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FR received this comment from someone calling themselves Heather Blondell. Her story sounds like others told lately. Though Heather asks for help, she gives no information about how to contact her. But since she asked us to post it, we will post it and perhaps she will have more to say, if anyone offers to help.
By Heather Blondell
Child Protection Service took my son in 2016 in Rochester, NY (Monroe County). For five and a half years, they put me and my son through absolute hell, tortured us. They would not allow perfectly fit family members to take him when they were willing, so instead, they put him into foster care where, if I do not win the appeal in USSC, they will adopt him.
They took my rights without me being in court. I had four case workers testify that he never should have been taken from me in the first place. A psychologist worked an extra six months on our case to ensure we had better reports to give to the judge (she knew what I was up against, but didn’t want to tell me).
No one could get on the stand and say they had a reason to believe my son was in danger when he was in my care. They all believed I was perfectly fit to take care of him. Yet, all four case workers who testified on my behalf either ended up “transferred to a different unit of CPS,” and then one of them came to my house and told me personally she had actually been let go.
She said when I got my son back, I needed to leave NYS immediately, because someone had it out for me, and bad. Who says this without a reason, let alone your caseworker?
And to make it worse, the last two case workers that worked underneath the case manager who hated me ended up resigning because of my case specifically.
How does that happen, and why?
Tell me something’s not wrong, and I won’t fight until I am dead. But no one can. So here I am, almost six and a half years into this hell, waiting to hear whether the United States Supreme Court will hear my case. I pray to God that by posting this comment, someone on here sees it and actually takes it seriously.
I may be a single mom with one child, but that one child needs his mother more than you could ever know. I have tried private attorneys, public defenders, fighting on my own. I am out of options, and soon my health will be out of time because my heart won’t take much more. I can’t take much more.
My whole life, I knew I was meant to be a mom, and the one thing I knew I was meant to be was ripped out from underneath me because I was “different” – I’m ADHD, hyper, happy, outgoing. I give a shit about people. I was the girl who got F’s in HS, but is now getting straight A’s in law school.
But by the time I’m done with law school, my case will be too late to fight, and I’m not willing to give him up.
So if anyone hears this message and cares to read it, help me – Heather Blondell, Rochester, NY.
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The only place Heather belongs is locked up in prison & and away from the general population so that she is no longer able to wreak havoc and destruction to everything and everyone who has the misfortune of crossing her path. She is a dangerous psychopathic narcissist who holds no moral compass. That baby would be dead if CPS hadn’t stepped in. Nodding off with her premature opiate addicted baby turning purple and black in her arms from lack of oxygen – that was the sight of Mommy Heather with her beloved son on several occasions. Only to be saved by another in the household. Heather is the type of person who would attempt murder of an elderly person to get at their money. She is the most vulgar, vile, excuse for a human being I’ve ever known. Carter deserves the loving parents who want to adopt him into their family. Despite his special needs, courtesy of Heather continuing to chain smoke and indulge in hard drugs throughout pregnancy, forever damaging her son on a biological & neurological level. This woman is the antichrist.
The people in foster care give carter a better life than she could provide. She is a manipulative person she is a liar who has history of lies, stealing, drug addiction, just google her name with arrest next to it. there is no way this girl is sober…it will tell you what type of person she is.
And for those that wanna be rude yes, I’m in a community college going to school for criminal justice. However, my plan is to major in law after I graduate, I wrote this quickly to get my story out there, not to be disrespected, I don’t care about the degree…I care that I’m doing something to help people in the end. If this is what your concern is, don’t read the post. The only thing I care about is people understanding that the court system in Monroe County is entirely corrupt and they don’t care if you are a woman or man…that is not the point. It was that I was a single mom doing everything I needed to do in order to get this back and it was never good enough. Many people involved in my case told me that someone in the system had something against me so maybe try not always judging a book by its cover.
Heather you are such a liar!!! You guys this women doesn’t have her child bc she refuses to do any of parenting classes or classes she was court ordered to do, she did none of it!! That baby would be in its high chair for hours bc she’d be in the garage smoking doing her own thing . She was suppose to attend outpatient rehab bc shes an addict. And she never did that class either!! And the becoming a lawyer part, idk y she added that in there but there’s no way this girl would ever do 8 years of school to become a lawyer, she can’t even keep a job! when she can’t even make it to appointments!!! Heather you really need help and to do those classes if u want that baby back….. oh and that baby could of been adopted by a wonderful man but she said no bc she was embarrassed of their relationship because he was so much older and didn’t want people to find out, so when people did start finding out she was telling them he was her uncle!! Another lie ! But you LET that baby go into foster care, you made the chose for the child then! When you told the cps worker he was really your uncle but you were seeing him and living with him! I have the cps papers from when he was a baby up til I kicked your a$$ outta here, with that rag a muffin boyfriend!!!!! Don’t lie to these people Heather, you had all the chances in the world to get the child back and you didn’t take any of those chances by doing the classes, being on time for your scheduled visit, you were late almost everytime!! But don’t lie to try and get what you want, haven’t you learned yet that approach doesn’t work!
you really need some help. honestly. its funny you attack me and accuse me of this WHEN in fact you drove your child into a thruway toll booth. If you continue to use slander around my name, I PROMISE you, i will not hesitate to get a restraining order against you as I should have a long time ago. Did I make mistakes? absolutely, no one is perfect but your going way above and beyond to destroy someone who literally does not think twice about you CAY-LEIGH. Get some help.
It’s very telling that you knew it was me because I’m the only person besides Bob that knows all the details!! Very nice job replying to my comment. You made it very clear to everyone that everything I said was true about you.!! you’re telling me to get help?! you’re the one on a discussion board trying to get your son back that you’re never going to get!! You lost your son because of your bad decisions. I’ve been clean for six years and I have my son back. I have custody of him. He lives with me and Bob. You wish you had that😜
You were begging to come back even after you got caught stealing from Bob stealing from Bob‘s company stealing from Bob’s children. Getting arrested left and right so Bob was getting you lawyers to try to keep you out of jail. If it wasn’t for Bob, your ass would be sitting in jail where it should be.!!!!!
I know you’re already onto the next victim. And I feel so sorry for him if only he knew. But he’ll find out.!’ 😜
Good luck with your law degree 😂
Oh, and don’t forget about your mile long rap sheet!!!!! that’s part of the reason!!!!!!
This is happening in EVERY state to good & in fact the very finest Moms- all over, the USA. American courts are so corrupt now, that they make Russian ones, look good. CPS is a terrorist organization.
It would help to have more information on this case.
It would also help for Rochester state office employees to understand how to protect children and families from cultural Marxism. Too few managing the chaos there know the ultimate goal:
“… Abolition of the family! Even the most radical flare up at this infamous proposal of the Communists.
On what foundation is the present family, the bourgeois family, based? On capital, on private gain. In its completely developed form this family exists only among the bourgeoisie. …
The bourgeois family will vanish as a matter of course when its complement vanishes, and both will vanish with the vanishing of capital. …”
https://www.gutenberg.org/files/61/61-h/61-h.htm
The “vanishing of capital”? 🤔
Why, that would never happen. 🙄
Maybe Catholic Charities can help?
https://www.nysnavigator.org/family-resources/resource-map/catholic-family-center-kin-program-3/
Careful. Sometimes they help, but a few working for religious organizations have been connected to a few of the problem networks. The corruption has been like water, filling most every available space.
Judges are not trained in child or family psychology. They are politically appointed former lawyers, from disciplines having nothing to do with families or children.
Degrees in psychology are not necessary but experience makes it easier to spot and identify it early on. How many cases does one have to witness before noticing a pattern in behavior? I’ve never witnessed one family custody case and yet I can see a clear pattern with the ones presented on this site.
The basis for all judgement is common sense.
There are NO requirements to be a family law judge…except for being appointed by a politician. Most all family law judges get put there to start….then they get moved up to criminal or civil. Family law courts are the bottom and starting career to judges who want nothing to do with family law to begin with and have no training of family or child psychology. And most all cases are fast tracked and not really analyzed in detail.
Heather, there has to be a reason who they took your son, 99% of cases are because the parent was deemed “unfit”, meaning serious mental issues- parent thinks they are jesus, drug related-parent hitting the pipe/testing dirty, criminal issue- parent is a felon, what did they tell you the reason they removed your son?????
They usually take kids from men frequently for no reason based on antiquated beliefs men are bad and women are better. So if a woman gets them taken away…she really screwed up or didn’t have a good lawyer.
Debunked in the frank report. They are taking children away from mothers relentlessly. Making up fake bs. DCF is a mess
100% has NOT been debunked.
If state and/or federal offices would care enough to collect the data, the data would show child custody goes to mothers half the time and fathers half the time D.L. Adelman himself informed the seniors at the Senior Center a few months ago about how courts USED to allow mostly mothers to raise their children, but that’s not true, anymore. He didn’t add the part about how fathers can usually pay lawyers more than mothers can — and the determining factors aren’t gender anymore as much as dollars, hundreds of dollars, thousands of dollars, tens of thousands of dollars and hundreds of thousands of dollars. Sometimes millions, now which will happen more and more as inflation rises and the economy crashes. Good times.
My exes bf in nj was a child abuser, coke head, animal abuser, assaulter, etc and courts didn’t care. And the current bf has multiple burglary and other criminal convictions and courts here simply don’t care. The courts don’t care about who lives with the kids.
Can you cite where you pulled your stats from?
That is not always the case actually. They said I left him in the car alone, he was not alone- the person that had watched him came and testified which normally has some kind of impact on a case yet instead the court threw it out. A year and half into the case I spoke out in court and asked where the so called video they claimed to have was because IF I couldn’t remember leaving my own child alone in the car then my rights should be taken and they told me that they never had a video, it was aimed at the wrong part of the parking lot. So, I asked them why my child was still not returned and from there everything got worse. They were making me jump impossible hoops never appeasing them no matter how hard I tried. They always wanted more. Don’t tell me about my own case unless you went through it and lived it. Please. This was not posted to start a debate it was started because I am BEGGING FOR HELP. I may be a single mother but I am his mother. I raised him for two years on my own. A child needs his mother. If i didn’t care I wouldn’t be here fighting 6 years later for the same thing.
Theres plenty. Aside from leaving her kid in a hot car while she robs walmart, she has a long history of drug abuse and is a compulsive liar. Her being out of his life is better for him. Shes so selfish and delusional she doesn’t care.
Rochester is a hot spot for custody flip and taking children away from parents.
… doctor of law in Tennessee fighting for families against government and court abuses …
https://www.facebook.com/connie.reguli
Heather, you are not alone. This kids for cash scam is rampant across the country and most media outlets won’t report on it. Thank you Frank for taking this on!!! Praying for you Heather 🙏
It won’t make a difference. Unless people come out in mass and file class action suits or get their state legislators to change laws…NOTHING WILL HAPPEN.
NY and CT are the top two states for Child-Trafficking.
Source?
That’s the thing, Anon. Who’s keeping track? Which government office in which state cares enough to collect that kind of data?
Not sure how community college (no disrespect to community college) became getting A’s in law school.
https://www.wayup.com/profile/Heather-Blondell-7068349547/
However, as Theodora demonstrates, getting into law school is only the first step of being lawyer-ly.
Not-in-law-school-Heather figured out you can’t (always) copy and paste text with paragraphs into the FR comments box and have the formatting remain. Like, with her first post she knew that.
[Poor Thea will figure this out one day.]
Lawyer-ly isn’t a positive in the family court criminal enterprise.
Heather – I’m so sorry for what you are going through. You’re not alone. FR has taken on this issue that reflects cps child trafficking and trafficking through family court.
Can you share on what “premise” cps became involved in your life?
Nothing justifies this outcome. It’s helpful for the public to be alerted to the scams which steal our children.
There may be ways to help of strategize if you share more details.
One day at a time… just keep going.
Heather….I hope you come back and tell us more 😉
It’s rare women lose custody so it must’ve been quite serious.
The way to reverse these situations starts with ownership and accountability.
There’s so much help is out there.
It’s NOT rare. Read parental alienation.
Parental alienation is nearly impossible to convince a judge here in NJ. Parental alienation is sometimes subjective and most judges here in NJ don’t want to make a decision. What should happen is the court refers the topic to a detailed psychology report by a certified medical professional.
Are you new on this site? Did you read her words? You must think quite highly of yourself to share such insight.
https://www.forbes.com/sites/naomicahn/2020/01/26/why-women-lose-custody/?sh=65c7cf4641e9
Bouncing bundle of bull. Don’t want the Truth to come out.
It’s not rare at all. Whoever told you this is a liar.
Child trafficking. It’s a money driven case. It happens. The state is making money stealing your kid into the system.
When they steal from a decent mother – AND refuse all suitable alternatives that should be considered- you’re looking at a monied case.
Does anyone know the age of the child when taken? I imagine on the young side with plans to foster and make money off him indefinitely.
It’s a barbaric system with no Justice. This is happening throughout our country.
Exceedingly thankful to FR for your continuing coverage of these stories. You’ve brought it into the spotlight and have refused to take the spotlight off the willful destruction of our children and parental bonds.
Please continue your work! Praying your diligence will launch this epidemic into the mainstream media but given the current censorship by our government that’s not likely.
Staying out of family court- refusing to enter/ is the best way to shut down these criminals.
I wonder if she is the same Heather Blondell who has a long arrest record for drugs?
How long? Link? You gonna passive aggressive us or share?
So that means CPS should steal her child and deny the child’s right to be placed with family and friends? They’re supposed to unite families not tear them apart.
I’m sure there are good reasons he wasn’t placed with family or friends.
For instance?
If the daughter is a drug addict, there’s a chance her parents were abusive. it’s not a certainty but… There are big red flags there.
You think you know so much about a person yet you have no idea. 12 years I have not touched alcohol or any drug so before you start throwing judgements out make sure you know what your talking about
CPS should get psychiatrists involved to make and give input. CPS workers are NOT medical experts in child/family psychology.
Connecticut DCF seems to defer to the opinions of Mr. Robert Horwitz, former Treasurer of the for-profit non-profit “Connecticut AFCC, Inc.” Mr. Gerard Adelman, former Director of the for-profit non-profit “Connecticut AFCC, Inc.” took Karen’s children from her to give those children to the identified perpetrator.
A federal grand jury should have investigated Gerard Adelman, Robert Horwitz and the entire network of the Connecticut AFCC, Inc. Kids for Cash racketeering in state family courts.
For some reason, a federal grand jury has not yet investigated Gerard Adelman, Robert Horwitz and the entire network of the Connecticut AFCC, Inc. Kids for Cash racketeering in the state family courts — and does Mr. Robert Horwitz manage the Ambrose case for DCF?