From an Old Friend: Message to Siobhan Hotaling: “Follow your moral compass”

Siobhan Hotaling was punished because she did not want Keith Raniere's sperm.

Several years ago, Siobhan Hotaling, an EMP, had an ethical breach:  She refused to have sex with Keith Raniere. She’s a lesbian.  An old friend writes today to deliver her a message:

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Dear Siobhan;

I’ve been in circles to have known you since childhood. A boyfriend even lived next to you. Never have I heard anyone describe you as less than amazing. You were always fun, insightful and confident. You did your thing &  your thing is amazing. You were born amazing, you are still amazing. You don’t need anyone’s guidance. Follow your moral compass!

Please get back in touch with old friends, everyone misses you! It’ll be OK. No one on the outside wants anything but your success and happiness in this life. We LOVE YOU!!! No matter what, we love you & you’re a precious gift.

I can still hear you laugh & see you smile. Your light shines bright. You are loved.

Siobhan Hotaling did not want to have sex with Keith Raniere. He told her that it was not the raw crude sex he wanted but that she alone was destined to bear his avatar child. She is gay and did not want a baby. Keith declared her to be in ‘ethical breach.’ Everyone in the inner circle of ESP was forbidden to discuss the nature of the breach. But many knew she was in breach but did not know the reason. Frank Report, not being in ESP, has no requirement to keep it secret. Many opportunities bypassed her in her so-called career with ESP because she would not have raw crude sex with Keith Raniere.   Maybe it’s time for her to leave.

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5 years ago

Siobahn is a sad case. She could have had a life, but chose to be weak and become a slave to the machine. Her self esteem is so low that even though she knows a lot about the abuses she and others have withstood .she stays. She probably still teeters between upbeat and bright and manic/suicidal. She was cooked along time ago.Sorry

5 years ago

Siobhan is institutionalized with NXIVM. She’s been in a really long time and has drank a lot of kool-aid. She makes pretty good money for little work being an EMP.
She thought her music would go somewhere with the help of her mentor Keith. Really no one has been successful with music or acting with Keith Raniere’s help.
She’s gotten to rub elbows with the Simi somewhat famous actors and felt special hanging out with them. In the end, she’s still lost as ever and heading nowhere.
It’s sad and I agree with the poster. Siobhan could be so much more without NXIVM but for some it’s a hard “drug”to give up and start all over again.

5 years ago

I know Siobahn well and this is NOT true. This is not what went down between Keith and her.

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5 years ago

El Periodico de Mexico reprints NY Times article on US Federal investigations of NXIVM under section International – Security and Justice” on Dec 26

5 years ago

Rumor is she did have sex with him and he “fixed” her gayness. She went back, as you can’t fix gay. It was enough to give her what she wanted. The ability to charge people to do EM’s.

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Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist.

His work has been cited in hundreds of news outlets, like The New York Times, The Daily Mail, VICE News, CBS News, Fox News, New York Post, New York Daily News, Oxygen, Rolling Stone, People Magazine, The Sun, The Times of London, CBS Inside Edition, among many others in all five continents.

His work to expose and take down NXIVM is featured in books like “Captive” by Catherine Oxenberg, “Scarred” by Sarah Edmonson, “The Program” by Toni Natalie, and “NXIVM. La Secta Que Sedujo al Poder en México” by Juan Alberto Vasquez.

Parlato has been prominently featured on HBO’s docuseries “The Vow” and was the lead investigator and coordinating producer for Investigation Discovery’s “The Lost Women of NXIVM.” Parlato was also credited in the Starz docuseries "Seduced" for saving 'slave' women from being branded and escaping the sex-slave cult known as DOS.

Additionally, Parlato’s coverage of the group OneTaste, starting in 2018, helped spark an FBI investigation, which led to indictments of two of its leaders in 2023.

Parlato appeared on the Nancy Grace Show, Beyond the Headlines with Gretchen Carlson, Dr. Oz, American Greed, Dateline NBC, and NBC Nightly News with Lester Holt, where Parlato conducted the first-ever interview with Keith Raniere after his arrest. This was ironic, as many credit Parlato as one of the primary architects of his arrest and the cratering of the cult he founded.

Parlato is a consulting producer and appears in TNT's The Heiress and the Sex Cult, which premiered on May 22, 2022. Most recently, he consulted and appeared on Tubi's "Branded and Brainwashed: Inside NXIVM," which aired January, 2023.

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