Guest View: I dated Lauren briefly; her mother tried to recruit me

December 1, 2018

[One of the advantages of monitoring the comments and eliminating the hostile ones, is finding a gem like this. This one showed up as a comment but is certainly worthy of its own post.]

By Stephen Donnelly

I dated Lauren Salzman briefly when she was working as a rather young acolyte within the Executive Success Program, an executive development program they were trying to sell local companies in the Albany, NY area.

I was, and still am, with the firm Rose & Kieran and our executive management team thought ESP might hold some value for us. After the first couple of meetings it became clear to us we weren’t buying what they were selling. I think the weekly “exercises” they assigned each of us were considered irrelevant, so we severed our business relationship. However, I thought Lauren rather cute, so I pursued a more personal connection.

Almost immediately Lauren starting suggesting I meet her mother, Nancy. I agreed to and Lauren set up an appointment with her at their offices on New Karner Road in Colonie. She introduced me to her mother and left us alone to talk. Nancy started asking me about my upbringing, probing personal questions, etc., which went far beyond the boundaries of normal introductory conversation.

Nancy Salzman left with her daughter Lauren They followed the smartest and most ethical man in the world their co defendant Keith Raniere Consequently no other men but beta males could be allowed into their organization
She said their organization needed men like me and she harped on all of her accomplishments in the business world, citing vague examples of how she helped turn ConEd around.

Subsequently, I was invited to their home in Clifton Park. Lauren’s bedroom was upstairs next to Nancy’s. I showed up, we all sat in the kitchen that evening and her mother proceeded to repeat everything she had told me in our previous meeting. It seemed like she was trying to convince me of something. I put up with it because I was more interested in Lauren. Moments later Nancy suggested we go upstairs to be alone. I went to Lauren’s room while Nancy followed behind. We entered Lauren’s room and her mother watched from the hall as Lauren closed the door. Eventually, we started making out on the bed but the entire time I could hear Nancy wandering about in the hallway. I thought it odd, stayed a bit longer, said my goodbyes and took off.

Lauren loved to talk about the different levels of leadership within ESP to which she aspired and almost obsessed about it. However, a couple of days after my visit to her home she asked me to lunch. When I got out of my car at the restaurant parking lot, she walked up to me and flatly stated she couldn’t see me anymore. I asked for a reason. She gave none and walked away.

I always felt her mother was trying to recruit me but couldn’t be sure. Once the issues with this organization came to light, I was convinced of it.

Strange people. Still wish I got in her pants that night, however.

 

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[…] In reply to Flowers. […]

Hiram
Hiram
7 years ago

I didn’t: but if she is like any of the other Nxian babes, she’s most likely dead weight. Except for for my lil twirlybird Sara in her prime.

Heidi
Heidi
7 years ago

This story illustrates the character of one of the most indecent, malevolent souls that ever lived — not “Hitler” but a wicked woman who needlessly whored her own daughters and put them up, reared them up, to abetting every manner of “Vanguard’s” evil-doing for her own gain and glory. Hitler’s waiting for you in hell, “Dr. Laura.” Gina pities you in Heaven.

TK
TK
7 years ago
Reply to  Heidi

Yup, I agree! I never understood why Keith chose Hitler references though. Quite bizarre. His subjects, from what I gather, actually believed this bullshit about reincarnation? In some ways, I think Nancy made some really hasty leaps of faith that she could support her two daughters on her own. Unfortunately, she got a bit too over her head While the Salzman name is getting dragged through the mud, Nancy’s daughters will suffer the consequences the most because they are still relatively young and have more years ahead of them. From the pictures of Gina that I have seen on this site, she looks like such a very sweet girl. I’m just so sorry she got mixed up in this. You, my friend, are the best and only person to tell her story. Godspeed.

Pyriel
Pyriel
7 years ago

NXIVM obviously used some elements of Scientology. Did they also use the Children of God flirty fishing technique to recruit people?

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Pyriel

NXIVM used Amway recruiting techniques. Raniere was in the Amway scam before he started his other MLM scams.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago

NXIVM was nothing like Amway, Raniere might of been in Amway but he was so far beyond any Amway recruiting techniques it would make your head spin. NXIVM was so much more than an MLM scam.

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago

One question- why did he submit his picture to you? I wonder why he wanted it posted here.

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Flowers

It’s a picture from a Linked-In account.

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)

I sent the following email to Stephen:

Stephen,

Assuming you are the author of this story https://frankreport.com/2018/12/01/guest-view-i-dated-lauren-briefly-her-mother-tried-to-recruit-me/, what was it specifically about the NXIVM/ESP program that made your company decide that you weren’t buying what they were selling? Thanks.

Leon Festinger
Leon Festinger
7 years ago

Did you hear anything back Scott?

James Bartholomew Olsen
James Bartholomew Olsen
7 years ago

Leon nailed it. I spent time in the Clifton Park-Saratoga Springs area and knew about NXIVM. I always thought it was a cult from hearing about it from people that had some involvement with it. I was also surprised that a couple of famous names had been involved. I remember when they brought the Dali Lama to Albany and I realized it was another New Age scam. However also heard rumors of it being a sexual cult. I just attributed that to the New Age free love. Heard the rumors that Lauren was a pretty good fuck in those days. Also used to hear about the celebrity stalkers the NXIVM kooks had to deal with. Raniere did not like competition from what I understand. Used to see some of those chicks on occasion at the Mocha Lisa. Don’t ever recall seeing Raniere but then I did not go to the coffeeshops and pubs to look at pudgy middle aged guys .

Mitch Garrity
Mitch Garrity
7 years ago

I wonder if the last line of his post will bite him in the ass at Rose & Kieran

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Mitch Garrity

He probably shared the story with them a while back. If you look at his Linked-in account, https://www.linkedin.com/in/donnelly-stephen-7621135/?trk=seokp-title-professional-cta, you can see he is supposedly the law firm’s Marketing Director, VP at Rose & Kiernan, Inc. Not exactly a stroke of genius for a marketing director, so it could be a spoof comment.

Same Old Same Old
Same Old Same Old
7 years ago

Once again a commenter with a comment that Frank considers a “gem” is being chased away by the same old poster.

Heidi
Heidi
7 years ago

With friends like Schlock Johnson, who needs trolls? Keep going after those attorneys, Schlock. Won’t be hard to find you for service of a nice, fat class action slander suit. Least you could do is hit Clare up for your defense fund.

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago
Reply to  Heidi

Class action slander suit!??! 🤣😂😁
Too funny.
Satire again, I assume?

Scott Free
Scott Free
7 years ago
Reply to  Heidi

Don’t worry if you’re served Scott, I hear it’s easy to get off Scott Free.

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Heidi

[Deleted] Heidi, what is the slander?

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago
Reply to  Heidi

Why would he post something like that if he didnt expect a sarcastic comment?
Think about it.
The guy had no other reason to add that last remark…

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago

Chased away how?? Asking questions is considered “chasing away” in your opinion?

TK
TK
7 years ago
Reply to  Flowers

Just chiming in here in support of Heidi, Flowers – how are you related to this case? Were you at one time related to any circumstances involving the defendants? It appears to me that Heidi has already lost her younger sister. To me, that’s pretty significant, wouldn’t you say?

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago
Reply to  Flowers

Supporting Heidi against WHAT exactly? I don’t understand what you’re insinuating, TK. I’m not allowed to disagree that a “class-action slander suit” is not a possibility here?

Chased away how ?
7 years ago
Reply to  Flowers

Like this…”Not exactly a stroke of genius for a marketing director” …Do you really think some one will want to comment again after that comeback ? Read the responses! Not everyone may be as thick skinned as yourself or others.

Flowers
Flowers
7 years ago

I thought if was an insurance firm? Not that it makes a difference, but that’s the info that comes up if you Google the name of the company.

The picture Frank posted is the LinkedIn profile pic, so I wonder if Donnelly agreed to have his photo posted here, considering someone could easily be impersonating him with a fake story.

The Judge
The Judge
7 years ago

Her eyebrows are atrocious.

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  The Judge

It doesn’t matter, nobody gets past her nose.

Pyriel
Pyriel
7 years ago

It must be terrible to be mistaken for The Great Gonzo. 😁

Python Swoope
Python Swoope
7 years ago

JAP’s …… a quick way to add another notch on your bedpost !

Heidi
Heidi
7 years ago
Reply to  Python Swoope

Are the JAP jokes really necessary? Doubt Lauren’s ever set foot in a Jewish synagogue. (JAP stands for Jewish American Princess, btw, lest any Japanese readers take undue offense.)

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Heidi

I thought it was funny, but then again, I have a sense of humor.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  Heidi

Maybe she should have. Then she likely wouldn’t have fallen for a false god because she would worshipping the real one.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago

Three questions:

1) Do you think she had a Jackson 5 bush?

2) How did you navigate your way through that beak?

3) Why did you try to get into the pants of such a physically ugly she-monster?

Snorlax
Snorlax
7 years ago

I see a little silhouette of a man…

Galileo
7 years ago
Reply to  Snorlax

Thunder bolt and lightning, very very frightening…..

Shelby
Shelby
7 years ago

Sounds awfully like Nancy was trying to pimp her daughter out. Then again we knew she wasn’t going to win any mother-of-the-year awards. Maybe by working on a plea deal, she will finally have a chance to make amends somewhat.

Pyriel
Pyriel
7 years ago
Reply to  Shelby

Agreed. Most mothers would check out their daughter’s boyfriend out of concern for their daughter. Nancy only seemed to be sizing him up for ESP potential.

Jane
Jane
7 years ago
Reply to  Shelby

And possibly to record the whole thing for future blackmail … oops sorry, collateral purposes.

Heather Anne
Heather Anne
7 years ago

What year was this? As you were focused on Lauren is it possible Nancy was trying to use her NLP and brainwashing techniques on you?
Possibly you were simply too strong emotionally to fall for whatever ploy they were using despite your interest in Lauren. You must have somehow made it clear you had no interest in Nxivm programs.
You might try contacting her again, I understand she’s single at the moment.

villagedianne
villagedianne
7 years ago

What a strange story. And what the hell were they trying to set up in Lauren’s bedroom? The narrator maybe regrets that he didn’t seal the deal that night, but no doubt he was better off leaving when things started to get strange.

Heather Anne
Heather Anne
7 years ago
Reply to  villagedianne

I cannot imagine any situation where my mother would ever have been any where near my bedroom while I was in there with a man.
I feel like your leaving something out.

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago
Reply to  Heather Anne

Who knows, maybe Mom was running the video recorder from the hallway collecting collateral.
I wouldn’t put it past them.

Heidi
Heidi
7 years ago
Reply to  Anonymous

Highly probable the makeout session was recorded from behind closed doors to play back for Vanguard, who nixed the deal.

Leon
Leon
7 years ago
Reply to  villagedianne

The guy wanted to fuck Lauren, that is all. Back in her day she was considered a good fuck. Boys will be boys. Look at the guy who posts as Shadowp**v. He would have given gold among other things to fuck Allison Mack.

Scott Johnson (@ScottTexJohnson)
Reply to  Leon

How do you know what she was considered back in the day?

Anonymous
Anonymous
7 years ago

Oh you mean getting rid of the comments that calls you out on your bullshit sources on Allison Mack and Kristin Kreuk? Yeah you people cannot take constructive criticism being abunch of babies/

Oh by the way i tell ShadowState to becareful if he knows what’s good for him.

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