Guest View: Misogyny Meltdown? Nicole Daedone’s Critics Unleash Toxic Attacks

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Oscar Mike

The premise that Nicole Daedone and Rachel Cherwitz should be chained and confined over their devotion to promoting techniques that bridge the pleasure divide needs to be called out for what it is: a climax of  misogyny.

Under the self-important delusion of chivalry, some people on Facebook have carried out an intimidation campaign against Daedone and anyone brave enough to celebrate her impact on the world.

They’ve been gatekeeping comment sections on social media anywhere OM is discussed for more than a decade. They foster a toxic echo chamber of hatred towards powerful women, celebrate any perceived harm to Onetaste’s mission of sexual liberation, catering to victimhood, and exploit the blocking feature to ensure anyone who challenges their warped view can’t so much as report-to-admin their disjointed ramblings.

They inject their opinion into any conversation, and their online persona’s focus is to seek out vulnerable people who were processing orgasm for themselves, and twist their experiences to fit a false narrative.

For their fifteen minutes of fame, those characters put years into hijacking Facebook groups like OMwiki, formed with the intention of providing open-source support and resources to independent practitioners of OM. They managed to reshape these spaces into a hypermasculine locker-room where keyboard warriors vilify anyone who celebrates the women who popularize OM.

The twisted obsession with destroying Nicole Daedone’s reputation from within the movement she leads has gone unchecked by anything other than time itself, and it has been a long time.

Almost all the people caught up in the hate group directed at Onetaste seemed vindicated after Bloomberg, BBC, and Netflix broadcast the most sensational and least credible stories they could find. Without the chorus from them, the conversation here dropped to nearly a halt.

It was like the OMwiki had been burnt down, except for one guy still here, holding a can of gas, celebrating the latest OMwiki-inspired public smear against Orgasmic Meditation.

When the indictments hit, it almost seemed like business as usual in this group. Just another bad day for Onetaste, laugh it up and wait for the next domino to fall, right?

Wrong.

The indictment activated all sorts of silent treaties and old alliances. People who would have never given Nicole Daedone the time of day before are celebrating her prison reform efforts. She is quickly becoming a solid symbol of the Federal Government’s war on sex education.

With the arrest, Nicole Daedone came back online more than ever. There’s a lot more of us in the new audience than leftovers from the old days, and far more who are rooting to see her beat the system than want to see her disappear.

And how does the self-appointed Mayor of OMwiki, Alutha Jamancar, greet us today? With petty insults and name calling: saying we’re trolls, naive, comparing us to MAGA, cultists, and insinuating that we’re primal ruthless predators, while crying to no one about how he still wants to become her “successor.”

Most telling of all, he calls Nicole Daedone “A thin veneer of lip gloss hastily applied as a concealer.”

Would someone say that about a man who taught orgasm to the world? The complete lack of self-awareness is astounding.

This brand of blatant unapologetic misogyny should have no place in the group, but it’s easy to understand how men like Mr. Jamancar would believe this place would continue to welcome it.

After all, they’ve been using this group as a soapbox to slander every business that Daedone has been part of. There have been tirades against her employees when staff show up here or in other media. They lie about their experiences with Onetaste to make themselves seem more important than they were, falsely representing themselves as if they have a special mind-reading insight about Daedone and other Onetaste staff, and constantly assigning a motif based only on fabricated experiences. Is that cyberstalking, or just a strange man’s online obsession?

I believe you write in the spirit of what MLK said in Letter from Birmingham Jail: “So the question is not whether we will be extremists, but what kind of extremists we will be. Will we be extremists for hate or for love? Will we be extremists for the preservation of injustice or for the extension of justice?”

The OM community is slowly waking up to the fact that Orgasmic Meditation is being labeled a type of extremist behavior.

I have been using your example to hammer that point home. Sometimes it leads me to say things that might sound harsh to the uninitiated, but from among judgment proof outlaws they are terms of endearment.

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