CT is becoming a hot destination for affluent pedophiles, a safe haven and a good place to ditch a stay at home mother who’s aged out and is too inhibited for the lifestyle that some say most want to practice.
It may be so. But how about this lively missive from a man identifying himself as Mr. Rose.
By Jeffrey B. Rose
I hanker for some throbbing, sweet-moaning, physical but not necessarily coital, relation with a boy-child.
I am an innocuous, inadequate, passive, timid man who merely asks the community to allow me to pursue my practically harmless, so-called aberrant behavior.
My little hot wet private acts of sexual deviation without the police and society cracking down upon me.
I will never forget it.
His little boy, they said, when my neighbors found out from my hysterical mentally disordered wife.
People looked at me like I was an animal. People who don’t know me judged me. I remember one man sitting there condemning me, and I could imagine what he was thinking: “There’s a pedophile!”
I later discovered his character. And I’ll tell you. It outweighed anything I’d ever done. He stole $12,000 from a person’s credit card.
In my case, they wanted to consider the so-called “sexually abused” child the victim, though the child seduced me.
Dr. Gardner Knows
If the mother has reacted to the abuse in a hysterical fashion, or used it as an excuse for a campaign of denigration of the father, then the therapist does well to try and ‘sober her up’… Her hysterics… will contribute to the child’s feeling that a heinous crime has been committed, and will thereby lessen the likelihood of any kind of rapprochement with the father. One has to do everything possible to help her put the ‘crime’ in proper perspective. She has to be helped to appreciate that in most societies in the history of the world, such behavior was ubiquitous, and this is still the case. – Dr. Richard Gardner
I agree with Dr. Richard Gardner that it is essential to appreciate that the child enjoyed his experience. He is not a victim. Children who are coerced and gain no pleasure might be considered raped. But they are not the same as those who enjoy orgasms like David.
Sexual encounters between a kind adult and a child are not reprehensible.
Judge around every courtroom. They seem to smile and say, “We don’t care what your fetish is, dad, we’ll never take your kids away.”
Most US states have an exaggeratedly punitive and moralistic attitude about adult-child sexual encounters.
In my case, the mother reacted hysterically and used it as an excuse to denigrate me and alienate my children.
CT protected me.
Her hysterics contributed to David’s feeling that a heinous crime had been committed, and lessened the likelihood of happiness between us. The only remedy was to remove the mother because of parental alienation.
In most societies in the history of the world, my behavior was common. This is still the case. My behavior has been more common than the restrained behavior of those who do not have sex with children.
If you don’t know this already, you need to appreciate that pedophilia has been considered the norm by the vast majority in the history of the world.
Family Court Judges, like Gerard Aldelman, follow Dr. Richard Gardner in CT.
It is a widespread and accepted practice among billions of people.
CT Family Court has been the first in the USA to accept and appreciate it. They follow the wisdom of Dr. Richard Gardner.
I got custody, and she was removed from my children’s lives.
Outside of CT, society takes a very punitive and moralistic attitude. I urge you, my brothers, good fathers all, to come to CT
Outside of CT, men in America have bad luck regarding the place and time they were born regarding social attitudes toward pedophilia.
A sexual encounter between an adult and a child — no matter how short, tender, loving, and non-painful — automatically and predictably is considered “psychologically traumatic” to the child, but that is only because of the social attitude toward these encounters outside of CT.
David’s mother had been raped, but she did not achieve an orgasm. That was why she was so punitive. A vibrator could have been useful to overcome her inhibitions. Her diminished guilt over masturbation would have made it easier for her to encourage the practice with our daughter Amber.
Her increased sexuality may have reduced my need to return to David for sexual gratification.
Finally, I want you to understand that I am not a sex fiend! I do not rape as soldiers do.
I am unhappy, mild, dog-eyed man, sufficiently well integrated to control my urge in the presence of adults, but ready to risk my life to help my children.
That which is desirable in young boys and girls means naturally that which is desirable to men. Of all cultivated accomplishments, the first is ‘innocence.’ Beauty may or may not be forthcoming, but ‘innocence’ is ‘the chief charm of childhood.
If possible, get your wife to retain Edward Nusbaum for her attorney. He’ll cut a deal, in my opinion, with your attorney to fleece her and set her up for loss.
Once I moved to CT, I never worried about it. I understood that what I was doing was not to be discussed openly with the Gaurdian, as Litem, my attorney, her attorney, the therapists, the custody evaluator, or the judge.
We are all adults and view it as a parental prerogative; it is a fun sort of confidential activity.
None of my CT fellows had any guilty feelings about it.
We figured everyone did it. Why shouldn’t we?
Don’t risk it. Come to CT. The climate is fine.
If Toni Fly had lived in CT instead of North Dakota, he’d be a free man/woman today.
Always a safe choice for guardian ad litem, Jocelyn Hurwitz of Cohen and Wolfpack.
CT family portrait – sans mother. She alienated the children.
Dr. Jessica Biren-Caverly: After two meetings with the mother, I realized the mother presented with signs of an unspecified personality disorder. The father, who pays my $16,000 fee, is better suited to take care of the children. The best way is for the children to have no contact with the mother.
The AFCC may tacitly support pedophiles, but only because they pay well.
While some of us might prefer to hurl a brick at Mr. Rose’s head, witch hunt him and consign him to hell, or take a knife and cure his pedophilia with one sharp and fast orchidotomy, I prefer non violence and urge people to advocate for change.
The best remedy I can think of is to require family court trials to convene 12-person juries, so the judge does not have unilateral control of the fortunes of the children. This way, the community has a view of the matter and will be less tolerant of pedophilia.
Custody will not be decided behind closed doors at ex parte hearings, but in front of 12 people drawn from the community.
Despite what the pedos Rose and Gardner say, most people are not pedos who want to rape their children – even in CT.