Was Toni Natalie Lying About Her Role as Single Mother?

Toni Natalie

and thatBy Someone Who Knows Toni 

Toni F. Natalie, 61 years old.

Also known as Toni Natalie Decook, Toni F. Foley, Toni T Decooknatalie, Toni F Nataliedecook, Toni F
Foleynatalie, Toni Forley, Toni Natalie, Tony T. Natalie

Why would someone need so many names? – you can decide.

Toni Natalie filled for bankruptcy on 10/27/1999, and her bankruptcy was discharged on 1/7/2003.

How many have heard the “Keith Raniere dragged me through eight years of bankruptcy hell” story?

My math says that is three years, two months plus a few days. No one is that bad at math, not even Raniere.

Toni Natalie Is Patient Zero?

Toni refers to herself as “Patient Zero” in her book The Program: Inside the Mind of Keith Raniere and the Rise and Fall of Nxivm.

“Single mother Toni Natalie [was] Keith’s Patient Zero, the first one indoctrinated into Raniere’s methodology and the first one to escape.”
WTF does that even mean – “Patient Zero”?

I think there were a lot of people that Raniere and Nancy Salzman experimented on long before Natalie came around.

Karen U. and Pam C. knew and slept with Raniere long before Toni came into his life. Does she think he didn’t use his mind-bending ways on them before she slipped between his sheets?

Barbara Bouchey (was a client of Salzman), Nancy ex-husband’s wife, Nancy’s daughters (one we know was Keith Raniere’s lover later on in NXIVM) all knew Nancy Salzman long before Toni ever met Salzman.


Toni Natalie and Nancy Salzman – in their harem outfits – when both were in Raniere’s harem. Toni claims she did not know Keith was sleeping with any other woman but her.


Is Toni now claiming Salzman had nothing to do with how they thought and saw the world?

Where does Toni come off saying she was Patient Zero? It’s all fabrication and stretching her facts to make her look like she was Raninere’s first victim.

Such bullshit. She and Chet Hardin [Toni’s co-writer on her book] should be ashamed to even write such crap and blend fiction and facts.

Toni sent her son to live with his father long before she skipped town with the much younger stud Scott Foley.

She sent her son away while she was still playing “between the sheets” with Raniere.

Michael, her adopted son, was in the way of Toni’s lifestyle – but now Toni claims she feared for Michael.

If she was so afraid, why didn’t take him with her when she bailed on Raniere?

The good news is what was inconvenient for Toni ended up being good for her son. He was raised by his father who had nothing to do with Raniere and the cult and Toni’s grifter ways.

Suffering Still From PTSD – Does Toni Collect SSI?

There is no way Toni Natalie can still be suffering from PTSD from her time with Keith Raniere.

How could anyone make such a claim? Toni would not have been able to have gone to every court hearing – and spent six weeks in the same courtroom with Raniere during his trial – while suffering from PTSD. Her symptoms would have made it impossible for her to be able to stay in the courtroom.

I witnessed people who could not sit in the courtroom due to their PTSD issues from the NXIVM cult. Some could not be in the same courtroom for more than an hour, some not more than a couple, some not more than 1/2 of a day.

Toni Natalie was there for every single hearing and every day of the trial with no signs of any PTSD issues.

This is not a woman who is suffering from PTSD. Natalie is a good actor, better than Allision Mack for sure, and a con artist sucking off the system.

After Natalie kicked her boy-toy, Scott Foley, out of their house, he paid all their bills because she guilt-tripped him for the suffering she was going through because he had an affair. She didn’t divorce him until just before she signed her book deal. What a coincidence.

Natalie then went through every dime she inherited from her parents after they died.

[Editor’s Note: There are sources who say Toni has not actually blown through her inheritance and has it secreted away – in possible contravention of SSI rules. We have not verified these claims but one source who lived with Toni for a time said that the rent on her home is almost the same as her entire SSI check, that she lives off of her hidden money from her late parents, and works “under the table.” None of this has been vetted – but we hope to do so soon since Toni is now a public figure who has gone after other people [some who did much to help her]. She should be easily able to withstand scrutiny.]

Toni never wanted to work at a real job – at least not the kind of real jobs that are available to high school dropouts like her. But Scott was gone, her parents had passed on, and she needed money to maintain the lifestyle hse had become accustomed to over the years.

So, after almost 20 years after leaving Keith Raniere, Toni Natalie convinced her life-long doctor that she is suffering from severe PTSD – and that he needs to declare her as “disabled”. Now, she lives off taxpayers and draws on the SSI system.

[Even if she had money secreted away, that might not stop Toni from claiming she had none and getting on the SSI gravy train. We are not making this accusation, merely raising questions.]

Final Word on Her Being a Great Mother

We all now know Toni Natalie is willing to tell a bald-faced lie about being a single mom.

It would appear the truth is the other way around. Toni’s ex, Rusty DeCook, was the single dad most of the time their boy was growing up.

Toni was too busy having her wild romps in the sack with Raniere and living the high life while bringing in millions a month in Consumers Buyline revenues to take care of her son.

Before her sheets were even cold from Raniere, Toni had an affair with the much younger, married man, Scott Foley.

Not only did she move farther away from her son, she ran off to Florida with Scott who also abandoned his children in Albany NY.  Scott Foley’s kids lost their dad to “the other women” and they didn’t even get to spend weekends with their dad.

Toni Natalie is a homewrecker.

The question to ask?

What else is Toni Natalie willing to bend the truth or boldly lie about to make her book and her life with – and after – Keith Raniere a sensational story?

It appears anything.

She lied about her own child and was willing to drag a father away from his own children for her own selfish reasons – which is about as low as one can get.


A Poem by Bangkok

And now as a special treat, a poem by Bangkok [AKA Retard] about Toni Natalie.

I created a poem in honor of Ms. Toni Natalie.

It’s called: A Partridge in a Pear Tree


When Toni the ‘Comp Queen’ goes to sleep at night, what does she see?

4 failed marriages

3 failed MLM businesses

2 failed restaurants

1 failed parenthood

…and a Partridge in a Pear Tree.


Sorry it doesn’t rhyme, it’s the best I could do in 30 seconds. 

Maybe ‘Nutjob’ can point out something that Toni’s actually STUCK WITH and SUCCEEDED at in life, since it kinda looks to me as if everything this woman touches fails miserably or turns to shit, or she simply bails on it fast and moves on to another losing venture. 

I challenge Nutjob to respond. Has Toni ever stuck with anything or succeeded at anything?

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8 months ago

Awesome! I grew up with Toni…she was only my friend in the summer since we had a built in pool. Lol. She was always using people to her advantage even as a preteen. We had know each other from grammar school to high school. Nothing was any different from then until now. Thanks for calling out her narcissist, trashy self!

The Retard
The Retard
4 years ago

Great article.

I hope that you truly follow up with vetting Toni’s possible/alleged dealings with Social Security Disability, including the allegations of her former roommate that you mentioned.

Guess what?

The IRS has a toll free ‘tip line’ (anonymous tip line) for receiving anonymous tips from credible witnesses, such as the former roommate or any other source with knowledge about Ms. Natalie.

The IRS has the option of initiating an audit to verify if any secreted money is coming into play to pay off expenses (or) if any expenses appear to have no source of legit income paying for them.

But it all begins with being tipped off by credible witnesses. Get your ducks in a row first and then present your case to the IRS tip line, anonymously if need be.

*Of course, I’m not saying that Toni has done anything improper financially —- since I don’t know anything about her finances.

I’m only saying that you don’t need a whole team of witnesses and detailed documents just to call the IRS tip line. It’s their job to find the ‘details’ via an audit. As a tipster, you only need good circumstantial evidence to tip them off.

I agree that she deserves scrutiny as a public figure.

The Retard
The Retard
4 years ago
Reply to  The Retard

Just wanna add that even if the matter involves issues that aren’t just about taxes, the IRS can alert other federal agencies of anything they uncover during an audit.

The possibility of ‘secreted money’ is an issue the IRS investigates, though.

Thus, if that type of thing is going on — then the IRS is a proper agency to tip off.

If they find other issues which aren’t tax related, they can report them to other federal agencies.

But the IRS tip line is a good start for anything financial. 🙂

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“Toni F. Natalie, 61 years old.
Also known as Toni Natalie Decook, Toni F. Foley, Toni T Decooknatalie, Toni F Nataliedecook, Toni F
Foleynatalie, Toni Forley, Toni Natalie, Tony T. Natalie
Why would someone need so many names – you can decide.”

Toni Natalie has almost as many aliases as Nicki Clyne. Shadow State

“Toni Natalie and Nancy Salzman – in their harem outfits – when both were in Raniere’s harem. Toni claims she did not know Keith was sleeping with any other woman but her.”

Isn’t it amazing how the women of NXIVM had no idea of what was going on with Raniere’s love life?
They had no idea of Raniere’s promiscuity!
They had no idea of Raniere’s pedophilia!
It was like a bolt from the blue that Raniere was both sexually promiscuous and a pedophile!
The women I know are very quick to discover when their man is messing around. Shadow State

” Natalie is a good actor, better than Allison Mack for sure and a con artist sucking off the system.”

Allison Mack will have a few years to refine her acing skills on her new TV show — “Orange is the New Mack.”
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Today’s Blind Items – A New Cult

“Taken from the ashes of the one they came from, several of the members of this former sex cult, including at least two actresses, have brought several members back into the fold. They have also recruited this B+ list mostly television actor from a hit almost network show which was on purpose. They wanted that same type connection they had the last time around. Because of his star power, he has recruited a half dozen women over the past three months who are also now members. Apparently the leader is the wife of the actress all of you know.”

Check out the comments. Some people have suggested the actor is Tom Welling from Smallville. He was mentioned before on Crazy Days Crazy Nights, that he was forced to pay a shit load of cash to his ex-wife because she knew about his involvement with the sex cult. The wife of Tom Welling really did get a big payout so perhaps there is a link.

As for the “wife” and “leader”, this could be Allison Mack and Nicki Clyne.

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About the Author

Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist.

His work has been cited in hundreds of news outlets, like The New York Times, The Daily Mail, VICE News, CBS News, Fox News, New York Post, New York Daily News, Oxygen, Rolling Stone, People Magazine, The Sun, The Times of London, CBS Inside Edition, among many others in all five continents.

His work to expose and take down NXIVM is featured in books like “Captive” by Catherine Oxenberg, “Scarred” by Sarah Edmonson, “The Program” by Toni Natalie, and “NXIVM. La Secta Que Sedujo al Poder en México” by Juan Alberto Vasquez.

Parlato has been prominently featured on HBO’s docuseries “The Vow” and was the lead investigator and coordinating producer for Investigation Discovery’s “The Lost Women of NXIVM.” Parlato was also credited in the Starz docuseries "Seduced" for saving 'slave' women from being branded and escaping the sex-slave cult known as DOS.

Additionally, Parlato’s coverage of the group OneTaste, starting in 2018, helped spark an FBI investigation, which led to indictments of two of its leaders in 2023.

Parlato appeared on the Nancy Grace Show, Beyond the Headlines with Gretchen Carlson, Dr. Oz, American Greed, Dateline NBC, and NBC Nightly News with Lester Holt, where Parlato conducted the first-ever interview with Keith Raniere after his arrest. This was ironic, as many credit Parlato as one of the primary architects of his arrest and the cratering of the cult he founded.

Parlato is a consulting producer and appears in TNT's The Heiress and the Sex Cult, which premiered on May 22, 2022. Most recently, he consulted and appeared on Tubi's "Branded and Brainwashed: Inside NXIVM," which aired January, 2023.

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