Hello Mr. Norwood,
Please read the following Connecticut website with rules, policies, procedure and laws pertaining to Child Support and provide me with proof that ANY of the following steps were done to ensure child support for my child from February 2008 to the April 2014 court date?
April of 2014 court date is when Kathleen Wells a Middletown CCSEA, “ASSISTED” non custodial parent Matthew Kan Hai Jr. along with Judge Adelman to be granted “ZERO child support obligation for a DISABLED CHILD and A DISABLED custodial PARENT”. I have the court transcripts to prove such statement.
I was also threatened by Judge Adelman that I would LOSE ALL RIGHTS TO MY CHILD AND IT WOULDN'T “LOOK GOOD FOR ME” SHOULD ANY MOTIONS BE BROUGHT BEFORE THE COURT IN THE FUTURE BY EITHER PARTY, which I also have the transcript to prove.
Why would “Debbie” and Kathleen Wells at CCSEA in Middletown Connecticut “assist and speak for him as if they were representing him in court to get zero child support obligation? That's against C.T. statutes pertaining to agent in CCSEA. The agents are not to represent either the non custodial or custodial parents. Yet since 2011 they have assisted Matt and helped him have a voice since 2011 when they messed up my support order.
Why does no one get held ACCOUNTABLE?
Why does CCSEA take his federal tax return money every year knowing that my disabled child goes without and NEEDS the financial support of both parents?
* ANOTHER 3 HUGE CONCERNS I HAVE IS
● WHY AFTER 9 YEARS IS CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT IN CONNECTICUT CONTACTING ME FOR MY NAME CHANGE DOCUMENT THAT I HAVE ALREADY PROVIDED THEM WITH BACK IN 2013? ALSO CONNECTICUT D.S.S.HAS A COPY.
9 YEARS, REALLY??!!?
● IN 2011 WHY DID CCSEA KATHLEEN WELLS IN MIDDLETOWN, FORCE ME TO SIGN A “NEW CHILD SUPPORT COURT ORDER” WHICH WAS WRITTEN EXACTLY THE SAME AS THE ORIGINAL EXCEPT FOR “THE DATE” BEING CHANGED, AND LIE TO ME BY GIVING ME FAKE AND MISLEADING ASSURANCE THAT MAKING A NEW ORDER UP IN COURT THAT DAY IN 2011 WAS BENEFICIAL FOR MY CHILD?
•WHY WOULD THEY ONLY NEED TO CHANGE THE DATE? BECAUSE THEY DIDN'T WANT TO ADMIT THEY SERIOUSLY MESSED UP.
•CCSEA KNOWING FULL WELL THEY BROKE THEIR “RULES” AND “LAWS”, BY NEVER SENDING MY CHILD SUPPORT ORDER OUT OF STATE TO HAWAII FOR ALMOST 2 YEARS TO BE ENFORCED!!
•THAT TELLS ME THEY KNEW THEY BROKE THE LAW, POLICY AND PROCEDURES AND WERE TRYING TO COVER THEIR TRACKS AND NOT BE HELD “ACCOUNTABLE”, FOR THEIR ACTIONS AND LACK OF ACTIONS.
•FROM FEBRUARY 2008 TO 2011 MY ORDER WAS NEVER SENT TO HAWAII TO BE ENFORCED. WHY?
•MY ORDER WAS NEVER SENT TO MIDDLETOWN D.S.S. AFTER “ANITRA MAGNUM”, D.S.S. CASE WORKER REQUESTED IT FOR OVER A YEAR AND A HALF, WHY? I HAVE THE MULTIPLE REQUEST DOCUMENTS THAT SHE SENT FROM 2008 TO 2010.
● WHY HASN'T MY ORDER BEEN SENT TO ARIZONA TO BE ENFORCED?
*THE CCSEA IS FULLY AWARE THAT HE LIVES IN ARIZONA AND HAS LIVED THERE SINCE AROUND 2015-2016 BECAUSE AN AGENT TOLD ME THATS WERE HE IS LIVING WHEN I CALLED IN “TO REMIND THEM TO PUT THE ENTIRE MONTHLY ARREARAGE HE IS SUPPOSE TO PAY TOWARDS MY CHILD”, BUT DOESNT.
●WHY WAS MY CHILD SUPPORT ORDER “AGREEMENT” STILL REGISTERED IN HAWAII UP TO 2018, WHEN HAWAII CSEA TOOK IT ON THEMSELVES TO CLOSE THE CHILD SUPPORT CASE BECAUSE THERE WAS NO ACTIVITY ON THE CASE “FOR YEARS”? I HAVE THE DOCUMENTS FOR THIS AS WELL.
● WHY HAVE I BEEN “BLOCKED” FROM SPEAKING TO THE ONLY AGENT THAT HAS BEEN TO COURT AND WORKED ON MY CHILD SUPPORT CASE SINCE 2012, KATHLEEN WELLS?
•Why is my intuition telling me that they are hiding Information from me? And why do the documents that I have legitimized my intuition feeling?
● Why am I speaking to a agent name Lisa who supposedly has been the agent on the child support case since February of 2008, yet I've never met her and she has never been to one court date? I think it would be more beneficial and I would get more proper factual information if I spoke directly to the agent that actually goes to court and is active on the case…..
● WHY CANT I ASK KATHLEEN WELLS QUESTIONS ABOUT THE CHILD SUPPORT CASE IN GENERAL AND ABOUT THE 2011 COURT DATE AND THE APRIL 2014 COURT DATE?
• UNTO WHICH THE DAY PRIOR to court in April 2014, I spoke with Kathleen Wells and she assured me that she was going to be in court the following day. This was Matts “request for a motion to lower child support payments through child support enforcement in Middletown”.
• And on that day prior to the court date Kathleen Wells assured me that it was a new judge that was going to be hearing the motion and that he seemed very fair and honest and open. She was trying to assure me that it should turn out in the favor of my child… and at the time I didnt realize she was lying to me until I got all my documents from DSS and went through every document from the court house case file and all documents from child support enforcement.
•I asked Kathleen Wells to please remember that my child is disabled and has “gone without” her WHOLE LIFE, meaning “SHE HASN'T HAD ANY FINANCIAL SUPPORT FROM MATT, and that my child really needed the child support AND that my child was suffering by not having the financial support of both parents.
•Especially as a disabled child and she struggles in school, and really NEEDS a good tutor and she really NEEDS “technical tools” and certain supplies in school to help with her disability.
•Alone on my single income I could not afford to provide all of the items she needed in school, and still needs for school to this day.
•Kathleen Wells told me I could call later in the afternoon after court or the following day and speak to her to find out how the court date went and what the judges conclusion was.
● I called her the following day after picking up my daughter from school, I asked her how the court date went. I was astonished and quite upset that she was being aloof and stated to me that she did not know the outcome of the case and could not discuss it with me and for me to call the courthouse in a day or two to get a copy of the new child support order. I told her that I did not understand why she could not speak to me about the court date the day prior when she told me 2 days prior that I can call her to find out the outcome.
• I then called the courthouse In the courthouse told me that they did not have the transcripts or documents ready and in my case so they could not give me much information except for what they saw on the computer and they saw that he was granted zero child support. I asked the clerk why he was granted ZERO child support payments and she stated to me that “he provided to the court “as evidence”, a doctor note stating that he could not work because of a medical condition”.
The clerk said that they did not have a copy of that evidence put into my case file yet as they were still working on it and it usually takes about a week.
HOWEVER, THE CLERK SAID THAT CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT IN MIDDLETOWN has a copy of that evidence, because it was CCSEA that physically brought THE MEDICAL NOTE in to court for Matthew to put in as evidence in the court case that day, and that I could call them(CCSEA) to get a copy of it and discuss the outcome.
● When I called CCSEA in Middletown back and Spoke to Kathleen Wells, I told her what the family court clerk told me about the “evidence” supplied to the court by her, (supplied by Kathleen Wells) she then got a very ugly attitude towards me and then LIED and told me there was as no evidence of a medical note in her possession nor in my child support case. She said maybe it will be in the court case and for me to wait til next week and them check out my case file.
• I then asked her if I could come to child support inforcement agency office in Middletown Connecticut and look through my child support case file. She denied me that, Stating it was against policy and procedures and against the law for me to access my child support case file through the child support enforcement agency office in Middletown Connecticut. She said to me I could only access information for child support enforcement case through my case file at the courthouse and that I had no right to look through my case file at child support enforcement agency office and Middletown.
Is this TRUE?
● The following week I called the courthouse and spoke to these family clerk office and the clerk and formed me that there was no medical no in my case file. I then asked where it went to because it was provided by the non custodial parent as evidence. The clerk stated they could not find it and it seems to have been lost…… LOST??? How does a courthouse lose evidence in a case file?
(Things just are not making sense and obviously there's a lot of mishandling on my case file at the courthouse and through child support enforcement agency in Middletown C.T.)
● So again the clerk's office informed me that I can call shout support enforcement agency and ask them for a copy of the evidence because they will have it in their case file.
• So I then called child support enforcement back again and asked Kathleen Wells where this medical note went to, and that I would like to see it.
I wanted to make an appointment to go down to child support enforcement in Middletown so that I could see this piece of evidence that just so miraculously grew legs and disappeared from my court case file.
I was then put on hold and that is when the “supposed manager of the office Debbie”, got on the phone and belittled me, yelled at me like I was a child and tried to intimidate me. She told me that I was no longer going to be speaking to Kathleen Wells and for me to never ask for her again when I called that office. Debbie TOLD me That she was going to be handling my case from here on out and for me to expect to only speak with her from that day forward.
I asked why I could not speak with my case worker that has been working on my case and going to court over the years since 2010/2011. Debbie explained to me that it's none of my business and then began to yell at me and intimidate me so that I would stop asking her why.
And ever since that day my relationship with child support enforcement agency has been like walking on eggshells. They have not been honest and open with me, they tell at me and speak horrible towards me (I have legal phone recordings) and any time a large payment does get sent in, CCSEA ALWAYS takes it and they never apply it towards the $12,700.00 that is owed to me.
● Why back in 2010/2011 when I was forced to sign a new child support agreement and why did The CSEA NOT go back the 2 years like they are suppose to do by LAW? They were suppose to go back to 2008/2009 to enforce the money that was to be paid from 2008.
● Why was a clean slate been given to Matt when he CHOSE ON HIS OWN ACCORD TO NOT FINANCIALLY SUPPORT OUR CHILD?
It States in our agreement which Matt AGREED TO and SIGNED WILLINGLY in February of 2008 that he is to pay 58% of ALL CHILD CARE EXPENSES and the address is provided on the agreement to show where he was to send the child support payments.
So why did the court and CCSEA not take the receipts that I have been providing to Matt since 2008 and award me the 58% that he was supposed to pay towards the daycare expenses so I could work the 3 jobs I had to work to make up for his non payment of child support?
● Why Does child support enforcement state on my case that Matt only owes over $12,000.00 when the real number is $43,200.00 that he owed in total from February of 2008 til April of 2014?
$150.00 a week ×4 weeks = $600.00
$600.00 x 12 months = $7,200.00
$7,200.00 x 6 years (February 2008 to April 2014 is 6 years)= $43,200.00. (A little less because of being forced onto state cash benefits for a year andva half or so total in Connecticut)
*PLUS THE DAYCARE EXPENSES*
Of course this number would have to be SLIGHTLY tweaked because I was forced to sign up for cash benefits in the state of Connecticut to receive CCSEA assistance in enforcing the order, WHICH NEVER GOT ENFORCED AND STILL ISNT TO THIS DAY 13 YEARS LATER. I was on cash benefits for part of the year in 2008 and the years 2010 and 2011.
But I am VERY SURE HE OWES ME MORE THAN $12,700.00….
•The calculations by Connecticut child support enforcement are off on what he owes to me and child support. Part of it is because they did not allow me to put my child care expenses with receipts into my case. WHY?
● There has been way too much mis handling of my case with child support enforcement agency and I am requesting an investigation done into this agency and my court case.
•There is a lot not right that needs to be figured out.
There is no way that since 2008 to 2014 I am only owed $12000 to raise a child.
● Also one last comment on Matts medical note, I have an audio recording of MATTS WIFE from this year, April of 2020 admitting that Matt medical note provided to the court is NOT REAL and that he does not have this medical condition.
● Please help me get the child support that she deserves and hold him accountable when he CHOOSES not to pay and turns around and makes up every excuse in the book and lies like he has been doing it since February of 2008 to the court.
https://www.jud.ct.gov/childsupport/faq_eng.htm#12 ●What has been done in MY CHILD SUPPORT ENFORCEMENT CASE?:
Is Connecticut taking money out of MATT'S paycheck like it states it will do if the parent lives out of state and is behind in payments?
If so, then it should not be that difficult to see his income has increased and that he is obviously working unlike his last court date that a child support enforcement caseworker named Kathleen Wells ASSISTED MATT in the “PROCESS OF CHANGING HIS CHILD SUPPORT PAYMENTS “, and this is documented word for word in the transcripts.
Matt stating the bias actions of child support enforcement caseworker Kathleen Wells helping Matt to lower his child support to zero.
YES, I have the transcripts of Matt stating how appreciative he was that Kathleen Wells helped him through this process of lowering his child support so he did not have to continue to take care of his child and CSEA Speaking in court on his behalf as well (which is VERY ILLEGAL) as accepting the lying medical note that he provided.
Has Child support enforcement Register the order in the correct state yet? It's appalling to me that child support enforcement agency has the child support order registered in Hawaii even though they were well aware that he lived in Arizona since well before The child supported court date April of 2014.
Has child support enforcement seize any of his financial assets like the car he owns? Why is no one holding him accountable?
Why did no one ever refer him to the US attorney for federal prosecution under the child support Recovery act and deadbeat parents punishment act?
Why did I get screamed at in 2011 when I asked CCSEA to hold him in contempt and I was told that the state of Connecticut can not hold any parent out of state in contempt when obviously that was an outright lie. As it states Connecticut can and WILL hold a parent in contempt even if they are out of state if they are in child support debt of $500 or more with custodial parent not on the IVD program or if on the IVD program in the past the non custodial parent is $150 or more on debt to the custodial parent they hold them in contempt?
Then I hold him in contempt in 2011 and instead of the CSEA going back 2 years to enforce the order they actually create a new order because they hid the fact that they never sent the order to the correct state to have it enforced. Which again I have all documents to prove from dss and child support over the years.
NOW ONTO HOW TO GET MY ORDER ENFORCED IF ITS OUT OF STATE:
Why have I never received tax offset?
Even prior to April of 2014 I never received any tax offset even though he was working.
He has been working over 2 years now that I'm aware of ( But then again it is not my job as they attempted murder of victim nor as the custodial parent to keep tabs on my attempted murderer even though your agency has consistently forced me to do so just to get a measly $50 a month, if our daughter even gets that. She is lucky if she gets $9 a month or $2.50 a month. so how come I did not receive the tax offset from last year and this year to put towards my disabled daughter? She really could use that money towards her disability to help benefit HER.
Remember, this is about the child. My child.
Since Matt owes me $12,000.00 which is well over the $1000.00 threshold limit for the state of Connecticut I'd like to know if he was reported to the consumer credit Bureau for not paying his child support. Has he been reported YET?
Again has anyone put a lien against they items he does own? He owned a house for years and he owns cars. Has anyone put a lien against and sold his cars so child support could be paid??
Has anyone seized his banks or has anyone denied him passport accessibility?
NOW ONTO HOW DO I CHANGE OR MODIFY AN ORDER:
It States that's a non custodial parent and a custodial parent can request the services of SES to modify an existing order in the state of Connecticut as long as there is change in circumstances or and upward deviation of 15% in income.
I have asked for a review by phone which it States I can do over a year and a 1/2 and have been specifically told NO, with no reason as to why.
I was only met with an argument and told that I need to do it on my own through the courts or I need to register in the state I am living in now.
As a victim of attempted murder in the state of Connecticut and a victim of domestic violence in Connecticut and by a law that is not how I should've been responded to.
Read below:
“If your court order is from Connecticut and either parents’ income has changed enough that the support order is at least 15% higher or lower than the amount required by the child support guidelines, then SES will prepare the court forms and tell you the court hearing date. SES can also assist you if there has been a change in either parents’ circumstances such as the receipt of Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Social Security Disability (SSD), a change in custody or a change in incarceration status.”
The above rules provided by Connecticut stated in the quotations above obviously pertain to my situation and to my case so I am confused as to why I have been met with DENIAL whenever I ask for a review to be done on my case so my child can get what SHE NEEDS.
I would very much like answers in an email response to the questions that I have above.
Thanks,
KC
What if the non-custodial parent lives out-of-state?
If the non-custodial parent moves out of state and the Support Enforcement Services Unit is already enforcing your case, the Unit will take the steps to collect child support from the out-of-state parent. Some of the available interstate enforcement tools include:
Direct income withholding (the filing of an income withholding with an out-of-state employer)
Registering your order in a new state to give the new state authority to enforce the order
Interstate real property liens
Seizure of financial assets
Referral to the U.S. Attorney for federal prosecution under the Child Support Recovery Act and Deadbeat Parents Punishment Act, 18 U.S.C. Section 228.
If you do not have a case with Support Enforcement Services, you can start an “interstate” child support case by contacting the Department of Social Services (DSS). DSS will assist you to establish a new court order or enforce an existing court order.
. How can my order be enforced without going to court?
Federal and State Income Tax Offset (IV-D CASES ONLY): Past due child support orders monitored by the state are automatically matched against federal and state income tax returns every year. To be included in the match, the non-custodial parent must owe more than $500 if your children have never received public assistance. If your children have received public assistance, the amount past due must be $150 or more. The non-custodial parent will receive a written notice about the past due child support, proposing that his or her name be submitted for tax offset. The non-custodial parent has the right to contest the proposed tax offset. If the non-custodial parent’s name is submitted, his or her tax refund will be intercepted to pay the child support debt.
Consumer Credit Reporting IV-D CASES ONLY): Overdue child support of more than $1000 is automatically reported to the major credit reporting agencies as an overdue debt on a monthly basis. The child support debt will be included on the non-custodial parent’s credit report. The non-custodial parent will receive a written notice about the overdue child support, proposing that his or her name be submitted to credit reporting agencies. The non-custodial parent has the right to contest the proposed reporting.
Liens against Property: Past due child support of more than $500 may be collected through a lien against the non-custodial parent’s real estate or personal property. When the property is sold, the child support debt will be paid out of the proceeds of the sale. In IV-D cases, the non-custodial parent will receive a written notice about the past due support and information that a lien has been filed on behalf of the custodial parent by the state. The non-custodial parent has the right to contest this action. NON-IV-D lien actions must be pursued privately.
Other Methods Used by the State to Collect Child Support in IV-D Cases Include: offsetting lottery winnings; seizure of bank accounts; offsetting federal payments (example: federal contracts); and, denying passport applications
How do I change or modify a Child Support Order?
In Connecticut, child support orders can only be changed (modified) by a judge or a family support magistrate. There are three ways to get your child support case to court for a hearing to ask a judge or family support magistrate to change your order: 1) ask Support Enforcement Services to assist; 2) hire an attorney; or 3) do it yourself. If you are asking for the modification, you must attend the court hearing or the judge or magistrate will not change the order. You may be eligible to participate by phone if you are not residing in Connecticut.
Using Support Enforcement Services:
If you have a child support case with the state child support program, you may ask Support Enforcement Services (SES) in writing, by phone or by e-mail to review your court order to see if a change may be needed. You will be asked to complete a written request form which includes providing information about you and the other parent. If your court order is from Connecticut and either parents’ income has changed enough that the support order is at least 15% higher or lower than the amount required by the child support guidelines, then SES will prepare the court forms and tell you the court hearing date. SES can also assist you if there has been a change in either parents’ circumstances such as the receipt of Supplemental Security Income (SSI) or Social Security Disability (SSD), a change in custody or a change in incarceration status.
If your court order is from another state, contact SES and ask how to change an out of state order. Please note that Support Enforcement Services employees are not attorneys and cannot represent either parent at court hearings.
Child Support Modification Request Form for Military Reservist – Word Doc or PDF version
Child Support Modification Request Form – PDF version
E-Mail SES
Telephone Numbers for SES Offices
Hiring an Attorney: You may hire an attorney to file a motion for modification and represent you before the court.
Self Representation: You may file a motion for modification and represent yourself in court (PRO SE). How to File a Modification on your own.