Reader: responds to Monte Blu – “I got away, you can also”

Is it fair to say a woman who leaves Keith Raniere has escaped or merely broke up.

I don’t know if Monte Blu is true or not.

But I am going to tell you my story. I was 18 and on my birthday I had sex with him. Nothing illegal.  He told me I would have his child. He was 50.

After three months of sex, he stopped. He said I was too fat. People would think I was slender but he said I was too fat.

He also told me I could not have sex with any other men even though he never had sex with me anymore.

Sometimes, I’ve became in need of fun. Or sex or just love.

Never, in a million years, did I imagine when I had sex with him and that I began working for him, I would not be allowed to engage in sex acts with other men.

He was having loads of fun and I was alone with my eccentric family of fifteen or so women.

He’s been doing this for years. It’s all he likes to do. It’s his favorite pastime.

When I asked Nancy Salzman about this, she said I was mistaken. I said it’s okay for him to do this, why can’t I? I said it was not fair.  She said it was “my issue.”

I didn’t want to be imprisoned like Daniela Fernandez. And I didn’t need any more EMs.

So. I left and went back home. Since then, I’ve dated men.

After seeing Keith, every other man looked nice and not manipulative.

When I was there, I watched women who would wait for him, though for some they waited 15 years to be married and bear him the child that will save the world which never happened, of course,  and which never will happen.

Women who are now 40 with 1000 or less calorie diet, and menopause set in. I will never forget Pam Cafritz, counting calories and going out to run when she was exhausted because she had to be “Keith’s legs.”

And I saw him eating food whenever he wanted.

I don’t know if you are real Monte Blu, but if you are real, I got away and you can also.

A woman purports to have left Keith Raniere. But can you leave him too?
Is it fair to say a woman who leaves Keith Raniere has escaped or merely broke up?

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Earl Grey
Earl Grey
6 years ago

This one is for Monte Blu and anyone else still drinking the Kool aid. I couldn’t stand silently by anymore when the shit should be hitting the fan.

Feels like we all dated Mr. V.  And it was one of those relationships that you look back on and shake your head and ask yourself “did I really date that small penis guy with a giant ego but who was actually an idiot and smelled like dirt”?  Yes.  We all did.  Worst relationship ever.  

Huffington Post did an article about the 11 signs you are dating a sociopath.  

Imma break them down one by one to see if the Vster is one.

RED FLAG #1. Having an oversized ego.

Our little pal likes calling himself a V word meaning he’s at the head of a movement when he shouldn’t even be the head of a bowel movement.  He has two weeks of debaucherous, sex filled celebrations for his birthday. And he considers himself to be the smartest man in the world.  I’m going to consider this one a resounding yes.

RED FLAG #2. Lying and exhibiting manipulative behavior.

If you look up the term “lying and manipulative little cunt” in the dictionary, you’ll see his face there.  I apologize to the other cunts out there who are being lumped in with a bigger loser but I couldn’t think of a more appropriate word.  My British blood sometimes comes out in my vernacular.

RED FLAG #3. Exhibiting a lack of empathy.

Branding and blackmailing women?  Suing people into oblivion.  Losing tens of millions of dollars without caring.  Check.

RED FLAG #4. Showing a lack of remorse or shame.

Anyone who can put those videos about nothing up on youtube and not be embarrassed at how moronic they look has no shame.  From one video:  “People have killed themselves because of Sesame Street” – shut the fuck up V, you sociopathic muppet.  Leave Sesame Street out of this.  There’s no pussy to be had from that show.  Move onto a CW series. At least they are of age on there.

RED FLAG #5. Staying eerily calm in scary or dangerous situations.

This guy has almost lost everything several times but at least outwardly he keeps calm.  if I lost close to $100 million of someone else’s money I’d be hiding in a cave on a deserted island praying that no one ever finds me. He hides in the light.  

RED FLAG #6. Behaving irresponsibly or with extreme impulsivity.

The amount of times V hit on women openly and brazenly is crazy like a frat boy who just hit puberty.  Many of us have saw it especially at V week.  According to many reports he doesn’t wrap up itty bitty teenie tiny V when he has sex. Leaving himself and the women open to std’s.  

RED FLAG #7. Having few friends.

He puts himself on a pedestal and has others do it too.  Can you really have friends in that situation? Certainly he has few people he trusts.  Other than people he controls.

RED FLAG #8. Being charming—but only superficially.

Many of us who interacted with V thought he was faking it when spoke or showed emotion.  Like there was something missing when he spoke.  Depth.  A soul.  Proper hygiene.  

RED FLAG #9. Living by the “pleasure principle.”

He started a glorified sex club.  But it’s tough for guys who look like a cliche computer repair guy to get sex. He found a way though didn’t he?      

RED FLAG #10. Showing disregard for societal norms.

He runs a cult.  Most people frown on that.  

RED FLAG #11. Having “intense” eyes.

Right underneath those computer repair man glasses are very hollow, glazed over eyes that like to stare.

Verdict:  Sociopath – in my most humble of opinions.  To know for sure we’d have to hook him up to his own non-patentable sociopath checking machine that spews out sleazy pick up lines until someone breaks down. That’s the only way to know beyond any doubt.  

Tea time.

6 years ago
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Ladies, it’s time to leave the pudgy little impostor of a man and find yourself a real one.

3 years ago
Reply to  Earl Grey

Nice one Earl Grey!

Monte Blu is fake news
Monte Blu is fake news
6 years ago

“I Got Away…” seems believable. But I don’t think Monte Blu needs to escape, because he/she seems only to be a prankster getting off on writing his/her own Prank Report.

6 years ago

It’s his favorite past time because he’s a sociopath. They all have many superficial sexual relationships, and you women just keep falling for their bullshit.

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Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist.

His work has been cited in hundreds of news outlets, like The New York Times, The Daily Mail, VICE News, CBS News, Fox News, New York Post, New York Daily News, Oxygen, Rolling Stone, People Magazine, The Sun, The Times of London, CBS Inside Edition, among many others in all five continents.

His work to expose and take down NXIVM is featured in books like “Captive” by Catherine Oxenberg, “Scarred” by Sarah Edmonson, “The Program” by Toni Natalie, and “NXIVM. La Secta Que Sedujo al Poder en México” by Juan Alberto Vasquez.

Parlato has been prominently featured on HBO’s docuseries “The Vow” and was the lead investigator and coordinating producer for Investigation Discovery’s “The Lost Women of NXIVM.” Parlato was also credited in the Starz docuseries "Seduced" for saving 'slave' women from being branded and escaping the sex-slave cult known as DOS.

Additionally, Parlato’s coverage of the group OneTaste, starting in 2018, helped spark an FBI investigation, which led to indictments of two of its leaders in 2023.

Parlato appeared on the Nancy Grace Show, Beyond the Headlines with Gretchen Carlson, Dr. Oz, American Greed, Dateline NBC, and NBC Nightly News with Lester Holt, where Parlato conducted the first-ever interview with Keith Raniere after his arrest. This was ironic, as many credit Parlato as one of the primary architects of his arrest and the cratering of the cult he founded.

Parlato is a consulting producer and appears in TNT's The Heiress and the Sex Cult, which premiered on May 22, 2022. Most recently, he consulted and appeared on Tubi's "Branded and Brainwashed: Inside NXIVM," which aired January, 2023.

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