Faction Disclaimer:
The ensuing narrative is a meld of fact and fiction, colloquially known as “faction.” The statements attributed to Dr. Richard Gardner are his true word derived from his published works.
The character of Barry Cuda represents a composite of lawyers familiar to the landscape of family courts. While many elements presented here are rooted in truth, there are segments that have been adjusted, fabricated, or amplified for the sake of the story. It’s up to the reader to discern which elements are true and which are not. The author assumes no liability if a reader is unable to differentiate between fact and fiction and does something stupid – like go to family court. If any portion of this work offends you, kindly chalk it up to fiction; if you find something you agree with or like, then it’s undoubtedly true. As with most things in life, feel free to be like the vast majority who conveniently believe what they want to believe and ignore or disbelieve what they do not, which in the end is the true purpose of faction.
By Barry Cuda
Family Law Attorney
Dr. Richard Gardner, who invented parental alienation, said mothers involved in bitter divorces brainwash their children into believing their fathers abused them.
He advocated for removal of the mother to “reeducate” the children.
Family law attorneys use his parental alienation theories to remove mothers from their children’s lives and hand custody to the fathers.
Invoking “parental alienation” can shift focus away from investigating allegations of abuse, including cases where the mother is not lying about abuse.
Dr. Gardner said:
There are millions of people in the United States who are either directly accusing or supporting false sex-abuse accusations and/or are reacting in an extremely exaggerated fashion to situations in which bona fide sex abuse has occurred.
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), p.688
Gardner realized society’s reactions were excessive, drawing parallels to witch hunts like those in Connecticut and Massachusetts.
He advocated for therapists to understand that a father having sex with his children is not nearly as bad as a mother alienating a father because of it.
Over the years, therapists gravitated to family law, especially the custody evaluator, because they can make a fine living from this philosophy.
Dr. Gardner said:
The belief by many of these therapists that a sexual encounter between an adult and a child — no matter how short, no matter how tender, loving, and non-painful — automatically and predictably must be psychologically traumatic to the child… The determinant as to whether the experience will be traumatic is the social attitude toward these encounters.”
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), pp.670-71
To save the mother from losing contact with her children, the therapist has to help her not be so reactive.
Dr. Gardner said:
“If the mother has reacted to the abuse in a hysterical fashion, or used it as an excuse for a campaign of denigration of the father, then the therapist does well to try and ‘sober her up’… Her hysterics… will contribute to the child’s feeling that a heinous crime has been committed and will thereby lessen the likelihood of any kind of rapproachment with the father.
One has to do everything possible to help her put the ‘crime’ in proper perspective. She has to be helped to appreciate that in most societies in the history of the world, such behavior was ubiquitous, and this is still the case.”
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), pp.584-585
Dr. Gardner also understood that many mothers who accuse fathers of pedophilia are lashing out at their fathers who had sex with them when they were children.
Dr. Gardner said:
“Mothers who have been sexually abused as children may have residual anger toward her molesting father or other sexual molester, and this may be interfering with her relationship with her husband. This should be explored in depth, and she should be helped to reduce such residual anger… Perhaps she can be helped to appreciate that in the history of the world his behavior has probably been more common than the restrained behavior of those who do not sexually abuse their children.”
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), pp.585
Gardner helped judges, lawyers, therapists, and custody evaluators understand that pedophilia is not necessarily abuse and, if anything, if it is abuse, it is the mother’s fault. The father would not have had to resort to his children if she had been more accommodating.
Dr. Gardner said:
“In many cases, [the mother] was sexually molested as a child… She may never have achieved an orgasm — in spite of the fact that she was sexually molested, in spite of the fact that she had many lovers, and in spite of the fact that she is now married.
The therapist, then, does well to try to help her achieve such gratification. Verbal statements about the pleasures of orgastic response are not likely to prove very useful. One has to encourage experiences, under proper situations of relaxation, which will enable her to achieve the goal of orgastic response…
Vibrators can be extremely useful in this regard, and one must try to overcome any inhibition she may have with regard to their use… her own diminished guilt over masturbation will make it easier for her to encourage the practice in her daughter, if this is warranted. And her increased sexuality may lessen the need for her husband to return to their daughter for sexual gratification.”
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), pp.584-585
As Gardner does, family court professionals who employ his parental alienation believe that it is not so bad to enjoy pedophilia, but a hysterical mother trying to stop the father by destroying the father is an alienator and must be removed from the children’s lives.
The real problem is society. The mob shouts hysterically against this standard and fruitful practice, so family court professionals must defend the pedophile father by constantly calling the mother a liar. If she tries too hard, we use a custody evaluator to declare she has a personality disorder.
However, getting the mother out of the way is half the solution. The children must understand it was not as bad as their mother made it out to be.
Dr. Gardner said:
“Older children may be helped to appreciate that sexual encounters between an adult and a child are not universally considered to be reprehensible act. The child might be told about other societies in which such behavior was and is considered normal…. The child has to be helped to appreciate that we have in our society an exaggeratedly punitive and moralistic attitude about adult-child sexual encounters.”
Gardner, Richard A., True and False Accusations of Child Sex Abuse (1992), p.549
So, the bottom line here is that it doesn’t matter whether pedophilia happened. If it did not happen, then the mother has alienated the children.
If there was pedophilia and the mother makes a big deal of it, she still alienates the children.
We use parental alienation in cases of true pedophilia and false accusations. The good news is by promoting the idea that mothers always lie, we can discredit the mothers and take them out of the children’s lives.
A good dad [above] went bad because his wife did not do her duty, forcing him to move toward other available family members.
We do not worry much about whether it is true. We need to silence the mother in all cases, make her look crazy, and, if she is open to it, get her a vibrator.
In my next column, I will explain how we make money from parental alienation.
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AFCC cognitive disorienting reunification therapy. Gaslighting. The inability to protect and defend yourself. Women or child. These people need prison terms. Keep reporting.
Bridgeport CT judge was suspended in 1995 for eithical violations for one year when he told his wife during divorce proceeding he would leave her penniless and take custody of their children. Reported shockingly by the Hartford courent. He must of been going to play the get out of alimony and child support parental alienation racket. This is the kind of judges women in Connecticut are facing.
That was judge Levin
Did Judge Levin have the custody file sealed?
Chief Court Administrator Elizabeth Bozzuto and her husband had their Hartford divorce and child custody file sealed.
… December 19, 2022
Chief Justice Richard A. Robinson announced that the Honorable Elizabeth A. Bozzuto will succeed the Honorable Patrick L. Carroll III as Chief Court Administrator on January 1, 2023. Judge Anna M. Ficeto will succeed Judge Bozzuto as the Deputy Chief Court Administrator. …
May God protect Paul and Ted.
Connecticut has been terrorizing residents for years.
Why did Chief Court Administrator Elizabeth Bozzuto and her husband have their Hartford divorce and child custody file sealed?
Who allowed that file to be sealed — and why?
One rumor: Judge Bozzuto’s divorce case was sealed because she was a family court judge at the time.
Another rumor: Her divorce file was sealed because of the family nanny’s sexual relationships with Judge Bozzuto and her ex-husband.
How did family court judge Bozzuto then become the Chief Administrative Judge for the Family Division? How did she then become Deputy Chief Court Administrator — and then Chief Court Administrator for the Connecticut Judicial Branch?
Logical question:
Is Judge Bozzuto’s quick rise to the second position of control of the state judicial branch because she can be compromised in the same ways politicians are compromised?
Did some hidden interest group somewhere move Judge Bozzuto up the state’s judicial branch to push the new moral standards everyone sees everywhere today?
Do Connecticut citizens have a right to know why the Chief Court Administrator for the Connecticut Judicial Branch’s divorce case is sealed?
In 2015, Ted Taupier was sentenced to 1 ½ years in a Connecticut jail for venting his anger about Judge Bozzuto. He called her “a nanny f*cker”. He was angry because she was in full control of his life and in full control of his children’s lives in his divorce case. Did Ted have a right to be angry that a judge with such different moral standards was micromanaging his life and the lives of his children?
Ted’s anger about Judge Bozzuto controlling his case got him arrested and eventually sent him to jail. Ted said he had a right to be angry and he had a right to express his anger. Paul Boyne seems to have started his “Family Court Circus” blog to show support for Ted’s righteous anger and for Ted’s First Amendment rights.
Some say Paul pushed the boundaries of First Amendment Rights to prove a point and to expose the corruption in Connecticut family courts.
Ted was silenced, then Paul was silenced and Judge Moukawsher is resigning, retiring and writing articles about what Connecticut courts should and shouldn’t do about allegations about family court corruption.
And, no one seems to know where Paul Boyne is now.
The Connecticut examiner. June 2023. Legislation aimed at redefinition of sexual orientation. 21 republican opposed the language in concern it supports pediphia. With language such as sexual attraction. Governor Ned Lamont anxious to sign the bill. Democrat Steven Stafstrom of Bridgeport head of the judiciary committee admittedly defending the legislation without the consideration and consequence possibly to minors in the state of Connecticut. Are the Democrats in Connecticut leading the way to open the gate to pediphia through family court and legislation? Connecticut the leader and the head of the snake. Frank has uncovered a long history through family court and the Catholic Church in Connecticut. The Republicans should absolutely be concerned about the safety and well-being of the residents in the state.
https://rense.com/political/childabusecase.htm
Linda Wiegand case set the stage for Connecticut family court pedophiles:
https://familycourtinamerica.com/family-law-practice-state/connecticut-family-court/connecticut-family-court-ted-gunderson-linda-weigand/
The oldest son missing his mother ended his life. Sleep with a picture of his Mom under his pillow. Richard Blumenthal D-CT was the attorney general while the case going on.
The holy Grail of pediphia protection started in Hartford and migrated
February 2018. Navy Seals bust Connecticut pediphia ring. Over 4 thousand hits in 24 hours for an online decoy possing as a 12 year old girl. 40 aggressively persued an encounter. 5 men were arrested in Gilford CT. Connecticut is not safe! Bring on the Navy Seals to Connecticut family court. There are plenty of pedophiles in Connecticut. Thousands.
What Alfred Kinsey, Hollywood and the Nazis have to do with those “4 thousand hits in 24 hours”:
… The Kinsey Coverup refers to the paid efforts of the mass media and the Kinsey Institute scientific establishment lobby to hide the facts of child sex abuse and fraud as the basis of Kinsey’s alleged “scientific data” on human sexuality. Spiking legislative investigations into these barbaric “scientific” crimes and Liam Neeson’s glossy portrayal of Kinsey in the 2004 Kinseyfeature film, qualify as part of this 60 year plus cover-up …
https://www.thereismaninstitute.org/the-kinsey-coverup