Guest View: Raniere forced Pam Cafritz to do bad things – to her body

The late Pam Cafritz died in Nov. 2016.

Guest View: By A Witness of Keith’s ruination of Pam

You cannot do the the things Pam Cafritz did for Keith Raniere and not have it have it do bad things to your body.

Kieth would make Pam go sit in the car when he would have sex with Mariana Fernandez . How do you think that must of made her feel?

Pam was Keith pimp, but she still had a deep love for him. How did that make her feel?

Keith had time for Pam too sometimes. he trained her to pimp for him.

Keith had her run crazy miles and put her on crazy diets – that does crazy things to your body.

Pam worked day and night for Keith, while he had sex all night and slept all day (while she worked all day and night.) That does crazy things to your body.

Pam had to shove those feelings somewhere and when you do that to your body somethings got to give.

Pam was young in age but her body wasn’t, her mind wasn’t and her spirit wasn’t. Those parts of her body were old, worn out and tired, very tired.

At least her spirit is at peace, if she not in hell for all the bad deeds she did for her lover Keith.


Pam got cancer and died at an early age.
Before he was Vanguard his mainstays were Pam, Karen and Barb, plus any little girls they could round up.

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Pam & Keith
Pam & Keith
5 years ago

Keith would get revitalized when Pam would bring him a new young girl to hit on. Keith would be invisible for weeks. All of a sudden, he’d be bouncing around and all giddy about the innocent youngster he was going to “mentor” / “coach” / or whatever. I still think one of the reasons he wants all of his harem to run is because he saw all the fruits of Pam’s labor. She’d meet young, attractive, skinny girls while “training for the Olympics” and bring them home to meet her “Coach.”
I really hope HC got out of there before he got his grubby hands on her. She can never get rid of the stupid nickname Keith made up for her, but she may want to unfriend the co-pimps on her Facebook account.
Personally, one of the only reasons I stuck around for a little while was because of Pam. I thought she was genuine and real. I had no idea what was really going on.

Pam Pimped Both Ways
Pam Pimped Both Ways
5 years ago

Pam tried the same pimp behavior with me. Since I am a gay woman, it wasn’t with Keith. She tried to pimp me out with Nancy.

Yes you out there in NXIVM-ville, don’t be so shocked. When the inner circle is attempting to get some collateral on you, it’s to keep you sucked in. They are working to compromise your ethics; it’s up to each person if you are going to bite the hook. It’s amazing the lengths the inner circle will go is amazing.

Pam kept coming to me saying how lonely Nancy was and how she needed a “friend” to spend time with her.

Nancy followed up by wanting to spend time with me. “Let me EM you, let’s go have coffee, stop by my house,” and slowly she attempted her seduction with me. It never worked. I was in a long-term relationship, I wasn’t sleeping around kind of person nor did I find her attractive, a nice person or the kind of person I would want to be in a relationship.

Darth VanDouche - Chickenshit
Darth VanDouche - Chickenshit
5 years ago

There’s little doubt that VanDouche eventually sucked the life right out of her. But like the below poster states, she made her own bed. She was the chief pimp enabler of this mini king of douche-bags and had no qualms about allowing a twelve year old Rhiannon to be sucked into his vortex of sexual manipulation. She enabled him for three decades or so and is just as guilty as him.

5 years ago

You are too kind. Pam CHOSE to do those things. She also CHOSE to be a pimp for nasty, dirty, little Keith. I only met her a couple times and she tried her bullshit on me. Unfortunately for her, she made the hairs on the back of my neck stand straight up and I saw through her words. I remember thinking in that very moment, how very evil she was and that I would certainly be keeping my distance from her. Pam, her darkness and her invalidation of my pain were part of the reason I never became an Espian (THANK FUCKING GOD). I could see right through her. She was cold, calculated and chose her words carefully. I saw and felt this in other people as well. You guys are a fucked up bunch.
Pam made her bed. So have the rest of you that have stayed and backed a predator like Keith. The evil, darkness, manipulation, lies, and wildly unethical behaviour you are all partaking in will take its effect on you too. But alas, you are too blind, stupid and brainwashed to see this. Too bad. You hang around rotten people and destructive energy long enough, and you’ll start to feel the effects. Right, Nancy?

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Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist.

His work has been cited in hundreds of news outlets, like The New York Times, The Daily Mail, VICE News, CBS News, Fox News, New York Post, New York Daily News, Oxygen, Rolling Stone, People Magazine, The Sun, The Times of London, CBS Inside Edition, among many others in all five continents.

His work to expose and take down NXIVM is featured in books like “Captive” by Catherine Oxenberg, “Scarred” by Sarah Edmonson, “The Program” by Toni Natalie, and “NXIVM. La Secta Que Sedujo al Poder en México” by Juan Alberto Vasquez.

Parlato has been prominently featured on HBO’s docuseries “The Vow” and was the lead investigator and coordinating producer for Investigation Discovery’s “The Lost Women of NXIVM.” Parlato was also credited in the Starz docuseries "Seduced" for saving 'slave' women from being branded and escaping the sex-slave cult known as DOS.

Additionally, Parlato’s coverage of the group OneTaste, starting in 2018, helped spark an FBI investigation, which led to indictments of two of its leaders in 2023.

Parlato appeared on the Nancy Grace Show, Beyond the Headlines with Gretchen Carlson, Dr. Oz, American Greed, Dateline NBC, and NBC Nightly News with Lester Holt, where Parlato conducted the first-ever interview with Keith Raniere after his arrest. This was ironic, as many credit Parlato as one of the primary architects of his arrest and the cratering of the cult he founded.

Parlato is a consulting producer and appears in TNT's The Heiress and the Sex Cult, which premiered on May 22, 2022. Most recently, he consulted and appeared on Tubi's "Branded and Brainwashed: Inside NXIVM," which aired January, 2023.

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