Frank Parlato
In our exploration of the juryless family court system, FR looks at a contentious case involving Matthew Lodice, a building contractor, and Theodora Antar, a law student at the University of Connecticut.
Unending Battle: The Custody Case of A.L.
Lodice and Antar were never married and never lived together.
They were co-workers, and Antar “became pregnant with A.L. unexpectedly in September 2018.” The child was born in May 2019. She is now four years, five months.
Antar at first had primary custody, but Lodice actively involved himself in the child’s life.
From when A.L. was about six months old, there was contention between them. Antar sued Lodice in a dispute over child support, and they have been fighting in one court or another ever since.
In 2022, Antar stepped through the doors of the family court and filed an emergency ex-parte motion for custody before Judge Jane Grossman. It backfired. Judge Grossman granted custody to the father. Antar is now allowed only supervised visitation at the discretion of Lodice.
She has not seen her child in more than two months.
Theodora Antar
A Web of Accusations
In response, Antar filed a sweeping RICO lawsuit against Lodice, Judge Grossman, and over 300 other individuals, including an extensive list of court professionals and members of her own family.
Her allegations include fraud, conspiracy to commit fraud, abuse of process, and violations of the Federal Racketeer Influenced and Corrupt Organizations Act.
Antar claims Lodice and Judge Grossman colluded to strip her of her parental rights and claims Lodice unlawfully prevented her from seeing or contacting their daughter.
According to her amended complaint, Antar is not only suing Lodice and the officials as mentioned above but also Lodice’s:
- father,
- mother,
- stepfather,
- ex wife,
- son,
- girlfriend
- two brothers,
- sister-in-law,
- ex-sister-in-law
- brother’s brother-in-law
- business,
- customers of his business
- subcontractor of his business
- partner in his business
- friend
- ex-landlord
- police officers who refused to arrest Lodice based on Antar’s complaints
- police departments that refused to arrest him based on Antar’s complaints: New Britain Police Department, Waterbury Police Department, Middlebury Police Department, Wallingford Police Department, New Haven Police Department, Woodbridge Police Department, Orange Police Department and Milford Police Department –all refused to arrest Lodice
Lodice’s Side of the Story
To date, we have yet to hear anything from the father, Matthew Lodice.
In the following opinion editorial, Lodice offers his perspective on this complex and emotionally charged battle with the mother of his daughter.
By Matthew Lodice
I am the father of A.L. –Theodora Antar’s little girl.
First, I will say my daughter is finally safe from the abuse of her mother. There is a clear distinction between facts and fiction.
I encourage anyone curious or concerned about our case to download the transcripts from the court proceedings.
From there, you will see the facts and why Ms. Antar lost custody of our daughter.
Also, all police reports are a matter of public record.
Ms. Antar has psychological issues that are not being managed. It is the state’s job to determine what is in the child’s best interest and make decisions based on that, not on what people are feeling or wishing. Facts matter. Here are some facts:
Since our split, Ms. Antar has been doing everything she can to try to ruin my life. In doing so, it skewed her better judgment and started significantly hurting our child.
Ms. Antar has contacted every immediate family member of mine, friends and acquaintances, and potential love interest.
Ms. Antar has sent hate messages and threatening messages. She’s even sent pornographic images and videos that she and I shared while dating – to my mother, father, family, and friends.
None of my family or friends ever responded with anything hateful back.
She has messaged people I haven’t talked to in over 20 years just because they have commented on pictures and stuff I posted.
Friends don’t even want to pose in pictures with me anymore for fear of her retaliation.
She has contacted people I’ve dated since her and harassed them.
She’s even gone as far as contacting where they work, saying anything she could to get them in trouble.
She has filed 15 protective orders against me in four jurisdictions. All were found false and denied.
We must still appear before a judge for the seven new protective orders she recently filed. She has filed 20 contempt motions. All were found false.
She has filed nine ex parte emergency custody motions. All were found false and denied.
Family Court Judge Jane Grossman awarded custody to Matthew Lodice.The system is not against her at all.
The facts of the case are what’s against her.
My oldest son babysits our daughter regularly when I have work or engagements. Ms. Antar didn’t want him to do this. So he became a target of her attacks. She has made four allegations of sexual abuse against him towards my daughter. After two forensic interviews and four detective investigations, with DCF involved, they were all found false and done in retaliation.
Not being satisfied, she took our daughter to have a rape kit done on her, which was negative. Imagine that. Imagine your four-year-old girl subjected to a rape kit based on her mother’s delusions.
She even left a fake review of my son at work, leading to his termination.
We knew the review was fake because it was at the wrong location and falsely identified my son’s job description. But his employer said the backlash from her was too much of a risk for them to keep him.
She has tried to sue me and my company.
Ms. Antar is currently on supervised visits and supervised phone calls only. She continues to harass my family and me by constantly sending the police to do “wellness checks” at our home.
Think about it.
Do you believe every judge in multiple jurisdictions, every DCF employee, every police officer and detective, every children’s hospital and pediatrician, and everyone in her and my own family are all trying to make Theodora’s life difficult?
We all want what’s in the best interest of our daughter.
Ms. Antar is now facing trial for filing a false report and disorderly conduct. It is the second time police have charged her for filing a false report against me.
Both times, police arrested her, and she called the cops.
The disorderly conduct charge is because she harassed my children and me during a visitation exchange with our daughter.
I encourage anyone to go to the Orange Police Department, New Haven Police Department, Woodbridge Police Department, or Waterbury Police Department to review police reports.
She was also recently arrested for violating the protective order I have against her for showing up at our daughter’s doctor’s appointment. She was told multiple times not to be there by the doctor’s office and by myself.
Ms. Antar has not seen our daughter in two months because she refuses to follow the court order and do supervised visitation. She demands that A.L. be brought to her immediately upon request, without supervision.
Two weeks ago, I was arrested for interfering with an officer and risk of injury. The reason this happened was because Ms. Antar spoke with our daughter during one of their phone calls. Our daughter claimed her butt hurt her from not wiping well since she wipes herself.
Ms. Antar called the police and said A.L. was being molested at my house again. When the police came, they came with many units demanding I open the door so that they could have the medics and police come into our home, strip down my daughter, and subject her to have her private parts checked again.
Upon refusal, they forced entry, arrested me, and took my daughter to the hospital. She was cleared at the hospital again, and allegations were found false, and she was sent back home to us the same night.
I’ve since terminated phone calls between my daughter and Ms. Antar until the court addressed these issues.
She hasn’t paid one child support payment since I’ve taken over custody. She claims to be unemployed and have no income, and at the same time claims to have $1,700 a week in bills. Her financial affidavits are public record.
The allegations she made about me drinking and driving with my children are false. It’s just something she says. She is willing to say and do anything to make our lives a living hell.
All we and anyone want is for her to be a good mom and be there for our daughter. Just to leave everyone alone and focus on what she needs to focus on.
This is just some of what has been going on. There are so many other things Ms. Antar has done to many people. Anyone who has ever dated her in the past couple of years has faced retaliation from her once that relationship ended, especially litigiously.
Though the court system has flaws, it is not corrupt against Ms. Antar. It has just listened to the facts from both sides and has been doing what is in our daughter’s best interest.
My daughter is doing so much better now. She is happy and well-adjusted. She is learning so much while growing and getting better every day. All I care about is the well-being of my children, and I will continue to do so.
Frank Parlato is an investigative journalist, media strategist, publisher, and legal consultant.
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Dude sounds like a pwNPD. What’s up w all the moms, just baking cookies w their kids… and these men are CLEARLY abusers and yet they’re being given custody and the moms are being jailed left and right for advocating for their kids and entirely erased from their children’s lives
Ok. So all forensic interviews of the child have turned out negative for SA. The mother has videos of the child claiming SA happened obviously the child wouldn’t specifically know what SA is but the child said enough to make it so in the videos We all know children act in mysterious way depending on the way they see the world. Let’s imagine for a second that the child is a child who is only willing or comfortable to share truthful information with her mother. We can also consider that she’s been in the mother’s care her whole life and the child would have human nature trust her mother most of all. Let’s consider the only truthful information shared by the child was shared with the mother. Let’s consider occoms razor would tell us that is a true statement. Now imagine all you people trashing this woman for being tossed overnight into a situation where her child was stripped of her care instantly. How would you act ? Let’s say your claims are not respected ? Nothing is working in your favor , you just can’t get anyone to understand. How would you act ? Rationally ? Sane , after your child was taken from you ? Let’s also consider this liberal judge. No liberal on earth is of sane mind. Ct state employees besides cops who answer to these state appointees are all liberals. Let’s not even consider the laws being passed supporting SA in liberal states. You’re all 100% wrong for not considering that this woman is possibly telling the truth. Maybe her actions after the fact have been done out of pure duress or of elevated emotional levels. Fact many of you are condemning her for her actions after the fact and every single one of you would be going crazy if your child admitted to you what her child has told her. I don’t know her. I first saw Theodora on a WTNH fb post comment section That is how i learned of her story that I have followed since
. I’m a male in my 40s that knows the tragedy of not having a mother in my life as a child. Use your critical thinking before condemning someone. This is a mother that has had her child stripped from her. Let’s be real. The judge is obviously a liberal. Do you trust anyone that thinks like that ? Who has the true mental problems and what class of people are the most vindictive ? Liberals. Who has put Xxx books into school libraries , who has started programs for drag queens to enter kindergarten classes for lapsitting storytime ? Who is transitioning children ? Liberals in state level jobs. Who is letting SA offenders out on the streets ? Liberal judges. These are facts you can not contest. Don’t be so fast to think this woman has not fallen victim to the ideology. Consider the same judge you are all vindicating is the same judge that would let an illegal that has SA a child walk without any accountability. That is their ideology and I don’t have to see an example to know that’s what she would do.
Man this woman can only try to bring him and his family down for so long. If this was a one time event i’d believe her. But the fact she has been shut down by judges and everyone else REPEATEDLY I believe his side of the story. Also why go after family members? If they legit did something they would be charged, yet no one was. This whole thing just seems made up by the girls mother to bring everybody down because of her own insecurities. Wow.
This girl is insane and has fled the country since she hasn’t been seen in months. The fact she goes after everyone involved, was suing 400 people, and hasn’t seen her daughter lately proves she is making all this up. There have been full investigations into this for YEARS now and every single one comes up negative and nothing found. I wonder why? Probably because she has nothing on the father.
Give up Theo, I know you’re reading this. Get some therapy and try to be in your daughters life.
I hope this little girl gets the justice she deserves! This guy’s aura is terrible, it’s all in the eyes. I am dealing with a narcissist myself who gets away with everything with CPS/Child protective services being involved. They literally attack the good parent and write reports completely based on lies and they lies he have told. And YES the sherrifs/cops are all in on it! They are all a system that has money flowing through it thanks to disgusting people like Lodice. Why is it that so many strangers have commented on this form? Because people are becoming more and more aware of the truth nature of these disgusting courts and the corruption that goes on all at the hands of innocent children! I am living the hell of fighting a mentally sick person in court. I am praying for this little girl, this man is sick, demented and sadistic.
This man is the devil. He is lying on the mother and there is more than enough proof to prove so. If you go in the mothers social media page you will see a video of the daughter on the phone with the mother and the little girls tarts laughing. The mom asks the daughter “why are you laughing” and the daughter laughs again and said” because daddy is licking my pu$$y” this man is the devil and in more videos on the mothers page you can see the daughter describing to mother” he put his penis on my back”. we need to save this 4 year old girl this man is only getting away with this becuase he has many connections. Poor little girl getting molested by her own blood father and half brother how can a man be so sick and disgusting he is a disgrace I hope he goes to prison and gets the death sentence.
Ur as delusional as Theo lol
Yes because if that was really happening, the dad would do that while on the phone and then allow the daughter to tell the mom that’s already making false statements. You’re delusional . .
Being a step mother who got full permanent custody 13 years ago after hell and back.. I absolutely believe the mom. My stepson was s a by a person of trust and came home and performed or tried to acts on my 4 year old daughter . He was also 4 at the time. I would also question, just like this mother is doing. Not knowing I was coaching by asking questions just trying to find out what the hell was happening when he was with bio mom. also 2 year old brother would be subject to 4 year trying to perform acts that had happened to him. Finally got him into play therapy and was verified after years of fighting that he was s a. They are 15 and 17 now but thank GOD me and dad were able to get full custody from bio mother ! This mother absolutely needs custody of her daughter before she’s traumatized any further !!
I believe the videos of the little girl saying she was doing things to her stuffed animals her half brother did to her. No little girl outwardly does stuff like that unless she’s been taught. As her father that should concern you and not immediately just trust your son didn’t do those things bc he’s your son. You are possibly abusing her as well, everyone always make the mothers look crazy when in reality whoever has more money is the one who ends up winning. It’s BS. And your daughter is being abused in your home. You’re part taking and allowing.
The reality is that the family court system throughout the United States is currupt. Did you know that statistically speaking, mothers who allege SA during the father’s custodial time are MORE LIKELY to lose custody. Regardless of whether the allegations are true, there is evidence, outcry witness, etc. The fact that none of you seem to have looked into the corrupt nature of the family court system shows in the comments. Because while you all are going back and forth about whether TA is mentally unstable and whether the allegations in this case are true, you should be looking at the bigger picture. Which is in fact that this is not a unique situation by any means. In fact it is so commonplace that lawyers will tell parents not to report any kind of abuse of the child while in the other parents care, or to expect a transfer of custody. CPS, family court, they’re all corrupt and kids slip through the cracks every day and are forced to live with abusers. People with money and connections absolutely can make things go away. if you honestly believe that the child welfare system, the courts, actually care about what’s in the best interest of the child, then you need to pull your head out of your ass it must be getting hard to breathe.
This article stinks in that rather than making solid statements supporting his side of the story, he is using it to paint the picture of a mentally unstable woman who is so crazy you can’t possibly believe she is capable of being a decent parent. People who attack the character of others rather than showing facts (and I don’t mean “go look at the court documents it’s all there”) are banking on the idea that people believe a man’s side more often than the woman. That people actually will not take the time to read these articles because many cannot decipher it anyway. This is such a terribly sad situation, regardless of what the truth is we have a child who is stuck in a situation where she does not get to have contact with her mother. In my opinion it is still very much a situation of “is this a narcissist weaponizing the family court system against a child’s mother” or actually “a father doing what is best for his daughter by keeping her unstable mother out of her life.”
So glad I found this side to the story as her TikTok account was quite obviously delusional and it’s sad that a 4 year old has not only been subjected to all of this but that it has been posted online with her face.
Are you seirous. The cold was humping her toys and saying that a man put his penis on her back. There’s was also a phone call posted of the little girl laughing and when the mom asked why is she’s laughing on the phone the daughter said “becuase daddy is licking my pu$$y. You are sick this ab t girl is being daily molested and will never get idiotic bc of disgusting people like you. I hope you never have children you don’t deserve them.
100% no court would take a Very young child away from the mom without just cause. She seems very off.
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poor baby she doesn’t deserve that shes just a kid how could someone be so evil to do this to anyone let alone a little child my heart feels so hurt for her i hope she gets safe 🙁
This poor mama…I can understand people being upset about showing videos of her daughter. I do agree that her face should be covered up but I’m sorry that little girl is not lying about what she is saying to her mother, that her father SA her. What type of child says those type of things one that has obviously had those type of situations happen to her, a child does not know naturally about sexual assault at that age .Those lawyers and her father and the police and the judges, and that father‘s family should all be ashamed of their selves. We must protect these children And even if the mother is lying How dare you not still stand up for this little girl in every way till the truth is told that is not a joke for a child to have to be going through this type of situation.
Get some common sense. The mom is obviously coaching and forcing irrational and erroneous situations on her innocent daughter. Every investigator, doctor, court and DCF have found those allegations to be false. Supporting these false and debunked allegations only hurt the innocent child. You’re just as vile as the mom who made the false reports
There are videos of the mother coaching the child. The child quite clearly just wants to play and is being fed a narrative. The mother is clearly unstable, do you honestly believe that so many people are in a conspiracy against her? She is delusional and harming her child in the process.
How do you know the mother hasn’t coached her child to say those things and act out stuff like that? Things like this happen all the time where kids are coached into saying they are abused.
Everybody including doctors have found no sign of abuse towards this little girl and if you pay attention to the mother’s videos you can clearly see that the mother is the problem here
Theodora should come back to this country to face the charges against her… she left here and left her children to avoid facing charges against her… now she wants to speak from the foreign peanut gallery… she is an awful person who needs psychiatric help….dozens of people were wronged by her deceiving actions…. She deserves what she gets…
She is no good bad person … know from
Professional dealings… untrustworthy…
I feel so bad for this little girl. I have commented on the moms tik toks after she claimed the dad has bought off the judge, attorneys, her own attorney, police, fbi (she claims she has proof the dad also is SA thr child that he recorded the son doing it and is now selling the videos) and countless other people. She is crazy. I have watched all her gross videos and mom claims that the father is broke and doesn’t have a car and lives in his mom’s basement but that he is a millionaire with mob connections and is a confidential informant. Clearly she is very manic but it’s crazy that she believes all that. She posts videos of a minor all the time that has hundreds of saves which makes me feel so bad because she is literally giving pedos videos to save as she puts words into her daughters mouth. I cannot believe this woman has subjected her daughter to vountless rape investigations and a rape kit itself and then goes on her videos and claims that she has proof that all this has happened and no one will help her because there is just a huge conspiracy against her. I can only hope this woman goes to jail so she stops showing these very leading videos.
You are a joke. Who the hell are you to be even saying this type of stuff to mother you don’t know whether this shit is true or not. You should be ashamed of yourself.
So many have asked her to remove the very graphic videos she has been posting for her daughter’s safety. Many creeps on the internet have probably already saved and shared the videos. She asks her daughter to demonstrate these acts again and again. So much so the girl even asks why she has to do it so much! The mother asks extremely leading questions. IF this abuse was taking place how much more trama is she adding by sharing these videos with the world? She replies with “guess I’ll just stay silent then” Ma’am for weeks we only see your daughter being posted try turning the camera around and use your own voice not your daughter. Maybe don’t have her demonstrate these things dozens of times for strangers to see. I don’t comprehend how having her repeat these things is helpful. If anything it normalizes it. From her videos it appears most of the time spent with her daughter was used to repeat and go over the alleged abuse. She seems very unwell. It’s so sad to think that this is her reality. Heart goes out to the little girl it seems she is the only one 100% innocent in this.
I like others have seen her tiktoks. I also heard you playing some of the tiktok videos to your daughter. Why would you show your daughter the behavior you criticize her mother for? I can tell from your above statement that you are no quiet bystander to the woman you say suffers from unresolved mental illness. For the sake of your daughter, you should maybe put cameras in your home to protect her from any possible harm from her older brother and to protect him, if he is innocent, from the accusations. As the great father you paint yourself to be your ultimate goal should be to paint the world with rainbows and unicorns for your child’s sake. You should refrain from bashing her mother! I know the 18 yr old is your son but don’t be naive! Instead of denying, you should prevent! Put cameras to keep them both safe! Ignorance is bliss. This is why you should know who you have kids with! You all need therapy.
I just saw a video where the daughter was absolutely telling her mother what was going on with the brother when the dad is not home. The girl talks about the 18 year old putting his bare privates on her when both of their pants are down and he lies on top of her. Very natural speak and the mother was not leading, child was clearly not coached. Anyway, the mom asks whether or not she ever told daddy that they do this. The little girl then said that she never told him but he saw it before. The mom seems surprised and asked her what she meant and the child repeats and says that the dad has seen this before and that he wasnt happy when he saw. The mom asked what dad said when he walked in on it. The daughter corrects her and says he wasn’t home at the time BUT HE SAW IT ON THE CAMERA and spoke to his son through the security system and said “What are you doing???” and the son said something like he was just laying on her and it was nothing. Then the child says that the dad wasnt happy and said “Well stop it!” or something along those lines. THIS IS A COHERENT STORY FROM THE CHILD THAT THE MOM DOES NOT LEAD HER WITH WHATSOEVER. Children do not make this kind of thing up and this little girl explains everything the way a child does when telling the truth about something they experienced–and doesn’t show ANY sign of having been coached, she had a whole story with details. This whole thing came up because the mom saw her mimicking a sexual act during play with some of her stuffed animals so the video starts with her going over to her and saying “What were you just doing? can you show me that again? why are you doing that?” she was NOT leading. The little girl says she does it with the the 18 year old and they tickle each other. Oh, I forgot to mention that the mother asked if they were wearing clothes during this and she said yeah they both had clothes on except their pants were pulled down. Mom asked if dom pulled her pants down and she said no, he pulled his down and the daugher pulled her own pants down. Then she mimicked yanking on her own pants and said that is what dom was doing to her after the dad caught them on camera, so mom asked, “he pulled your pants down?” and the little girl said “no he was pulling them up to put her pants back on”. Sounds to me like the dad caught something horrific and told the son to stop and didnt know how to handle it after that (just thinking here) so they stopped and he helped her get her pants back on. It was so clearly not a coached story. In another video, the daughter also was telling the mom that her butt was hurting her because “tummy” hurt her butt. She also says that dom tells her to call him tummy, so when she is talking about her tummy she is actually talking about dom. I don’t think a 4 year old could even learn something so confusing and bizarre if they were coached because the mom was not following what the daughter meant at first and neither was i when i was listening to it. The child was clearly in pain and the father quickly shuts her up by telling her it was because she wasn’t wiping well and she decides to stop talking about it. I am horrified because I think the dad could be involved in perpetrating these crimes too whether or not it started out that way. Just watch the videos. If you have taken any child development or child psychology classes this will stick out to you like a sore thumb. The dad is just banking on the fact that most people won’t dig this deep into the case or the videos and he is hoping it will work in his favor. The only reason the daughter said these things is because they happened to her, there’s no way around it. There’s still many videos i haven’t checked out because I decided to take a break from that and go to court documents to help me understand this and that’s how i stumbled onto this page.
The mother was on a video call with the daughter when the father tells the 4 year old that her mom was lying (about being on speaker phone… just stop already). He also clearly states TO THE 4 YEAR OLD that he is listening to the mother’s videos on tiktok so loudly that we can hear the whole thing word for word. The daughter was surprised that her mom had a tik tok and she asked her if it was really her. Oh, and the dad says “I’m watching your mom’s videos online that she puts out for the whole world to see. I am saving her videos because I am going to sue her for defamation” –all in the tone of voice you use when talking to a child. He is BLATENTLY alienating the mother and involving his daughter in ADULT ISSUES which is detrimental for a child’s well being because they cannot comprehend it and they are made to feel completely helpless being involved in adult issues. I cannot BELIEVE that he is acting this justified when he is 100% guilty of child abuse based SOLEY on the videos I have seen of his actions alone (I mean he has done a lot more harm but if all they had in court was 2 or 3 videos it would be a problem for him… UNLESS the court is being underhanded because I don’t think they are stupid at all.
I don’t know if the courts are complicit or if they are benefitting in some way or just not using the law for the intended purpose, but they are FAILING this little girl. If you are reading this and are a friend or family member to the father– UNFATHOMABLE THINGS HAPPEN EVERY SINGLE DAY. Nobody ever thinks that someone they know and love would be capable of something like this but it happens all the time. If you are a relative, I encourage you to ask the dad for LIVE access via the internet to the security camera he has so you are able to access the same information and history that he can access–ESPECIALLY while that little girl is alone with the son. Somebody that loves her needs to be able to have full access so they can either catch it or prove beyond a shadow of a doubt that nothing abusive is happening to that girl. Very intelligent and diligent people are fooled all the time because healthy individuals do not think the same way that a mentally unhealthy person does. Rather than the dad having cheesy articles like this, you would think he would want to clear his name and his son’s name once and for all by proving that this isn’t going on.. and if i were the dad or the son, i would watch those videos and see that they are real experiences and i would NEED to know who was doing these things to her BECAUSE SOMEONE DEFINITELY IS!
Shame on you for this childish and biased article. The whole reaction from the dad’s side has been so smug and careless. I want to think I could shake some people into reality but the truth is that there are some people that are downright predatory. Does anyone REALLY believe that this is just a story of a bad breakup and a psychotic woman? oh please.
I guess you missed the video where the father had home surveillance camera footage from the day in question and at no time was the son left alone with the daughter.
I’ve watched every video and at fyshe had me ,but just for a second . In every video she posts in response to court proceedings she is extremely manic . She didn’t get her way with terminating Dads rights after prolonging the case from I think January 23 with continuous for 99 days for what because she my or my not hire a lawyer, demanding AL be present during a home visit mind u AL was already in the care of dad at this time and Dad already participated in his obligations with DCF .. lord plus so much more so I believe in August another court date more of her BS she started the whole AL is complaining about her bum and u no and this goes on after not getting her way it’s clear as day some time goes by more court hearings she’s fired her lawyer who I must say kind of felt bad for him u can hear in the audio how embarrassed he was ok so court in January she didn’t get her way boo woo a few days later another allegation the crazy thing is she posts all the videos of court and u pay attention you’ll see the pattern. Yes a child should have a relationship with their mother but not at the cost of her own well being. She now has me blocked on one of my tiktybut I see everything on another Matt Lodice you are an amazing father you did everything right as far as making AL was safe and I would like to apologize for judging the situation before seeing it through the court documents. And I’m going to expose her she can come for me all she wants. And one last thing what ever crime bad decisions or convictions someone has doesn’t make them a bad parent
This mother is still on tik tok as prolegalsolutions. She is posting court recordings that are giving out people’s full names and addresses.
Now on YouTube too
As she should, I sure hope you would do the same if you had a child that was being sexually abused and nobody wanted to help you our system is screwed and everyone knows that you don’t think there’s some corrupt people out there? You must live in an imaginary world.🤣
You’re as delusional as the mom. The doctors, courts, investigators, DCF, have all said there has been no SA. To repeat these debunked statements prove you’re as vile and mentally ill as the mom. The mom is even suing her own family in a RICO lawsuit claiming that her family along with the babies father and the entire state of Connecticut is conspiring against her. Not one court case has gone in her favor. Please seek mental health treatment Asap
That is the mom, notice how offended she is in all her posts. Someone this delusional could only be the mother.
I don’t see why the father can’t get the judge to order for the mom to stop posting videos, exploiting the daughter. It’s the same videos of her humping, stuffed animals over and over again, and the mothers overreaction which encourages the daughter to keep doing it.
Now it March 2024 and she’s blasting her story all over TikTok. She’s using her daughters full name and videos of the daughter who appears visibly distressed. She’s also giving the name of the fathers minor teenage son while spreading her belief that the boy is sexually abusing her daughter. I’m hopeful the father will take some action to stop the defamation of his son and others.
This mom is her own worst enemy. She went on TikTok live this morning. Was detained at the airport attempting to go to Aruba. This woman was a complete psychopath. Her daughter looked so scared and yet; not surprised by her mom’s actions. TA called what I assume was her mother on the phone and the mom was hyping her up, cussing at the police on speaker. Had a lawyer get 3wayed on the call. Sounded like TAs mom was banging the lawyer they added to the call because she was calling him ‘babe’ while simultaneously calling him a ‘prick’ because he made it clear that even HE knew this was all nonsense and drama on TAs part. Absolutely appalling behavior. This woman needs serious mental health care. SERIOUS.
She’s absolutely nuts! And it’s apparent why the father wants custody of his children! She scared her daughter this morning and blatantly lied saying the port authority was dragging her daughter away and 28k people were watching. I’m glad it was on live so the father has proof that this woman should never ever have custody of any child whatsoever!
I’m pretty sure this woman just got arrested live on TikTok. She was trying to take girl to Aruba
Not only did she try to flee and violate custody order- in her arrest her other child was taken away via DCF. Sad!
The girl in the TikTok live was not this man’s daughter. It was the older daughter
Apparently, a news report came out today indicating Theodora Antar was arrested again. The allegations came from a supervised visitation which resulted in her not returning the child in a timely matter and possibly an alleged attempt to flee w/ the child. Allegations are they found her in Mass near the airport. Remember though, innocent until proven otherwise.
She was on tik tok live. It was a circus. Felt bad for the daughter.
This was with a different child. This comment was posted before that live, it was over 24 hours ago. My guess is that she had tickets for both children and that why they were stopped at the gate & the ex parte order was given.
https://www.tiktok.com/t/ZTL8faoyx/
I know about the TikTok one but notice the comment was made on Friday, that incident was Saturday. And the TT one was her older daughter that she had custody of until Saturday when they served her the custody order but this comment was from the day before and referring to her 4 year old which is why I’m asking what happened or where they got the info cause there’s more than even what happened on the live.
She was in JFK Airport boarding a plane to Aruba. She had 50,000 people watching her live and daughter fearful of here
That was yesterday with her older child, this comment was the day before (Friday) and referring to her 4 year old… sounds like she had a plan to take both kids out of the country…
She had vids up of all the court proceedings. In one of them it was revealed that sometime before that tik tok live she had told Matt she was taking A.L to see her sister J. She took both girls to the airport with tickets to Aruba. Matt managed to get her stopped. Gerald left J in her care so she tried again with just J (the tik tok live) and had been put on red alert at airports. This is when Gerald got full custody.
Some people really should not have children. I feel bad for their daughter. Psycho mom and loser dad
Another mother denied her rights. Another child motherless.
But for the mother asking him to court, they’d be no court ordered supervision. The wrath of the robe.
There’s that circular logic again.
Circular logic? On going patterns of conduct in family court system. Denial of the family court system discrimination. Deflection, women have the right to be heard. Men have a right to be heard. Stop obstructing woman from speaking out.
You must be the person was on the phone trying to get an attorney to help from the attorney was basically had no idea what they all was going on she is an unfit mother just by the way she acted things could have gone differently but she chose to go the way that she did
Does she get to choose the “supervisor”?
Is there a document stating the purpose of the supervision and the costs? How long they’ll last and why they’re necessary?
Was this the decision of a medical rofessuonal or the whim of Grossman?
It seems they like to “strike a pose” at exact same angle. Too bad nothing else aligns for them.
Theodora-
I’m sorry for being rude. The fact are even reading my comment should point out to you that…..
You are at a weird place in life.
Is everyone wrong or are you right?
Please think about it.
Who’s “everyone”, NiceGuy?
Maybe the 300 people she is suing?
Anonymous –
Who supports Theodora?
Name three or even one.
Take care.
I support Theodora. This does not mean that I endorse everything she has attempted, either in her filings, or in her interpreting that court-ordered supervision could be satisfied by a person of her election (e.g. the pediatrician). My not endorsing her legal or extra-judicial efforts in whole cloth is separate and apart from whether I support the woman.
I know her well, and have had a close-up view of what I would consider increasingly desperate efforts to see her child, and her escalating pain. Simply reviewing the text messages (an Exhibit in her mass filing) reveal a woman absolutely shut out of having the ability to meaningfully parent her child. The entire locus of control belongs to the father, who does, in writing above, and in the text messages (in an app required to be used by the court) come across as more measured than Theo. Let’s not be so quick to credit him for his comparative equanimity; it is markedly easier to maintain composure when one holds all the cards, and is not sleepless in worry over A (rightfully or wrongly).
Theo has the dubious benefit of some legal training, without yet having had years to learn the appropriate (meaning: likely to yield results favorable to her) manner in which to accurately, narrowly, and succinctly set out her claims.
That said, she is playing in a most familiar playground well known to us, the systematically dysfunctional Connecticut Family Court system also terrorizing the Riordan children. Theodora’s experience is eminently comparable to Karen’s, notwithstanding her more aggressive cries for help. Unless one is trapped in a self-feeding vortex of a powerful legal system, it is difficult if not unimaginable to fathom the degree of helplessness one feels, which amps up every mammalian motherly instinct.
The story here, at core, is not about the ways in which Theo has “acted out” in court papers or an ill-considered (given the prohibitions in place) pediatrician visit. Her behavior cannot be construed as injurious to A, but does weaken her own position in the eyes of this system bearing down also on Karen Riordan and the three Ambrose children.
Let’s keep our eyes on the ball here, and desist with wholesale personal attacks if you have not walked a mile in the shoes of a parent legally cut off from her children, as both these women, and as all these
children, are so suffering.
Whole lot of nothing in this post, oh you support her because she is helpless lol what a wannabe contrarian
She is not unsupported either
Do you really need a protective order when a child’s mother wants to attend a doctors appointment? Are you really in fear? Do you believe imminent harm would be done?
The abuse of handing out restraining orders is a weapon of family court. Based solely on judicial discretion.
Family court does this to make litigation more contentious. One parent must be evil and the other good.
Where are the medical experts that support isolation of a mother from child?
If you stand up for your rights and that if your children you will be targeted and maligned.
The pattern is established. They will try to incarcerate this mother.
Where’s the evidence of a mental health condition? Where is the duct or that advocates isolation from the mother?
What us the basis for supervised visitation?
Who is the supervisor? What credentials do they have? What is the goal? How will remedy be brought to strengthen relationships and not tear them apart?
Grossman is known for this. It’s a sick pattern that will keep this child from her mother indefinitely.
It will result of years of litigation in family court. Total scam.
all roads lead to gross man! dear jane if you read these comments, please reform! you are not a monarch! “we the people”! you are one of us!
How much 💰 do taxpayers pay state employees and lawmakers who were supposed to answer those common sense questions a few decades ago?
I agree with your post but feel the need to add two things. Both men and woman should be protected from undeserved attacks by mentally unstable people. And if what was written in this article is true, that is the proof of an extreme personality disorder(s).
The doctor appointment was just a routine wellness check. The child wasn’t sick or anything like that. There was no reason the mother had to be there. Especially when she knew there was a restraining order against her.
Maybe that mom is a little upset that someone took her child.
Regardless of what Bolsheviks, Connecticut state government and the CCP prefer, most good mothers still get upset when their children are taken.
Lol nah this woman is crazy I saw it live on TikTok this morning
Agree. I just googled judge grossman. She has ruined MULTIPLE families lives. She’s known to rip children away from their loving mothers and hand them to the fathers. I’m convinced she either hates women or children, or both. Also, Theo has said that mentally there is nothing wrong with her. Also.. there is no confirmed mental illness. The father is just trying to paint her as a lunatic.. he is a pedo, a sex addict and a sexual deviant. Honestly, if this happened to me I’m not going to lie .. I would probably lose my mind to if my babies were ripped away from me and I could never see them again.
Can you provide any if the evidence of what you’re saying? Where are the harassing emails and attacks directed at your family and friends?
What medical professional made the mental health diagnosis? Name and date of report of medical finding?
There’s no reason for the mother to be cut off. She raised her without issue until she went to family court. But for that – and Grossmans judicial discretion, this child would still have both parents.
This is a message forum; not a court of law. Not the place to paste evidence or prove his case. Not a place to violate her healthcare privacy (HIPA) as well.
You do not know what’s in the many, many police reports about her. I’m sure some info is attainable & available if you seek public records (police reports, court transcripts, etc.) He is openly inviting others to go for a look-see.
That being said, it seems apparent he was seeking to publicly defend himself w/o overly disparaging her. AND I strongly disagree- no one can make that assumption that she deserves or doesn’t deserve to be cut off. The court saw/knows something and WE don’t.
Who’s “WE”?
Men don’t air dirty laundry as women do. Have you noticed that all the men condemned on FR have stayed mum while the women have posted every detail on tik tok?
I agree! most “men” hate drama! My ex, come to find out, all about the drama! Still about the drama. New husband will be next victim! They dont change!
Most men complaining about “not liking drama” are the guys who don’t have communication skills. And are the ones who are incapable of compromise. self centered and can’t maintain healthy relationships. Arguing in some level is healthy in relationships and unavoidable. They insist on it their way. Are incapable of seeing the needs of others.
Of course he can provide evidence. How do you think he got the restraining order?
That’s questionable. It a Connecticut court
Thanks to Matthew Lodice for taking the time to explain what’s up. Sorry you’re going through this. Wow…
Unfortunately dcf and the police often align in these court ordered no contact.
Has dcf made any finding against this mother? Why is custody taken without any charge by dcf?
Typical family court racket.
Thank you for including his response. This situation in particular is well beyond – “He Said, She Said!” When you add up all the pieces of the puzzle, my opinion is – it’s a story more or less – of a jilted, unhinged ex-girlfriend/mommy with some significant emotional issues. How did I conclude this:
1) Look at her arrest record: it goes on and on and on. Clearly someone who can’t respect authority or rules
2) Look at the amount of law suits she has filed. She is literally suing everyone. It’s a pro-se abuse of the judicial system at this point.
3) Read her lengthy law suit. She’s suing 300+ ppl all at once on a RICO. So she believes their some kind of master plan contrived against her encompassing not only her ex-boyfriends, but also other family members, Judges, DCF, court operations clerks, police, etc. etc. Does this sound like a sane person?
3) Don’t forget, she’s already been cited/arrested for knowingly making false/unsubstantiated reports?
Anyone can easily take young lions and young cubs from mother lions and momma bears. Human mothers who don’t happily give up their young children are unhinged.
Her arrest record shows how crazily she tried to protect her child.
Except she was “unhinged” before she lost custody. She lost custody due to her unhinged behavior.
Not to abusers. Mess with the cubs you going to get the claws.
Verdaderamente tu no sabes lo que es perder a un hijo por una justicia basura en la corte de new haven hay corruption y si yo pudiera también demandaría a las 300 personas si no sabes no opines pedazo de tarado.
Grossman is a sick bitch.
Judges should not be permitted to eliminate any parent based on judicial discretion!
It’s unconscionable and the public has gotten brainwashed by a system of lunacy.
We blindly hand all our power and thinking over to the courts – family courts take away unalienable rights in CT solely on judicial discretion! Judges play God!
They are for- profit businesses!
We need to boycott and bankrupt family court!
Agreed. Evidence based proceeding. My attorney told me more than once it depends on what mood the judge is in. We are subject to the bias and God forbid you attempt to argue your case with a judge who has to be right for the sake of being right. The sake of siding with an attorney. You can not even get your complaints in Connecticut heard unbiasly. They want you to file and pay more attorneys fees. The greed of the industry is causing people to have to become their own attorney. I’m sure the judges are pist about e.
Being in CT FC and watching pro se cases the judges are not kind at all to them! They believe they are monarchs! everything our fore fathers fought against! I hope they read these comments and take the many frustrated writers and use to make FC in CT somehow and fair, unbiased and not deplete family resources!
Thank you so much for your comments. We need insider whistleblowers to save this world.
They act like kings and queens! No jury! People I know that got divorced long ago did not have all these issues! Why? Law firms made $ practicing other types of law. FC was seen as for lawyers that could not or were not capable of practicing in a law firm and were probably independents and no one wanted to associate with them. Probably did not have as many lawyers as we have today with QU stamping them out! Marriage should not have to be this difficult to unwind! Needs reform!
Sir,
Trying to be as objective as possible, please make an effort for the child’s mother to visit her, try to repair your relationship with her, both your daughter and her mother will alway’s be in your life, sincerely wishing you the best kind Sir, maybe a short letter to her, asking her to start over, admit some shortcomings, and happiness for all parties involved.
Prayers to you again.
And the Frank Report, by enabling her delusions and encouraging this ridiculous lawsuit, maliciously “helped” this mentally ill woman to believe she was in the right here, when clearly she is not. That’s probably why she thought she could show up at the doctor’s office. Frank and Luthmann likely encouraged her to do that.
It is covert misogyny in action.
Just like they have enabled Karen Riordan to ruin her own life. Foxes in the henhouse.
How do you know what didn’t happen and what did happen?
Luthmann ripped the lawsuit apart. Did you read that?
You don’t make sense. The angle you’re trying to play doesn’t fit.
He didn’t rip it apart. He gave her constructive criticism to try to make it better. It looks like she followed his advice and submitted an amendment. Instead of enabling her, he should have told her to stop wasting her time and go get mental help.
He told her the lawsuit was garbage and she needed to fix it in order for it to hold water. People suing the Grossmans of the world seems positive. This girl needs mental help. Doesn’t mean Grossman is good. Doesn’t mean Frank and Richard are covert misogynists. Your dots don’t connect.
Trying to negatively connect Karen Riordan to this woman is also a stretch. Do you not think Frank is helping people in their fights against corrupt family courts? Do you just want Frank to shut his yap and let the corruption carry on? Either you want him to shut up or you have a different “Frank Sucks” agenda. Whatever the agenda, him helping women who are getting fucked over by corruption seems like one you should sit out.
(Trying to make Frank out to be bad because he helps women would have fit nicely into a couple of Vanguard’s modules)
She has PTSD. Difficult to focus and considerate. Someone out of the court needs to file.
“ Do you not think Frank is helping people in their fights against corrupt family courts?”
No, I do not think he is helping any of these non custodial parents. He helped Karen get another restraining order slapped on her. He has only hurt her custody case by what he has done. Sorry, but the proof is in the pudding. Not only does she still not have any custody, she has a new strict RO and could do 5 years in prison if she violates it. In what world is that considered a “helpful” outcome? Doesn’t “help” imply helping these parents achieve their goals of gaining custody? Frank has helped no one in that regard. The opposite.
Is Frank the problem? Or is the need for the family courts to continue in a profitable manor the problem? The judiciary committee, the judges and attorneys are all bent out of shape over the exposure. They are angry 😡. Instead of the light bulb going off. The Connecticut family court running on hypothesis, connections with a desired outcome connected with a monitary gain. People are being silenced and children are being held hostage. The Connecticut family court is an embarrassment to the state. Rather than cleaning it up they are punishing everyone who dare to complain. Many of the judges in Connecticut are intoxicated with power and control. They can not stand people pointing out short comings or blatant uneithical conduct. Not everyone speaking out is doing it for the right reasons. Many however are attempting to speak out for the greater good of the children and adults trapped in the worst family court system in the country.
Luthermann is receiving money for coverage for the parental alienation advocates.
Frank “maliciously” “enabled” and “encouraged” the Antar lawsuit by reporting on it only after it was filed? And then Richard did so by deconstructing an already-filed (with stated intention to amend) Complaint with his legal scalpel?. That suit was salted peanuts to him, and his assessment intrinsically newsworthy, particularly given its emanating from the Connecticut Family Court system. Richard has never met an argument that he cannot improve with his razor-sharp mind. I know. I was his law partner for eleven years.
And misogyny leveled at the man credited with bringing down a cult leader systematically abusing women?
Methinks you bluster, and you do not do so well.
Sorry Stephanie but you havent got a clue.
I imagine the reason why he doesn’t do visits is because the mon will file a new claim for anything. I wouldn’t want to subject myself to have to constantly defend myself against false allegations and police showing up every day because of delusions.
What is the timing or these behaviors? Bc if it’s after she was stripped of custody of her child then OF CoUrSE she will be going crazy. But what about before she filed in 2022 ? What complaints had you then? I don’t think it’s ever ok that a parent keep a child isolated from a parent. Ever. He’s getting off on the control. She’s only permitted supervised access and you can’t even permit phone calls? What a fkin sicko he is
Power and control. That’s why these guys do it. The video say something could be happening.
Thats called circular logic.
It’s called being able to present your side of the case to the court. It’s not happening. Maybe She went a little over zealous with the law suit. Naming too many people. She is not crazy in raising a red flag to the entire state of Connecticut family court industry. The worst in the entire nation.
Sorry, but your argument is like saying if your sister says she is suicidal and has a plan to take her own life, and you have her involuntarily commited for her own safety, if she then tries to hurt herself while in the psych hospital, she only did it because you put her in the psych hospital. Not because she was suicidal to begin with. On the contrary, it is confirmation that she really belongs in the psych hospital.
Similarly, this woman Antar has demonstrated she should not have custody of her 4 year old until she gets some serious mental help.
The very reason we are on the frank report commenting is because there is a big problem in family court. The woman may need mental help but not because she is crazy. Because she is under extreme distress. The family court system is not designed to hear all sides or be objective. I’m not sure that the law suit is going to be successful. I hope to some degree it is. Maybe all the people named in it don’t nessarrly belong but the concept is valid. There is a tendency to dismiss legitimate complaints of conduct that is leading to a prolonged case for financial gain. Taking a child away from a parent especially one who feels their is potential harm to the children. The courts are an extension for the controlling parties. Completely labeling her complaint as a crazy litigant is an excuse not to look into the on going failing and broken system. Allowing for the industry to continue to harmful fraudulent for the people in the industry to continue to profit on a faulty and incompetent system. Leading to emotional, psychological and financial harm. Divorce is never easy. No one is ever happy in contentious cases. It’s the misuse of the system that has no oversight. Granted blanket immunity. Using parental alienation as an excuse to not allow evidence. The child in this case is 4. What about all of the other cases with the children being the target of reunification therapy not designed to address any conflicts. The paperwork being with held and could be completely disrespected by mental health leaders not profiting off the system. There is absolutely something wrong with a system forcing the same people on cases. No room for second opinions. Hidding the system and related agencies financing to keep it going. She maybe not completely correct but she is absolutely not completely wrong. Stop dismissing the Connecticut family court system curruption. Expose the family court system for what it is an absolute purposefully designed for the best interest of the people who profit. Protected by the state government.
Logical thinking. Circular family court system. Leading to the discusting excuse of legal system. The courts are a shit hole and the entire family law industry knows it. Defending the fraudulent family law industry. The professional flamers are going to keep defending. A lot of people watching the Frank report.
“ The woman may need mental help but not because she is crazy. Because she is under extreme distress.”
Sorry, but being “under distress” does not excuse abusive behavior.
Who is she abusing? She is concerned her child is being sexually abused. She is an abuser for asking for an evaluation and to protect her child? You must be the daddy.
Seems like that’s maybe an old photo of the Mr.?
Theodora-
Better an old photo than a photoshopped one—like every one you post.
I can’t wait for your OnlyFans page!
Beautiful name for a beautiful young woman. And, photoshopping is as expected as false eyelashes for young women online trying to survive in a shallow day and age such as this.
Detective skills tell us the age of his sons make him about the same age of his sons in that photo up there. Right?
He sounds like father of the year – ugh!
Bleck __ judges are useless. Grossman is an idiot and knows nothing about family conflict other than making it worse for the child. Judges must stop giving full custody and sole discretion of visitation to one parent. These judges are traumatizing families. You don’t de-escalate a situation in a divorce or custody case where there is already conflict by creating more conflict. It is idiotic to think you are helping the child when you are traumatizing a parent. Judges are throwing bombs into a campfire and making it explode into a war. Please train these judges to make orders to resolve conflict and stop the family wars they are creating.
All roads lead to gross man! Almost every case in FR comes down to the same judge! Coincidence?
I have a very close friend in another state that began a similar case of divorce and they have a small child about the same age. I got to know them both over the past few years. I have to say she was always a protective mother and he is a great dad. I can definitely see them going down the same road as these two. He is not pro child not being with mother she is more anti child with dad. they went to custody hearing and after not seeing his child for 6 months he got 50/50. She fired her attorney and now hired a $700/hour attorney. I went through a divorce and had the experience without child custody and its a horror show! A mother will do anything and everything to be with her child! I know the daughter is happy they she has both parents in her life. The mother did claim in court that the father has psychological issues and needs to be evaluated. These are games!
Here we go again. Another dad under the microscope bc of a mentally ill mother and ur audience starts with he’s preventing her from seeing the child therefore he’s bad. Nooooo stop the madness. This woman had subjected this child to multiple rape kits. That’s insanity. Stop the insanity. These courts need to get these women help. I’m a woman and I’m telling u get them help. This guy owes no one as explanation. Go mind ur own business and let her get help and him raise this child without another rape kit
Grossman gave the green light for the War!
Are you a mother? If you have not lived through what’s happen to families stop speaking. The state of CT needs to do their job!!
Maybe she is psychotic?
Many women experience “Post Partum Psychosis” after rearing birth.
Theodora, if your baby-daddy is telling the truth, get help.
You’re welcome,
Pilgrim
Joanie you have working really hard a blaming mothers for family court system problems. You have been busy trying to get the discrimination against women across the board in family court.
“Joanie”?
Right.
Who is Joanie?
Seems like something is not adding up with what Antar has been saying. She seems just sue happy when life doesn’t go her way. Looks like she filed another lawsuit 192 pages naming even more respondents. Giving a lot of details into her personal life and early adult hood. Sounds like a person who blames everyone else when she gets in trouble
Kinsey, the Kinsey Institute at the United Nations, trillion-dollar multinational corporations, Ruth Westheimer, Herbert Marcuse, Netflix, Disney and Hollywood hyper-sexualized America. Judith Reisman and Lori Handrahan received DOJ finding to study how Playboy pushed pedophilia on their customers. Hugh Hefner was a criminal and a CIA guy. Jeffrey Epstein was a criminal and “Intelligence”. Family courts are wholly inadequate to manage the fallout.
Why was the child sent to live exclusively in the home in which the identified perpetrator has access to his alleged victim? Young children exhibiting sexualized behaviors is NOT normal. Either Ms. Grossman doesn’t know that or she thinks differently about young children exhibiting sexualized behaviors. Ms. Grossman also apparently doesn’t know that children who are victims of sexual abuse speak most freely about the abuse after they are protected from it.
One hospital sent the child to another hospital for the test — and then how long did it take for the test results to be done? Was it two months?
Ask any good mother anywhere how she would feel and what she would do if she couldn’t see her child every day.
The mother was good enough to raise her child for four years?
How was that four-year-old’s health and well-being before she was totally and abruptly removed from her mother’s care? Did anyone notice any problems before the family court nightmare began?
Isn’t it weird how he never truly addresses what the eminent fear is for him to need this protection order in the first place? To have a protection order one must be an imminent fear of their life or danger so what fear or what threat is she by wanting to be a mom he says that all he wants that all anyone wants is for her to be a good mother yet he prevents her from being a mother altogether by preventing contact. He also interrupts every one of their video calls it does not allow her to have full on contact with her daughter so how was she supposed to be a good mom if he doesn’t allow her to have contact it makes no sense
Anonymous (Theodora Antar)
You hot as all hell and batshit crazy.
***
Ask yourself:
“Why isn’t anyone on my side?”
I thought the same thing!
Men don’t expose their personal lives like women do. Women want the validation, men want the privacy
If I am a peach than Theodora is a banana. Didn’t they teach her in school how to dress for success? She is suing respected and successful people. No one is going to take her seriously, at least I’m not. I think her Instagram should be reported for what she’s doing to her daughter. It seems nothing penetrated the innocent child until Theodora made it so, by forcing a rape kit to be done on her little tiny innocent insides. Why is she exposing her daughter slightly undulating a stuffed animal on Instagram? At this point I’m totally disgusted and feel so bad for the little girl. Theodora belongs in jail and will probably end up there sooner or later.
Respected by who. Colleges that practice the same antics. Winning at all costs? Respected by those who secure salary increases and top of the line benefits? If you ask most lawyers tell their clients that the court system is a mess. Family court is cut throat. Family court system and related agencies have been criticized for years. The success is due to the lack of accountability. Connecticut has books, articles and years worth of accusations of curruption. Are these people respected or feared? I’m going to say the ladder. Jane Grossman and several other judges are feared for the power that they have. There is no balance. Fear is not respect.
What is an “opinion editorial,” Frank? Was this piece published in some other forum (a newspaper, a blog, or a post, et al.)? Or were these remarks prepared solely in expectation of publication in Frank Report?
Matthew Lodice’s statement was submitted to the Frank Report for publication.
Thank you, Frank.
Visitation at the discretion of the other parent is illegal.
Thanks to Margaret Sullivan’s appeal on this very issue.
A law went into place stating the court could not delegate judicial responsibility to the legal guardian. It’s a license to abuse and that’s exactly what’s done.
please share that case!
R. H. v. M. H. Appellate Case # AC45186
The father disagreed with the ruling and asked for a hearing en banc (all nine justices to hear the matter). The Supreme court took up the case and it is expected to be heard on oral argument during the fourth term – December.
Hmmmm Something soundtruthful that he is saying however being a witness to some of the actual calls myself I would have to say that I have seen him hung over and I have also witnessed this child’s doing behaviors that most children her age do not do in making statements about men touching her in ways that young kids do not just make up…
I would tread very lightly with both of their statements to be honest with you I think both of them are liars and both of them have some truth..
Yes, but that does not make it right for a judge to give sole discretionary visitation to one parent. I blame the judge for harming the child.
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