators deemed her to be a threat to her children. Maybe ask yourself why instead of claiming that all of these professionals are “corrupt” and “out to get her.” Would they risk their careers and reputation over one man? No amount of money could make someone take a risk like that.
No child wants to see their parents in the media like this so if the children really are a priority, like many of you claim they are, maybe recognize how damaging all of this is to them (and please don’t respond saying the “abuse” from Allan was more damaging to them because none of you have clearly spoken to them if you think that).
Have none of you ever yelled in a moment of anger? No one knows what was said before to provoke a reaction or what was said after to reconcile their differences. Anyone pretending they’ve never yelled in the heat of the moment is a blatant liar. It doesn’t justify anything that was said, nor do we see what Catherine said that could’ve been incriminating because that would paint her in a poor light. It’s just simply unrealistic to think that she just sat there like an angel and it’s important to recognize that we are only seeing half of a picture. Anyone who thinks otherwise has never thought deeply about a moment of conflict.
This isn’t a mother standing up for her children. Imagine how mortified these children are to be in the media like this. For them to pick up their home phone and hear all of the horrible things you’re saying about their father. None of you have interacted with the children in the past few years or recently at all if you can say the things you’re saying. Be mindful of the slander you’re spreading and recognize the impact it has on them.
Hey Allan or one of his flying monkeys. We all see you for what you are, no use in trying to create reasonable doubt, there is no doubt what you are. 😉
I call bullsh#@*
@ Someone that actually knows them.
Where are your videos Allan? If you say she was such a threat.
Exactly!! Proof Allan!
Allan making up excuses for your vile behavior is horrific, you had connections, and colluded with these lying individuals to get your bogus ruling, you have more pull in court due to the fact Catherine gave up her Top 5 NYU law school degree to look after the children, whom you then took away by buying off experts, evaluations, bullshit, biased judges, to erase her from the children’s lives, your kids can been seen in the videos and countless other times screaming they “do not want to go back to that crazy man,” no your the threat Allan, your the abuser, the stalker, the liar, you should be in prison for what you done, you are a sickening, and the vilest of all criminals, there is a special place in hell for you. Being put on Supervision was because you hired an unethical team to lie for you, its all in her evidence, the supervisor Dr. Culley who actually had personal knowledge of the facts declared under penalty of perjury that she was perfectly capable of an expansion eventually to joint custody, then you hired more experts to lie to the court to discount Dr. Culley’s overwhelmingly positive reports of Catherine, she doesn’t need supervision, Allan you need to be in a mental hospital.
No Allan, we are seeing the whole picture she left an extensive collection of Certified Reporters Transcripts that show the legal games you play and the length you’d go to eliminate her from your children’s lives, its far more importantly your kids see you for what you are, an imbecile the worst of the worst scum and to know their mother Catherine loved them and fight to the death to see them, we have seen both sides, Judge Capeci found the GAL Carol Most who vouched for you as gravely concerning, dishonest to the point she should NOT be entitled to her fees she was hiding the fact she employed the Prosecutor who charged Catherine with Bullshit crimes which were dismissed with prejudice in her favor, so for you to come out to again spew lies just goes to show what a selfish, deranged, evil, and despicable trash of a human being you are, you deserve to be in prison for what you did, you children deserve to know the truth and what you did to their mother who loved them. We hate you Allan, we hate your still comfortably relaxing on vacation while Greenberg Traurig, LLP attempts to see if they can cover up your atrocities, however we will do the best on our end to make sure the truth is revealed, and the truth is just as ugly as you are, Allan.
https://twitter.com/kwff14/status/1665383982345904128/photo/2
Thank you!!! I think it is horrible that Catherine unleashed these private videos of the children and left them to deal with the horrific fallout. It seems extremely selfish and vindictive to me. Sorry.
You must be one of his followers. You aid in his disgusting behavior!
Finally!! Someone saying something intelligent. We need more people to think in a nuanced way and recognize the complexities of the situation. The trial has been ongoing for years and 5 minutes of a TikTok (which have been seen by the courts) don’t determine anything. There clearly is so much more that we’re not seeing. Allan must have videos of his own but he’s probably not sharing them to protect his kids. Clearly this person actually knows the children and family so maybe we shouldn’t just wave off what they’re saying and realize they’ve probably spoken to the children recently and know how they actually feel about everything…
Read this article earlier. Definitely a start to exposing some of the lies and misinformation that has been spread. Seems like there’s more to the story than what Catherine posted…
Makes you wonder what else we don’t know. Starting to feel bad for Allan 🙁
https://abovethelaw.com/2023/06/biglaw-partners-furious-tirades-go-viral-revealing-family-tragedy/
When did Judges Terminate all contact with Mothers for being manipulative in court, how is that a reason for separating a mother from her children? If Judge Koba nkoba@nycourts.gov can specify what Catherine Kassenoff did to warrant being removed from the kids lives forever, let me know. Furthermore the article misses the part where Judge Koba, (pig face) made these findings at an ex parte proceeding where Catherine was unable to defend herself. Judges lie to support their biased findings I see it everyday in court.
Ok Allan, we’ve heard enough your buls**t already. Accept the fact that the world knows you are a monster.
Ok Allan
Hmmm… I actually do know Catherine and Allan and have spent time with the girls although not in the past several years. I met and became quite close to Catherine in 2008 when we were both being treated for cancer and undergoing fertility treatments at St. Vincent’s in Chelsea. I liked them both so I’d like to think I can be objective. There is no denying the relationship between them was toxic from the beginning – they never got along and fought constantly. Relationships can be messy and nuanced, I agree. He started cheating on her with the nanny as early as 2010 fairly soon after she finished her 1st cancer treatment and Ally was just a baby… Not a great idea to then bring 2 more children into the mix. Why they didn’t call it quits then is bewildering… I’m sure dirt on Catherine will be uncovered BUT what you are failing to recognize is that it was not a moment of anger on Allan’s part. The videos show a prolonged, sustained pattern of abuse. Perhaps he was provoked as you claim – don’t know, don’t care. As the adult in the room, he could have walked way until calmer heads prevailed. There is NEVER an excuse to behave like that.
Those “neutral” investigators were PAID by Allan then removed in disgrace from the case. He opted to pay for them rather than the girls schooling. The videos are damning but ultimately not the worst part of Allan’s behavior. As much as they hated each other, everyone could have walked away with some form of shared custody, split up property and been done with each other. Instead, he “manipulated” the courts to eviscerate Catherine by buying experts within an incestuous cast of characters who could give him the results he wanted. The girls, by all accounts, wanted to live with their mother up until 3 years ago when Allan gained full custody – so clearly they were subsequently “manipulated” by him. Was Catherine perfect, no. Is being called manipulative in court a reason for separating a mother from her children, absolutely not. If you have actual evidence of what Catherine did to warrant being removed from the kids lives forever, please share. I’m sure we would all love to know the why.
Thats the problem Judges lie in their Findings and Orders to support their bogus rulings, and these bogus Orders are used against her and the following Judge follows in this misconduct, again and again.
Hmmm… I actually do know Catherine and Allan and have spent time with the girls although not in the past several years. I met and became quite close to Catherine in 2008 when we were both being treated for cancer and undergoing fertility treatments at St. Vincent’s in Chelsea. I really liked them both so I’d like to think I can be objective. There is no denying the relationship between them was toxic from the beginning – they never got along and fought constantly. Relationships can be messy and nuanced, I agree. He started cheating on her with the nanny as early as 2010 fairly soon after she finished her 1st cancer treatment and Ally was just a baby… Not a great idea to then bring 2 more children into the mix. Why they didn’t call it quits then is bewildering… I’m sure dirt on Catherine will be uncovered BUT what you are failing to recognize is that it was not a moment of anger on Allan’s part. The videos show a prolonged, sustained pattern of abuse. Perhaps he was provoked as you claim – don’t know, don’t care. As the adult in the room, he could have walked way until calmer heads prevailed. There is NEVER an excuse to behave like that.
Those “NEUTRAL” investigators were PAID by Allan then removed in disgrace from the case. He opted to pay for them rather than the girls schooling. The videos are damning but ultimately not the worst part of Allan’s behavior. As much as they hated each other, everyone could have walked away with some form of shared custody, split up property and been done with each other. Instead, he “manipulated” the courts to eviscerate Catherine by buying experts within an incestuous cast of characters who gave him the results he wanted. The girls, by all accounts, wanted to live with their mother up until 3 years ago when Allan gained full custody. He clearly indoctrinated the girls into fearing their own mom. Was Catherine perfect, no. Is being called manipulative in court a reason for separating a mother from her children forever, absolutely not. If you have actual evidence of what Catherine did to warrant being removed from the kids lives forever, please share. I’m sure we would all love to know the why.
Excellent Comment.
For anyone who doesn’t know, the children are showing signs of grouping together for protection. Children don’t act this way naturally. I saw maybe 2 videos of them interacting together, and the fact that they’re screaming back at the Father, means that they’re already emotionally dysregulated. Then, they’re grouping together in defense of each other. That can’t be “taught”. This is a purely natural reaction. The children were raised being yelled at, they get upset, but they’ve learned behavior that keeps them safe in a volatile environment. To call a mother a “thing” and various other abuses in front of the children… Bring that behavior to Texas, and we’ll show you how we handle it. You don’t treat anyone that way, much less a woman in front of her children,
Another term we can learn about from this post from Someone Who Actually Knows Them:
Narcissistic projection is a defense mechanism through which individuals “project” or see their own negative behaviors, emotions, and traits in someone else. Projection can be performed without the narcissist’s awareness as they struggle to hide uncomfortable inner conflicts, imperfections, and shortcomings. -www.choosingtherapy.com
Projection is very common with narcissists as they wrestle inwardly with who they really are.
This makes their partners wonder, am I crazy? Am I the narc in this relationship? The answer is no, you are not.
Narcissists lack empathy and the ability to soul search, then make amends. They have no remorse for how they treat others and how they make others feel. People without the disorder can see how they hurt others and make amends, or go to therapy to learn how to be and do better.
I see a lot of projection in this post. For the children’s sake I hope you see it also and do what is best for them.
She bought a nearly $900,000 home for cash, one month and ten days before she announced her suicide. The house was 1.2 miles from her children’s home in Larchmont. This makes no sense
It was heart wrenching to read this and everything that abusive narcistic monster Allen did to Catherine and those little girls–his own children. TYPICAL of what a narcissist does in divorce court. Money, influence, manipulation, coercion and a broken system CAN buy what a narcissist wants.
Catherine fought hard until she couldn’t fight anymore.
Rest in peace Catherine.
May God watch over your precious little girls.
Let KARMIC PAYBACK do her thing…and karma ALWAYS DOES.
YOUR TIME and payback is coming Allen. It’s going to be a b**ch of a PAYBACK, and you WILL DESERVE EVERYTHING that’s coming…
According to Jennifer Culley’s reports, it seems Allen engaged in parental alienation by successfully accusing Catherine of it, and then making it impossible for her to have a relationship with the kids. Allen is an alienator, no doubt. Mothers can also succeed in alienating children against fathers too.
My heart aches for those children and for Catherine. That man should not be able to get away with this???? Praying someone sees this who is high up and decides justice needs to be done.
You should see Valerie Houghton. She is an attorney and terrible person.
I mean who the hell is … a yoga instructor how dare she take down another woman & her family shame on you
She doesn’t even teach yoga lol
Pilates yoga ssdd – what she is really teaching is how to be a home wrecker but something tells me once he gets put on Alan and he’s not making his million dollars a year she’ll hit the Road Jack and go find someone else – gold digger
When will courts and law enforcement be educated on ALL forms of abuse and label them as domestic violence (verbal, emotional, financial, physical)? When will courts and law enforcement educate themselves on narcissistic personality disorder and take it seriously? After someone has reached full blown narcissism, next is one step away from sociopath. When will this be taken into account by courts and law enforcement? When will there be accountability? Why is this happening in the greatest country?
Agreed. Our nation is not stepping up to the plate . The family courts are in crisis. Bad attorneys, psychologist and judges. Catherine case is one of the worst. Heartbreaking 💔. Thank God Frank and a few others are brave enough to expose the family court system.
It’s as if Allen’s the bad guy just because he hated Catherine.
Not at all…He’s the bad guy because of the way he treated her!
And his kids. And his manipulation of the system. Why separate his children from their dying mother? That question alone speaks volumes. She clearly wasn’t a threat to them. So why why why. Because he is hateful and selfish and did not put the kids first.
Have you been living under a rock? Or perhaps under the influence of drugs or alcohol? Because that is the only way you could come to that conclusion. I assume by your name you are a female…which makes your stance unbearable for me. Women encouraging and enabling abuse of other women is the lowest of low. I’ll never understand it.
There is a term that exists for those who blindly support and follow toxic, narcissistic, sociopathic personalities. Those who blame a victim, even when the evidence has been clearly displayed.
The Flying Monkey will also abuse the victim in the same way by gaslighting, mentally and emotionally abusing as well.
I truly hope you research and understand what this term means, Flying Monkey, and stop it completely in your life Gillian G.
Signed,
Jennifer Mason (my real name)
Agreed
You sound like Catherine’s flying monkey, Jennifer. A blindly loyal follower with tunnel vision. Gillian sounds like an independent thinker.
Way too many people are reporting curruption in the court system. Way to much money to be made.
Ok […] whatever
I have been married to a narcissist and experienced first hand the rages, the emotional, mental and physical abuse of the narcissist.
I see it in these videos and the court documents.
I am only here to share what I have experienced and learned coming out of a very toxic and terrifying environment.
Today I live the peaceful life I once dreamed of with my partner. But he was not who he pretended to be before we were married.
It’s taken a long time to get here. Its hard work but it can be done. I hope, if you are in a situation like this, you have help, ask for help and/or start living your best peaceful life without the abuse.
No one deserves what a cluster b personality will do to you.
Jennifer you’re the real OG
May she rest in peace. I hope the people involved in the judicial system which prevented her from having contact with her children see the error of their ways. May her ex husband have to face himself and his actions for the rest of his life.
Hello from Australia!!!!
Allen you coward!!! To think this company is supporting a person like this is beyond a joke and says a lot about them!! This company is corrupt!! The legal system is corrupt. Allen may your rot in hell!!!
RIP Catherine we believe you from all around the world!!!
This is exactly what my rapist did to take my son away. I’m lucky he “only” took away my parental rights and I have *some* time with him, but the courts are so corrupt it’s disgusting.
It sounds like you were the targeted parent in a campaign of parental alienation. I’m sorry the family court failed you. Same thing happened to me – a father. Stay strong and continue to hope that one day your situation may get easier. Sadly, it alienators are relentless. They hate you more than they love the child.
This man is a monster.
https://www.facebook.com/catherine.y.kassenoff/posts/10210295435139796
These so called “courTs” R w/o Jurisdiction & bar members run this scheme.. of having AUTHORITY… when They Do NoT.
However participating is consenting & u willingly give up your personal Jurisdiction.. these R “contract courts” & need you to “file” & play their game so They can win. Lower Courts R CORPORATIONS (find the dun#).
Stay in the PRIVATE ‼️
It’s still happening in Westchester County Family Courts. I just heard of another story in their court system like this. So I do believe it. Sometimes people stay in their position of power too long and start taking advantage of the system. This Court needs to be revamped with people watching over them.
Absolutely right!
I hope your girls are in a safe loving place. I’m so sorry you endured this and had no one in your side. I know you are at peace now. I hope his life is full of being alone regret and angst.
Very doubtful. Narcissist have no accountability.
This reminds me of the current Solomon case in TN – only this time the son of the well connected narcissist died in a freak “accident” shortly after he turned 18 and could legally fight for his abused little sister Gracie and his mom. A call for a thorough investigation still has not been heeded by those in power. https://www.freedom4gracie.com/
I live in TN and I totally agree! We are dealing with such patriarchy and misogyny in this ultra-conservative state. Time for women in TN to come together and change the narrative!
https://familylawattorneymesaaz.net/divorce-for-men-why-do-women-get-child-custody-more-often/
https://www.facebook.com/catherine.y.kassenoff/posts/10210295435139796
Google Drive to Catherine Kassenoffs’ Court Documents
https://drive.google.com/drive/folders/1ZitsXgychSTNxN4FXFjjoip93w4E6EaN?usp=drive_link
Coverage on Catherine Kassenoff and Allan Kassenoff
https://westchester.news12.com/westchester-family-court-activist-apparently-dies-by-assisted-suicide-during-battle-for-kids-cancer-diagnosis
https://frankreport.com/2023/06/02/how-greenberg-traurig-lawyer-allan-kassenoff-used-family-court-to-end-catherine-kassenoffs-life-steal-3-children-and-who-conspired-with-him/
https://frankreport.com/2023/05/31/catherine-kassenoff-lost-her-kids-home-health-savings-and-life-through-crafty-husband-family-court-play/
https://frankreport.com/2023/05/28/is-she-dead-final-post-from-mother-who-lost-her-kids-through-family-court-to-wealthy-attorney-husband/
Videos
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7240063019391225131?is_from_webapp=1&sender_device=pc&web_id=7232341215227561518
NY Judges that made Catherine Kassenoff Childless, Homeless
nkoba@nycourts.gov
lLubell@nycourts.gov
iozer@nycourts.gov
scapeci@nycourts.gov
NY State Bar Complaints Email for Westchester County
ad2-grv9@nycourts.gov
Allan Kassenoffs’ Firm
achie@gtlaw.com,
aguirren@gtlaw.com,
Farah.Ahmed@gtlaw.com,
allemanr@gtlaw.com,
Elina.Alperovich@gtlaw.com,
anselld@gtlaw.com,
ballj@gtlaw.com,
Hal.Beerman@gtlaw.com,
Michael.Berlin@gtlaw.com,
Jonathan.Bing@gtlaw.com
THIS is what I am looking for. Thanks!
I have a need to read the hand-picked text messages that made it seem like one parent was alienating the children against the other parent.
Years ago I was fighting for custody for my out of wedlock son, who was never wanted by his bio dad until I filed for child support (biggest mistake of my life). The family court system is disgusting as well as the so called Dr’s working for the family courts. Evil is an understatement of how mothers are treated over fathers, no matter if they ever cared about the kids or not. I read a book which describes them perfectly called “Whores of the Court”. Its a money making business for them, nothing to do with what is best for the children. This poor woman.
This coward, spineless, morally corrupt poor excuse of a human being should not have access to those children. He is a disgrace to the legal practice and should be stripped of his law license and never be allowed to practice law anywhere.
He’s on a leave of absence from his job. Hope they kick him to the curb and there is a morals clause that makes it so he does not get a penny for his termination.
Enjoy your downward spiral you horrible piece of crap.
Yes make the children homeless and hungry just like cat wanted
He really is a piece of crap. He could have made this a peaceful divorce and just be civilized and say we are not a good for each other anymore and we need to go on and he could’ve been an nicer person by letting her see the kids and him seeing the kids instead he has so much hatred by him. Why would any want to do business with him? I saw his profile he’s a piece of trash.
Many custody cases are really about child support. My ex also had little interest in our children until I filed to enforce child support. Then suddenly he wanted SOLE custody. The courts ignore this obvious fraud bc a custody fight makes a lot of people a lot of money, and you’re right, the mental health professionals in the system are some of the worst.
Trigger warning evidence of abuse against Catherine :
https://www.tiktok.com/@therobbieharvey/video/7239750147268267306?_r=1&u_code=djjcg9hcchla12&preview_pb=0&sharer_language=en&_d=dihlai5f34ja6d&share_item_id=7239750147268267306&source=h5_m×tamp=1685723581&ug_btm=b0,b2001&sec_user_id=MS4wLjABAAAAE4JKjpzpScoM7ifL-LezeqHoBc2xTk68QOBrjX6CovDa7IobmquHmUbYnEW19bPA&utm_source=copy&utm_campaign=client_share&utm_medium=ios&tt_from=copy&user_id=6987480655899558918&share_link_id=11EF9C94-9573-44BD-8611-CCCDF99521AA&share_app_id=1233
I hope this bastard gets what he so richly deserves! He is pure evil, with a sidecar of severe mental illness.
yes exactly sister don’t stop until he is living on the streets with his kids and they all are eating their meals together in the in a soup kitchen and those girls are crying that they just want a bed to sleep in instead of in that big house that was hers that’s when we will know we have fulfilled cats last wishes.
Hi Allen.
Yeah I don’t think she wants her children homeless and eating in a soup kitchen. The evil ex husband yes.
Is that why the evil ex husband is trying to get himself fired that would make more sense. God gave you Brain use it every once I. A while or you might forgot you have it
WTF is this Troll certainly not the real Kailin Wang
Who the hell is this “Kailin wang”, why are you impersonating me, you are totally creepy, and likely hired by the Thygesens
Weird ass mf kys faggot
you are a sidecar of mental illness with a dash of rosemary and lunacy sprinkled in mayo with a side dish of cuckoo
and you are a fat, ugly loser who will never be loved by anyone. i’m sure your mother is proud of how you turned out. do everyone a favor and k*ll yourself. Catherine is a beautiful woman who will forever be missed, I’m sure nobody would miss you. you are useless to society, please never procreate. as if anyone would want to have children with you anyway… yeah right. you’re probably a 30-40 something year old man with no wife and kids. LOSERRRRRRR.
It sounds like your projecting a little bit spread peace not hate I hope you get the help you desperately need and I wish you no ill will on you I sincerely hope that you can fix whatever is wrong with you that turned you into such a hateful spiteful person. I’m here if you want to talk more
Hi, Allen.
We can only hope Karma gets him big time. What a disgusting piece of filth.
This is an utterly disgraceful embarrassment. How is a lawyer permitted to use the adversary’s attorney cleint privileged communciations (wife or not), absent an explicit waiver, and not get disciplined? While it takes two to tango, that fact alone shows what an unprincipled sc#m bag the husband is. Further, judges should have no ability to make hand picked appointments for paid gigs. There should be a wheel of qualified personnel and the next person up on the wheel should be assigned. This tale reveals that lots of “professional” adults milked their well paid gigs as the expense of innocent kids who they harmed unnecessarily. REALLY DISGUSTING!
Two to tango is a phrase often used by uneithical family law attorneys. Might want to reframe. It’s a victim blaming statement. Just like your skirt is too short and that is why you were raped. Allan is just selfish. You hate your x. Leave and get away. This was a malicious win at all costs case by Allan. Court supported money drive situation
Thanks for this story, you are a warrior and I hope you get justice some day
I truly believe that you cannot do the evil deeds such as Allan Kassenoff did to his late ex wife and live a happy life. Those evil deeds will come back on him hard. He is such a vile disgusting human being. The whole world knows about him and there will be no escape from this.
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thats a shame…
https://www.gtlaw.com/en/professionals/k/kassenoff-allan-a
Good thing. Fucking POS should be disbarred, not just forced to take a leave of absence.
Hey all. This is Allen. If you want the full story, call me at my office
+1 212.801.2157
+1 212.801.9200
Bwahahahaha!!! Fuck this law office fur employing this piece of shit.
No one wants your story SICKO. your own kids don’t even like you and you forced them away from their mother. i hope karma has fun with you.
Nothing excuses treating your wife and children this way NOTHING you say will make you look good ever. You Hate the mother of your kids ?? Leave her you HATE your kids? Let the mom take care of them but to abuse them mentos unforgivable and disgusting.
Allen, your children will grow up to despise you. Please seek help for yourself to be a better father. Please stop with anger and hate.
Hope you go to prison where you belong.
I am literally in Mexico because of an abuser like him. It’s been 8yeats since i ended the relationship and he still trying to take a child that was raised by my husband because my ex didn’t want him. And yet still bothers me like crazy.
wow he took care of the kid that your ex didn’t want to and that wasn’t even his for 8 years while you go and live it up in Mexico while he is raising a kid that isn’t even his but yet somehow that man is the bad guy and you are the hero
wow he took care of the kid that your ex didn’t want to and that wasn’t even his for 8 years while you go and live it up in Mexico while he is raising a kid that isn’t even his but yet somehow that man is the bad guy and you are the hero
Allen needs sever therapy. And the hell with the 2 of them. The children should have been taken away from them long before this. God help those girls having to grow up here way and trams it has and will cause them.
Children should NEVER be used as PAWNS in some f’ed up game of resentment. Shame on the father & mother for arguing like that in front of the kids & using them. The DAMAGE they have caused those children … such a shame
I agreed I feel for the daughters and especially the adopted one. I’m angry that couples decide to continue to have children when there is trouble in the relationship. I also am curious to see the evidence from the father. The courts may be rigged but did he evidence to justify and sway the courts to give him custody?
Also I feel sorry for the mother. It just feels like a game between the both of them and the only ones suffering are those girls. Someone protect them and make sure they are ok. They need to wipe the slate clean and start with completely different therapists and evaluators that are not bias and are also evaluating the mental state of the father. It’s tough because if the mother is gone ( can’t be confirmed) they can’t suffer being taken away from another parent. He needs parenting classes and they all need family therapy and home visitations for an extended period of time. Just my two cents. So many questions.
they can’t suffer being taken away from another parent????
its a game between them???
thats your takeaway from all this? Twisting the narrative as we speak omg. the children were beaten by their father. there are videos and records of him screaming and abusing his kids. the man is unhinged and used his connections and know how of the justice systems to completely and systematically torture this woman to death. The mother tried everything, battled through homelessness, cancer and poverty to get her kids. None of it worked because of the corruption of the justice system. STOP. VICTIM BLAMING. the mother is dead. ENOUGH.
“So Many Games” you’re a moron & it IS confirmed that Catherine has passed I’ve talked to her lawyer. And they didn’t have an adopted daughter!! So because mom is gone they should stay with a serial abuser? GTFOOH
@Janay Whoa it’s in the evidence she provided. Are you just attacking everyone? I am neutral and she says she adopted a daughter in her report. So where will the girls go? To the state? Where? As of now the girls are with the father and so I’d that’s how it will be that’s the remedy and my opinion that he get help and be monitored. I do want to see the other side of evidence. We have snippets here and there which are horrible. But I work in law and I also know that you look at EVERYTHING!
Janay I typically agree with your statements but you need to chill the eff out. I’m reading the same files you are or wait are you NOT? 🙄
I’m not going to go back and forth. I said what I said. I believe this is all a game between the two that went overboard and ended in tragedy. Unless there is a confirmation publicly who is it say she is dead?? So great you talked to her lawyer I have not. So I’m allowed to ask questions. I’m allowed to speculate. What will the community in here do for the girls? That’s what I want to know. What are you going to do? As I see it the girls are not in the best hands with the father so then you focus on how to improve that for the sake of the girls. Monitoring, supervision, psych Eval etc.
He was never their parent. All he will ever be is a sperm donor. He is a vile human that needs to be ……
@tired and whomever else knows this family- I’ll continue to say instead of tearing ppl apart who have a logical opinion on what we can do since the girls are with the father who is abusive what are you all going to do for the girls if mom is gone? Social media exposure helps but not much. What will you do legally? Will you offer to take them? Will you write letters to the judge to request supervision or monitoring for dad? Ones that are saying the dad should die- where’s the fund to take care of those girls who are the true victims and that are still developing into adults. Yes Catherine was abused not arguing that but for now this shit talking ain’t doing nothing on any legal level. That’s the real solution. What are you @tired @ janay gonna do for the girls and the legal system? So yes IM TIRED having to explain some sense
I feel that the justice system failed the woman and her children. I pray one day her children will be brave enough to clear their Mom name.
Praying God protection for her girls.
#letsgetrealandheal
There must be something gong on somewhere.
Allan-
Karma is coming for you
There is a special place in hell for his ass! Hope you like it hot Allen.
Shame on all the professionals who allowed this to happen. You took three girls away from their loving mom because their dad had the money to lie, steal, cheat and deceive everyone on the stand. Not just that, this man was well known so these professionals took his word and side over the law and what’s right. Disgusting and pitiful.
This is horrible !!! Terrible system we have ..
It’s so obvious what’s highlighted here is everything to hate the father of the children. Mean haters. He stayed with the kids when Catherine an abandoned them.
judge Lubell took the word of Allan’s lawyer who knew what was really happening.
I don’t need to see yue stupid videos where Catherine tormented him to lose his temper. Plus I bet the deceiver did not tell him she was taping him. That is worse
Go straight to hell
Ponder this…for real? Did you/ do some people read before you/they posted… you know for idiocies?
Sorry “Ponder This” hiding behind a fake name. No one wanted to hate Allan he just makes it so easy. He’s an abuser & NO normal person is going to sit by & support it. You’re either a fellow enabler of Allan’s, Allan, or a fellow abuser & no one gives AF about the typical BS abusive stuff spewing out of your mouth.
Its probably his equally demented new girlfriend.
Bruh you built like a tall stack of pancakes
You’re the gf you’ll understand once he discards you
What about him accessing her computer and phone to obtain personal/private information illegally and unethical. She absolutely did not abandon her children–she was asking him to share some responsibility while she was ill for their care. Are you a paid puppet. He is very obviously deranged. Thr truth will come out. I hope he hangs for the pure evil that he is. He has caused irreversible damage to his children.
The abuse is definitely worse than any deception. But only time will tell. If the man is a good father, he will enjoy his family his whole life. Who cares that he got cancelled because his kids are more important. But if he isn’t a good parent to those girls, he’ll be cancelled and eventually isolated and never see his daughters once they are adults.
It def seemed like he knew she was recording yet he didn’t care.. ‘
& to speak to the mother of his children that way in front of his children calling her a THING.. is terrible.
Try watching the videos. He is vile.
u must be pondering over his d
You’re dumb as fuck. She didn’t abandon them. She was forced to leave. She didn’t have a choice and she tried to keep her kids even if it meant staying in the same house as the man abusing her and her kids. You are acting like you know what you’re talking about while also admitting you haven’t even seen the videos 😂
You have lost your mind on the way. Seriously. Get better
It’s obvious youre a “friend” of Allans. Anyone who supports this evil will have a healthy dose of karma themselves.
Nobody who reacts that way to anything needs to be left alone with children. This man is impulsive and dangerous.
shame on you. SHAME ON YOU!
Wow. You don’t need to see the videos?? She tormented him into losing his temper? Are you serious? Catherine did not abandon those kids. He forced her out. She continued to fight to see them. And was arrested for doing so. And the judge “ took the word of Allen’s lawyer” who knew what was happening?? How about talking to the children. How about considering the fact that two experts were fired for mishandling this case. Experts who were Allen’s cronies. Are you an incel by any chance?
Catherine didn’t abandon them. Allan persistently and ruthlessly took court action to separate the children from her.
friend of the father are you? was the sex worth it?
You and Allan both need a visit from Marcellus Wallace.
Real men donT screech & tantrum
& Know instinctively that young children belong w/ the Mother if she’s nurturing & stable..
He destabilized her & kept her from being around her daughters to nurture Them…
These corporate agents aka judges.. lol
90% take bribes & Violate their OATH & our unalienable RighTs
all w/o Authority
or Jurisdiction !!!
EX- parte’ order = Void Ab Initio
It’s a “belief” system
& Grand Jury Indictments are coming very soon
#4thBranchofGovernmenT
#WeThePeoplehaveThePower
#judgesRPUBLICSERVANTS
You must be a close friend you MF. Ponder this 🖕🏻
https://youtu.be/_hHDxlm66dE
Frank this is what I’m hearing in my head in regards to the toast named Allen.